DO YOU THINK IT IS WONG.......PLEASE HELP?!
Question: DO YOU THINK IT IS WONG!.!.!.!.!.!.!.PLEASE HELP!?
Im a mother of two!.I been going to the gym for a couple months now, getting sexy for my man!. He's in the desert!. So do you think it is wrong that it makes me feel good when i get a cute a** guy tells me im sexy as hell, or have him try to get at me!? i don't do anything you know i just say thank you, but some part of me feels guilty for feelin good about a guy tellin me that while my man is gone!. what do you think!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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As long as you aren't intentionally trying to get other guy's attention, there's nothing wrong with it and you shouldn't feel guilty! Every woman likes to be told she looks good, you are probably just worried because your husband is away, if he was home you probably wouldn't think anything of it!! At least you know your hard work at the gym is paying off and you will be in excellent shape when your husband gets home!Www@Enter-QA@Com
All of us feel good when complimented by another!. Whether it's our appearance, personality or a pat on the back for a job well done, that little ego boost feels great and can be very addictive!. However, this is something you should try to keep in check!. Flattery - and that is essentially what this is - is a powerful and often destructive thing!. People who become reliant on flattery to prop up their self-esteem risk shattering blows to their confidence if they are ever insulted!.
You may not be able to control what other people say to you, and you seem to be on the right track in simply thanking them and moving on!. But if you ever start going to the gym JUST for the male attention you know you'll get, that's the time to ask yourself if you're putting too much stock into the compliments of others!. True self-esteem - well, it's in the name - comes from yourself!. Don't leave it in the hands of others!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You may not be able to control what other people say to you, and you seem to be on the right track in simply thanking them and moving on!. But if you ever start going to the gym JUST for the male attention you know you'll get, that's the time to ask yourself if you're putting too much stock into the compliments of others!. True self-esteem - well, it's in the name - comes from yourself!. Don't leave it in the hands of others!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i know!.!.!. LDR stuffs!.!. you feel guilty because you love your man!.!.!. but he is far!.!. and you have a fear at the back of the mind of what might happen, is he ok, how he gana take this if he knows and crap!.!.!. but its a mixed emotion!.!. he is not here or around!.!. its like you are a statue that no one sees until those guys started to hit on ye!.!.!. you have been reserving yourself for him but other crows are flying but anyway just enjoy the compliments!.!. they are not touching you or anything!.!. i bet Mr!. would have been happy if he got compliments from other gals!.!. but anyway!.!.!. just dn't get overwhelmed by cute as hell or stuff coz guys prey on anything that moves and has biubyz and a bootyz!.!.lol xD jkWww@Enter-QA@Com
No you shouldn't feel guilty!. You are doing nothing wrong, and there is no one that doesn't like to hear that someone thinks that they are attractive, or smart, or does their job well, or w/e!. You're trying to look good for your man and they are affirming the fact that you do!. Just say thank you; while on the inside you're saying, "I know, right!?" Ha!
Don't worry about it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Don't worry about it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Your intentions are for your husband, right!? You can't help it if another man finds you attractive, and every woman naturally loves to hear that she looks good!. As long as you stay faithful to your husband and become nothing closer than friends with these men, you are doing nothing wrong!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I don't think thats wrong!.
Your man is gone, so you need somebody to tell you the things he usually does, and i dont mean to replace him!.
Its fine if you feel good about it, everyone feels good when given a compliment, as long as thats all you doWww@Enter-QA@Com
Your man is gone, so you need somebody to tell you the things he usually does, and i dont mean to replace him!.
Its fine if you feel good about it, everyone feels good when given a compliment, as long as thats all you doWww@Enter-QA@Com
Well!.
I've been in the desert!.
And my exwife, would tell me stuff like that!. All happy, and ecstatic, because people were looking at her and complimenting her!.
And it made my being over there, completely miserable!.
And now she's an ex!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I've been in the desert!.
And my exwife, would tell me stuff like that!. All happy, and ecstatic, because people were looking at her and complimenting her!.
And it made my being over there, completely miserable!.
And now she's an ex!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It means that you have low self esteem, very low!. You should be offended that some guy other than your hubby is trying to "holla" at you!. Your husband is doing a noble thing so don't let these other guys disrespect you like that!. Flirting often leads to further thoughts and actions!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm married and certainly not dead!. It feels good to have someone else appreciate my beauty that is not my husband; makes me still know I got it going on but I know that the object of my affection is my man and nothing else!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
No girl, that's not wrong!!
If you're sexy, you have the right to know it!. ;)
The guy just told you the truth, there's nothing wrong with that!.
As long as it's just that, it's fine!Www@Enter-QA@Com
If you're sexy, you have the right to know it!. ;)
The guy just told you the truth, there's nothing wrong with that!.
As long as it's just that, it's fine!Www@Enter-QA@Com
don't feel guilty as long as your not cheating or doing anything to hurt your guy don't worry!. we're all shallow(not in a bad way ha) creatures and love to have our egos stroked!. i bet he'd be happy when a cute girl said he was hot!. its normal!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I totally get what you mean!. It's flattering and normal to feel thay way!. Just don't do anything about it!. But it's not good that you feel this way while you're guy is gone!. Try to feel good for himWww@Enter-QA@Com
It's ok, but unless you want to keep playing with fire, tell him you are not looking for outside help and that your husband is overseas fighting in the war
Oh, thank you for serving tooWww@Enter-QA@Com
Oh, thank you for serving tooWww@Enter-QA@Com
As long as you do not do anything else but say 'thanks', I don't see anything wrong!. Feel good about yourself getting all those positive compliments!. And I'm sure your man will appreciate the great shape you've been keeping your body in!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
no it is not wrong
but it is the first step to cheating
we all like to get complements
as long as you did not ask for them
enjoy that men find you attractive
but do not flirt when your hubby comes homeWww@Enter-QA@Com
but it is the first step to cheating
we all like to get complements
as long as you did not ask for them
enjoy that men find you attractive
but do not flirt when your hubby comes homeWww@Enter-QA@Com
Nothing wrong about it at all! It just shows that other people think your sexy too! So it's not just your bf reassuring you that your pretty when you really oogly!.!. So strut your sexy stuff girl! Not a thing wrong with it :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
it's wrong if you lead them on but if it happens by accident just say thanks!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
There is nothing wrong with that!. Just don't flirt back or try to pursue someone!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes!. Because you are entertaining the thought of being with someone!. At least that is what it sounds like when reading between the lines!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It sounds to me that you are thinking about "wong"!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Enjoy it!. Nothing wrong with it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
there's nothing wrong with enjoying a compliment!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
No it's not WONGWww@Enter-QA@Com
i dont think that is wrong, its just a compliment!. and you feel good that you recieved itWww@Enter-QA@Com
not at all, you go sexy momma!Www@Enter-QA@Com
as long as ur not doing anything or leading them on you're okay!. some people just feel the need to say whats on their mind, whether its welcomed or not!. so dont worry about it :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
never feel bad about feeling good about yourself, just don't get into a situation you will regretWww@Enter-QA@Com
yesWww@Enter-QA@Com
thats very badWww@Enter-QA@Com
Its okay!.!.
he's complimenting you of course ur gonna feel good about that, as long as ur not doing anything i don't see a problem!.!.!.congrats u look good! ur hard work paid offWww@Enter-QA@Com
he's complimenting you of course ur gonna feel good about that, as long as ur not doing anything i don't see a problem!.!.!.congrats u look good! ur hard work paid offWww@Enter-QA@Com