Married men! I need your advice!?!


Question: Married men! I need your advice!!?
It seems like I am always having to tell my husband what is appropriate behavior for a married man!. It gets old and I feel like a *****!. First it was telling him his friend's girlfriends shouldn't be calling my husband's cell!. Then it was he shouldn't be hanging out with girls from work w/o other people around!. Then it was that 1 of his baby's mamma's shouldn't be hanging out and his parent's house all the time making me uncomfortable!.!.!.

Anyway, now his other baby's mamma is always texting him pics of herself!. Kissing or whatever!. I'm tired of complaining!. How should I handle this w/o being a nag to him or her!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


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Do as you want to do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I don't think there is a way to handle it where he isn't going to think you're nagging!. He's a douche for a husband, sorry but it's true!. You shouldn't have to tell him these things!.

You shouldn't feel bad for telling him how you feel about these things!.!.!. since it is his repeated behavior that's forcing you to complain!. If he wants you to stop, he needs to stop!. It's cause and effect!. Don't have girls texting you, etc!. if you don't want your wife to be unhappy and complaining about it!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

You need to work on self-empowerment and dump this @sshole before he screws up your life irrevocably! Guys like that are just a wife-beating S!.O!.B!. waiting for a place to start!. Leave now and save yourself further grief!

(Yes, I am a married man who has had to help a woman retain self worth a time or two!.)Www@Enter-QA@Com

You married a scum-bag!. Your obviously not his first priority!. You deserve better!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Go on the Maury show and let them deal with him!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Not married, but I have been!.

Your tendency to want to control and comment on everything in his life suggests your own uncertainty and insecurity!. I'm not judging that--you may have good reasons for that insecurity and you may not!. But it certainly means that you do NOT have a healthy relationship!.

That said, your husband has the right to have whatever friends he has, men or women!. Either you have REASONS to be suspicious or you don't!. If you have reasons, you should dump him!. If you don't have reasons, he should dump you!.

But don't listen if you don't want to--spend thousands of dollars in therapy, go through heartbreak and agony, and come to the same conclusion three years from now!.

Edit--

Okay, you want to make some kind of nasty comment with implications, then that's fine!. You asked for the advice!. But let me state, and FOR THE RECORD!.

A relationship that is based on jealousy and suspicion is not healthy!. Obviously, now, you have given new information--that there is a double standard going on!. Even more reason to suspect this isn't healthy!.

But whatever--go ahead with your Jerry Springer life!. Maybe some day you'll get your 15 minutes of fame!. Hope it works for you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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