DRAMA please HELP !!! :(?!
Question: DRAMA please HELP !!! :(!?
Ok heres the deal, my best friend 'katie', who i love, and whatever has recently broke up with her bf of two years, and seems ok about it!.!.!.!.but ever since shes been scoring loads of guys, which is fine but it got annoying when she had basically made her way through a good few of our friends including this guy i had already told her i liked!.!.!.and just the other night, i was out with her and we bumped into one of my other friends who she doesnt know, who is probably my best guy friend, and i literally love him, hes asked me out tonnes of times but i refused cos i feared for our friendship etc!.!.!.so anyway im in work yesterday and she arrives in with no one else but my friend!.!.!.and is all like oh yeah i really like him but i think he's seeing someone so im not guna score him unless they finish or watever!.!.!.and somehow i feel betrayed or hurt and i dont know why cos i dont think ive feelings for him or anything but yet i feel she'll just hurt him and end it after 2 or 3 weeks like all the others!.!.!.i dont know what way to tell her how i feel without her thinkn ive feelings for him ya kno!.!.!.so could you guys help me please!.!.!.wat do ya think i should do!? or like do u think im over reacting or anything reallly would be of help!.!.!.PLEASE!.!.!.xWww@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
You really need to be honest with your friend!. If you are as close as you say, then you should be able to tell her anything!. also, if you are that close, she should take any information from you as good advice!. Maybe it would be easier if you had a talk with both of them and told them both that you really care about them both!.!.!.!.!.!. then tell them how you feel about their relationship!. If you did that way, then neither one could go back to the other and change your words around!. If they can't take you telling them the truth about how you feel, if it really bothers you, then they aren't as good a friend as you think!. A good friend is worth more than a relationship that may not last two weeks!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Katie is self harming because she is hurting emotionally from the real love break up she has gone through!.
You can say to her that you will not stand for her treading on your toes regarding your friendships with guys, but I think this will be fuel for her self harming journey to get over her loss!.
You can't be the door mat and equality not martydom is a true friendship!.
Hope this and the links help!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You can say to her that you will not stand for her treading on your toes regarding your friendships with guys, but I think this will be fuel for her self harming journey to get over her loss!.
You can't be the door mat and equality not martydom is a true friendship!.
Hope this and the links help!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well obviously you care for him cus he is kinda your best friend!. You should let her know that it bothers you for her to be all into him like that, and if she wishes to be with him to please try not to hurt him cus he means a lot to you!. let her know how you feel!. dont hide your feelings for her,Www@Enter-QA@Com
Just tell her that she should really think about how much she actually likes him before she does anything that could potentially hurt him!. Or you could maybe warn your guy friend about this girl!. If he really likes you the way you say, then he should listen to you and trust you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Tell your friend that just because shes single now, it doesn't give her the right to be a whore
and to please not date your good friend, because you don't want him to get a disease
that should work pretty wellWww@Enter-QA@Com
and to please not date your good friend, because you don't want him to get a disease
that should work pretty wellWww@Enter-QA@Com
Tell her hands off of your freind!. Because lets face it, you feel something or it would'nt be an issue!. and also tell your freind to stop being a whore!. I think it's terrible!. Ninfo!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
nope i dont think you're over reacting !. i personally would hate to have a friend like yours thats just messed up!.i think you shouldnt care what she thinks just flat out tell her!.okayWww@Enter-QA@Com
its to late, you had you oppurtunity and you passed on it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Just be honest, or your friendship will be over!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
o **** i didnt even read that all
LOL so **** this **** haWww@Enter-QA@Com
LOL so **** this **** haWww@Enter-QA@Com
Well i have been in the same situation my BFF hooked me and a guy up and he talked to her more than me and we were talking!!!!! So now they are dating its soo anoying because there all like oh BABY and stuff and im sitting there like ooookkkk!!! i think you should be like hey "friend" i need to talk to you because i really like "who ever the guy is" and i want to date him its just that i dont want to wreck our good friendship!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.well i hope this works i also think you should talk to the guy also and just explain to him how you feel!.!.!.!!!!!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com