Why are some people so desperate for love/mate?!
Question: Why are some people so desperate for love/mate!?
Please give me your opinions!? I mean some would date a low-life, meanie, abuser, cheater, etc!.!. just to have someone!. What are your reasons you think on why they do this!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Because some people are full of love, and want to express it!. Keep it in feels depressing!. Some express it onto a pet, or pour it into a volunteer project, or even to their precious car (some guys do that)!. Some are loving towards the sick or a cause but even all of these people, they would rather have that one person to pour their heart onto, even at the cost of abuse or unreturned love from them!. They are "givers" and like to give and please and that's what keeps them happy!. I think those people are great, even though the cold loveless ones point fingers at them and call them pathetic!.
I respect someone loving for 10 years even if it's a person who doesn't love them 100% back, than to keep it all to themselves just waiting for that "someone" to come along! I might be totally off, but this is just my immediate opinion! They do it not so much FOR love or to RECEIVE love, but rather to GIVE love, with the HOPE that the person they are giving to might come to give some back! It is the hope that keeps them going, it is hope that keeps all of us going, for one thing or another!. Those who have a great need for love want a nourished soul, just like a hungry peson has a great need to fill their stomach!. Both are good for the body!. I'd say those who can go on for years and years without a mate or need for love have a robotic tinge to their soul - cold and unloving!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I respect someone loving for 10 years even if it's a person who doesn't love them 100% back, than to keep it all to themselves just waiting for that "someone" to come along! I might be totally off, but this is just my immediate opinion! They do it not so much FOR love or to RECEIVE love, but rather to GIVE love, with the HOPE that the person they are giving to might come to give some back! It is the hope that keeps them going, it is hope that keeps all of us going, for one thing or another!. Those who have a great need for love want a nourished soul, just like a hungry peson has a great need to fill their stomach!. Both are good for the body!. I'd say those who can go on for years and years without a mate or need for love have a robotic tinge to their soul - cold and unloving!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Almost everyone wants someone to love them!. They can end up alone for lots of reasons, like poverty, being unattractive, self isolation, or simply not being around like minded available people!.
Once they've convinced themselves, for whatever reason (legitimate or not) that they aren't lovable, they cling to whoever comes along who gives them the time of day!. They want to think good thoughts about the person who pays attention to them even a loathsome degenerate, and that's how the vicious circle starts!.
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Once they've convinced themselves, for whatever reason (legitimate or not) that they aren't lovable, they cling to whoever comes along who gives them the time of day!. They want to think good thoughts about the person who pays attention to them even a loathsome degenerate, and that's how the vicious circle starts!.
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I was one of those people three years ago but eventually I had enough and left him and never looked back, it was the best thing I could've ever done for myself honestly!. I have a best friend who is going through that & she stays cause she's pregnant!. It depends though cause everybody is in a different situation!. Some people do it cause they fall in love with the person then a year or so into the relationship the person they fell in love with changes!. It's like the saying "I didn't love you, I loved who I thought you were!." I'm not sure if you're familiar with that saying but that happens in so many cases!. Then people try to find a way out but they can't because they're already in love and they have that false hope that things will go back to the way they use to be!. Other people have never had someone to love them so they'll take whatever they can get!. That's not love, that's need!. The need to be loved and it's unhealthy and it will get you into trouble left and right!. And then there's some people who just don't care!. Maybe the sex is great so they stick around!. Everyone is different but I can tell you one thing, you'd never catch me sticking around no matter how much I loved they guy, life's too short!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Maybe because they see other people having a boyfriend/girlfriend and they feel lonely sometime having no one to be with, so they would go out with anyone they can just to feel good!. Or sometime they are curious about how it feels to have a boyfriend/girlfriend!. Some people they never had one and they want to see how it feels to be with someone!. I never had a girlfriend in my life and I'm not planning to get one until I finish school or get to college!. I am a sophomore now in high school and I still think some girls are immature!. =))))))))Www@Enter-QA@Com
Oh I know what you mean, on Y!A everyone (mostly girls) are like, "Everyone answer this, I NEED a bf, omggg!?!!"
