What is the bachelor Brad thinking?!
Question: I am so mad the way the finale on the bachelor ended tonight! Why did he do what he did??? I need help understand his thinking. I loved deanna and she was so genuine.
Answers: I am so mad the way the finale on the bachelor ended tonight! Why did he do what he did??? I need help understand his thinking. I loved deanna and she was so genuine.
Ya know I am pretty ticked off myself about the ending. ya know people can say its because he didnt feel the connection or what not but he didnt even try to continue dating either girl either. Which he couldve done. I say it was only for the publicity thats all he wanted! Hes a liar and full of crap! Tomorrow nights show will be interesting.
oooh say what happened!!! who did he choose?
I'm glad he didn't propose to either of them, he knew he had no love there , better then them breaking up in a few months ,,,,, nice job brad
ya I know didnt he have a contract with tv saying he had to marry one these woman? Maybe he met someone else on the side, I dont know Im gonna watch the enquire to see what they come up with abnout it. Dont forget to wach it tomorow.
Yeah - it would have helped at least one girl "save face" if he had said - "let's date and see what happens" kind of like the Officer did. Instead, he totally humiliated Deanna. I thought they actually had a chance to last forever if they got married. I was so sad for her.
The only thing I can figure is - maybe he thought if he had such strong feelings for both girls, then he shouldn't marry either, but he could have done it with more class!
They kept saying a last minute decision changed everything. I think that he planned to propose to DeAnna, but standing there in that moment realized that it was all hype & his heart wasn't in it. I think that's why he walked away. I think he had to take a moment to decide if it was just cold feet or if he truly wasn't in love with her & he decided the latter.
I'm not shocked. They've told us ALL season that this was the most shocking final rose ceremony EVER! My friends & I decided weeks ago that either his final choice would say no or he'd bail. After last week, when he never said he was in love & just kept saying that he followed his heart, I knew that he wasn't going to pick either of them. I would have been more shocked if he had.
I have a lot of respect for Brad to have not allowed himself to be pressured into a relationship. Where did we get the idea that a bunch of TV producers could select 25 people & that one of them HAD to be the PERFECT person for you?!?! That's nuts & that pressure is why most of "The Bachelor" relationships have failed.
I know those girls were hurt, but it would have hurt them A LOT more if he had chosen one of them to save face & then dumped them. Then everyone would have called him a jerk for leading them on. Give him some credit for realizing that this was going too far!
For those of you accusing him of being in it for the sex, “it takes two to tango”. Those girls made their own choices about that. There have been PLENTY of past couples who went to the fantasy suite & made it a point for us to know that they DIDN’T have sex. I think they made bad decisions there (& yes, so did he), but they’re not guiltless on that point.
You are so right!! He is a total loser and was not good enough for any of those women especially Deanna who is so smart, loyal and confident. From day one I thought he was immature, classless and uneducated, and halfway through the season I realized he was crazy when he called the lovely Hilary a "friend only." I thought there was a problem with him when I saw that. He looked like a total spazz up there tonight! Really he did everyone a favor by rejecting them; they got to see his true colors. But how can he live with himself now? This was THE worst show of all of them. I am ready for them to do a Bachelorette show.
You do know that this show is fake right. They tell the girls from the beginning who is going so far and who will win. They just needed a new ending the show. That was why he didnt pick anyone.
OMG! I couldnt beleive it last night that he would pick DeAnna because it did look like he was falling in love with her....Jenny not so much. But when he told her to hold on and started walking around I thought he was playing it out and wanted to throw her off or something but to not choose either one of them is crazy! The whole concept of the show is crazy but I mean a twist like this does get you dissapointed. But I mean the thing is you have to follow your heart and do what it says. Not what some show tells you to do. Ahh..still lots of frustrastion going throught my head!!!