Help . . .! I didn't think my relationship with this Gemini was going anywhe!
Question: And I couldn't get him to commit to long term. So I decided to leave but everytime I even suggested or attempted to take action in this regard he would literally beg me to take him back, and I usually did .
However, as I basically did not want a short term relationship I decided to try yet again to leave, manufacturing all sorts of mis-communicating and mis-understandings.
But now he stopped calling me ( as if he had had enough) and as if he stopped caring about me anywhich way or the other.
Howcome I feel down? isn't it what I wanted ?
I still dont want us to get back together if there's no long term commitment on his side.
What's the deal? and how can I get over him once and for all?
Was it all a game from his side or a BIG LIE?
We have been together for 7 months.
I am a Capricorn
I feel hurt and cheated
Answers: And I couldn't get him to commit to long term. So I decided to leave but everytime I even suggested or attempted to take action in this regard he would literally beg me to take him back, and I usually did .
However, as I basically did not want a short term relationship I decided to try yet again to leave, manufacturing all sorts of mis-communicating and mis-understandings.
But now he stopped calling me ( as if he had had enough) and as if he stopped caring about me anywhich way or the other.
Howcome I feel down? isn't it what I wanted ?
I still dont want us to get back together if there's no long term commitment on his side.
What's the deal? and how can I get over him once and for all?
Was it all a game from his side or a BIG LIE?
We have been together for 7 months.
I am a Capricorn
I feel hurt and cheated
well on starsigns gemini, libra and aquarius are all pretty much alike..... we hate being trapped or felt like we are. this is how i think he felt by you constantly reminding him that he was going to be in a long term relationship.
thats not to say we avoid them but we take our time before we show our emotions and relate in an open way to people. this may have been the case if you had entered into a short term relationship with him it would have quite easily ended up in a long term relationship because once we open up even slightly, despite being very social we open up to people very slowly, he would have felt a bond most other people wouldnt have and had a long term relationship with you.
regarding why he hasnt called you, you obviously hurt him as he was probably starting to open up to you. being an air sign he will wait for you to call him.
now apast from starsigns in reality you broke up with him its up to you to fix it. you have to show him how much you like him for him to even consider taking him back. ITS UP TO YOU TO FIX THIS PROBLEM
glad i could help ! ! !
take it slow and don't rush things enjoy each other for each others sake
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