It's really annoying!.
I won't date just anyone!. He has to mean something to me, I haven't had a boyfriend for a while!. Sometimes though when I think about, it would be nice to have someone there to always talk with and listen to you on a different level then, say, your best friend!. I do get lonesome sometimes, that's when I resort to my best guy friend to get a guys view on things :]Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's really annoying!.
I won't date just anyone!. He has to mean something to me, I haven't had a boyfriend for a while!. Sometimes though when I think about, it would be nice to have someone there to always talk with and listen to you on a different level then, say, your best friend!. I do get lonesome sometimes, that's when I resort to my best guy friend to get a guys view on things :]Www@Enter-QA@Com
im 16 and well ive never been in love but i think its because love is one of the best feelings so people will do anything to be able to feel it i guess!. im not sure why people date low-lifes just to have someone though!. i wouldnt do that!. but i guess people get so lonely,desperate and feel so bad of themselves they feel they have to date any loser they can findWww@Enter-QA@Com
Most of the time, it's because they need someone to give them love!.!. even if it is artificial love!. People have low self-confidence and self-esteem, they need someone to tell them 'I love you' even if it is!.!. well!.!. bad!.
Others, are just in love with being in love!.
and I don't really find a correct explanation to that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Others, are just in love with being in love!.
and I don't really find a correct explanation to that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Some people are willing to date anything that walks/talks and breathes just to have a warm body beside them!.!.!. Maybe desperation or just tired of being lonely and they're willing to settle for anything just to have companionshipWww@Enter-QA@Com
i think some women have very LOW self esteem!.!.
they think they cant make it without a man!.!.
i know many girl who live this way
they are afraid of standing on their own!.!.!.
its crazy!.!.i get so angry by these women
why do they still live in this shitty situation!?
but unfortunate some women cant live alone and without a man
its ridiculous!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
they think they cant make it without a man!.!.
i know many girl who live this way
they are afraid of standing on their own!.!.!.
its crazy!.!.i get so angry by these women
why do they still live in this shitty situation!?
but unfortunate some women cant live alone and without a man
its ridiculous!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I don't know, I just look for the people who don't really have a record of something bad, usually just people who work hard!.
I think these people have had possibly a rough life and can relate to the cheaters, abusers, etc!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think these people have had possibly a rough life and can relate to the cheaters, abusers, etc!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Alot of people are so lonely that they lower their standards just to have some one there!.
When you find true love, it is very fulfilling, and maybe people want to get that feeling!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
When you find true love, it is very fulfilling, and maybe people want to get that feeling!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
some people who date those type probably are very lonely and just want someone, or they don't think very highly of theirselves and think that is the best they can do!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Some people feel misunderstood or that noone sees thei true self !. A soul mate could be someone who can do both and still cares for the person!. Life can be lonely!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
They go through alot of things in their life and want someone to be there for them and their self esteem is so low they feel like they deserve itWww@Enter-QA@Com
I think they are either lonely or jealous!. Some people are not comfortable being alone!. Others want something just because someone else has it!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
they crave companionship and the only way they can convince themselves that they are valuable is by having someone who "has to" love themWww@Enter-QA@Com
They're lonely and afraid to be left alone when everyone else seems to have found someone!. And most of all they just want to be loved!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i think its because they see others around them who have a mate and they get lonely and just take anybody
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because they want to be loved!. so they pick a loser!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
everybody needs somebody!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
love=insanity Www@Enter-QA@Com
Many people are just deseperate and have nobody else emotionally to like/love!. did i answer your question!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
cuz were human and love is one of the necessities in lifeWww@Enter-QA@Com
because they're lonely, or have low self-esteem!.!. they need someone to validate their existence!. that sort of thing!. Www@Enter-QA@Com