GH...Is Jason right for not claiming his son in order to protect him?!
Question: I am torn about it because as much as I love Jason, the kid is probably physically safer without being in his life full time but on the other hand, Jason loves that kid so much and wants to be a father so badly.
Answers: I am torn about it because as much as I love Jason, the kid is probably physically safer without being in his life full time but on the other hand, Jason loves that kid so much and wants to be a father so badly.
I am torn too. It makes me sad he isn;t with his son, but look what has happened to Sonny's kids. He is only doing what he thinks is right to protect him.
I wish he would just come out with it
Lucky will probably be a better father.
I love Jason too but i do believe he would be safer if he would not say that he was his son but on the other hand i would be just thrilled to death if it came out that Jake was Jason son.
Don't feel too badly for Jason, sometimes even in real life when we make choices, we then have to live with the consequences. I see no chance of Jason getting his son back at this time, mainly because of Liz and her decisions and actions to date. Of course, as I have said before, it really is not a secret any longer if several of the major characters on the show other than Liz and Jason already know that Jason is the natural father of Jake. While Lucky may be loving as a dad and certainly apparently willing for most of the world to think he is Jake's natural father, it is absurd to think that Jake can just go through his childhood and grow up without at some point learning the truth himself: After all, there are already multiple sources and the children of multiple sources who would happily or even for that matter unknowingly fill Jake in. If Jason wants to be a loving father to his son, he should claim his son; and I certainly hope he will do so very soon before Liz, in her stupidity, does something else that prevents that from happening.
It'll come out eventually. For now, he can keep the kid safe by keeping the paternity a secret, and now that he and Liz are an item he'll be able to see the kid.
no he's wrong. liz may think she is doing the right thing for the right reasons but its the wrong thing to do. jason has proven more times than necessary that he is capable of protecting the ones he loves. accidents happen and nothing is certain, except that jason will do his best. what they are doing is unnecessary. the times that jake have been put in danger had nothing to do with jason(the fire). in the long run this will only hurt jake. liz is only thinking about herself, if she was really thinking about her son she would realise that the best thing is to let him be a part of his father's life. jake is missing out on getting to know his father and the rest of his family. jason is missing out on all of jake's important 1sts. and even tho lucky happily accepts raising jake as his own its unfair to put all that responsibility and happiness on him when it could all potentially get pulled away if jason claims jake. i blame liz for this mess cuz jason loves kids and would be such a good father and jakes needs him.
I wish jason would claim his son though. Yea! I like lucky be Jake's' dad. But - i wan to see elizabeth's lies exposed once and for all. Then - everyone will know Elizabeth has been lying for almost a year and half while she expose all Sam's lies. The truth needs to come out. Because everyone will know that Elizabeth is a little hypocritic that she is. She thinks she can get away with lying and protecting her own sorry butt. And not have to pay the price for all the people that she has hurt and lied to - for months.
I totally agree with Micheal here.My opinion 2
As much as I love Jason and his whole story line, I am so SICK of it. GH writers need to get on with the story lines and make them go somewhere. They are worried about viewership rates going down? Drawing out a story for a year isn't going to help!
I've stopped watching the show and get on here to read whats been going on because its taking so long to get anything going on the show these past six months.
I wish he and Liz would just admit it, so something else can happen in relationship to their admission..
Jake is definitely safer without being in Jason's life but I still want them to be together. Jason is wonderful with children and Cam adores him. I don't think any child should have to grow up without their father in their life.
I think it's wrong for him not to claim his son. I mean, I see where he's coming from, actually. But in the end...it all comes down to choices, right?
Ok, let me start fromt he begining. He choose to sleep w/Liz, and he knew that sex can lead to kids. Even if the condom wasn't defective, even non-defective condoms are not 100%. So, he knew there was a chance that one day, a woman he slept w/could get pregnant.
And he also knew that what he did for a living was dangerous. He knew he did not want to subject his child to that lifestyle. So, when he found out Liz was pregnant, he had a choice to make. Stay in the mob and give up his kid...or give up the mob and be a father. And he made his choice.
Do I think Jason would be a good father? Yes, I do. On top of that, I think it's wrong to lie to someone about who their mother and father is. Our parents are a part of us and who we are. To keep that from someone, is like you're keeping them away from a part of themselves. Right now Jake is a baby so they can still make things right. But, once he's older and can understand...well, let's say Lucky raises him and then when Jake is a teenager or adult, he finds out Jason is his dad. How do you think he'll feel? Do you think he'll appreciate the fact that Jason and Liz lied to keep him safe? Or do you think he'll feel like his parents (Lucky and Liz), the people he trusted the most in the world, betrayed him? And do you think he'll think it was noble for Jason to give him up or do you think he'll reject Jason and be angry at him for not loving him enough to just give up the mob instead?
I think, despite how dangerous it could be, that the truth should come out and that Jason should claim his son. I think, in the long run, it's just going to hurt the person he's trying to protect, if he doesn't set things right, and soon.
I understand that Liz is scared (and rightly so), but she too, is an adult and she was aware of what could happen by sleeping w/Jason. So, she needs to take responsibility as well, and not try to hide the truth anymore, b/c I don't think her son would appreciate it, when he gets older. Besides that, Jason and Liz can't seem to stay away from each other, and they have been careless. Liz goes to see Jason at the coffeehouse all the time, w/o even buying coffee as a cover. They talk about their relationship and secret all the time, sometimes in public places. Anyone could hear. Anyone could follow her when she goes to see Jason at the safehouse. All that needs to happen is for one of Jason's enemies to find out about Liz and Jason and she would be in danger anyway, as would her kids. So, instead of sneaking around, it would be healthier for everyone if the secret just came out and everything was out in the open. And if Jason really feels that his job will put Jake in danger (which, it would), then he needs to find a new job. Simple as that.
I do not agree that the kid is safer with or without him either, he could have died in the fire that cam sent, or in a drunk driving accident that Monica was in, we are not guaranteed a safe trip thru life no matter how safe we try and make it....its like wearing a crips white shirt while eating a bit place of spaghetti, the more we try and not get anything on the nice white shirt the more likely we are to drop a meatball clear down the front of it.
It's his own personal choice, but personally I wish he would come out and claim him. I wish Liz and Jason could just show their love openly along with their child.
Good heavens half the populace of PC know about this already. Sooner or later it will be right out there due to some event or another.
I think he should should just claim his son and this liz and jason thing should just happen already. I personally dont like the pairing but if they become a family soon they will break up sooner so I dont have to see them. By the way people jake is not liz's only child what about camron his father is dead and lucky's the only father he knows is it fair to confuse the poor kid and have jason be his father too.
I think Jason should give up the mob to be with his son, but I guess with Jason, his son will always come second.
NO,I cannot believe how tough Jason is in every other aspect of his life,but he let's Liz lead him around by the nose and do whatever the hell she tells him to.If he had his way they would have been a family for a while ,living together and Jake would have been as safe as anyone else living in the biggest little mob city on daytime tv.
No he is not right and he would have claimed his son by now is Lizabitch would let him. Everytime he trys to talk to her about it she freaks and comments about how she thought they had agreed that it was safer and blah blah blah. Jason would make a great dad but Liz is too much of a baby to trust him to protect her and Jake. If she truely loved him trust would be a big part of that and since she doesn't trust him then what is she up to now. Is she only with Jason because she hates Sam so much that she wants to keep him away from her?
I can see what distress this must have on you - why don't you try turning off the tv for a while and finding something productive to do with your time? Something obviously less stressful...