When given the silent treatment does it ever feel deserved?!
Question: When given the silent treatment does it ever feel deserved!?
What could one ever do so bad as to be ignored in such a manner!? Explain!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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there are only few bad things i could think of to constitute me ignoring a lover!. one would be if i caught him cheating and it happens not just once but a lot of times and if the relationship has gone sour but the feelings is still there!. like when i finally made my mind to end it but i dont want my emotion to challenge if we talk once again, especially face to face!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Giving the silent treatment is juvenile and solves nothing!. The only way to fix a problem is to discuss it, and come up with a solution to the problem that both parties are happy with!. So, to answer your question, no I do not feel like it would be deserved, or that anyone should be ignored for doing something "bad"!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
When I was young(er)!! and dating, if I caught him cheating on me, I was just disappearing!. Not answering phones, checking the street before going out my house so that I wouldn't meet him, not going places I knew he was!. I was completely disappearing, without one word!. Not one complain, no "why", no "I know you cheat", no nothing!. As if a car had passed over me after a perfect date! I think , this can be counted as silent treatment!. The two times it had happened this way, it drove them crazy and filled them with guilt !. I was soooo happy about it!!
Now, I have grown up and I never give to anyone silent treatment!. I believe my wrath is more poisonous than my silence!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Now, I have grown up and I never give to anyone silent treatment!. I believe my wrath is more poisonous than my silence!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I don't find that a harsh punishment!. On the contrary, their determination to not respond to my challenges makes me feel like they have no reply and accept me as victorious I don't understand why people advise you to ignore annoying people and bullies because when I'm one of them I can read the fear or annoyance in the other one's behavior which is just as good as responding to my challenge!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well!. i'm a sensitive person, so usually i don't confront and face the problem!. usually i just give silent treatments, then at the last given moment i attack them in a subtle format!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
sometime it is the only thing though!.
if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it at all!.
it is better than saying something that you might later regret!.
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if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it at all!.
it is better than saying something that you might later regret!.
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what the hell is wrong with your face!?Www@Enter-QA@Com