Isn't it obvious, that when someone cheats, BOTH partners are to blame ?!
Question: Isn't it obvious, that when someone cheats, BOTH partners are to blame !?
I was reading some questions and answers in the Marriage&Divorce category!. I was appalled by some stupid people!. They think automatically, that when a "cheating in a relationship" happens, ONLY men are to blame!. WTF !? It takes two to tango and I think BOTH parties in the relationship are to blame, and not necessarily the "third" person !! Do you agree or disagree !?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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I agree with you!. Yes, that's the way it usually goes!. Women or men, who claim, that only the "other part is guilty", live in an illusion if you ask me!. A relationship is made out of TWO people not one!. I think, the 3rd person, is just an excuse to blame for anyone's own flaws and faults!.
P!.S!. Never take the Marriage&Divorce too seriously !!Www@Enter-QA@Com
P!.S!. Never take the Marriage&Divorce too seriously !!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Nobody can even explain that word relationship and have truth in their words!. Love and relationship are things that have been seperated and changed throughout time!. I think those people who constantly say "I'm in a wonderful relationship" must be people who are afraid to say that they love their love boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, whatever!. I'm in a relationship came when people didn't know how to describe love!. Love is portrayed to be a relationship, but why is that if a relationship is supposedly something between two people!? I don't get it, I've lost myself on words now!. Lover is way better than Relationship, the term!.\
EDIT: Oh, right!. I disagree with what you say!. Cheating is what they call unfaithful, carelessness, infidelity and more!. But there is some researching to do about these words!. Cheating does NOT need to be done!. Breaking up is better!.
Why cheat behind someones' back!? It only proves how underhanded and deceitful you are!. Splitting up, finding someone else!. Isn't that easy, CHEATERS!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
EDIT: Oh, right!. I disagree with what you say!. Cheating is what they call unfaithful, carelessness, infidelity and more!. But there is some researching to do about these words!. Cheating does NOT need to be done!. Breaking up is better!.
Why cheat behind someones' back!? It only proves how underhanded and deceitful you are!. Splitting up, finding someone else!. Isn't that easy, CHEATERS!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Blame,
heavy stuff,
the marriage is meant to be about sharing all aspects of life together!.
Everyone knows that, so then why do so many people in a marriage drift apart, did they marry wrong, or did they both evolve in different directions!.
I know this, because I am living it, there must come a point when one says ok this can not be fixed or this is not what I signed up for!.
If I have to be blamed then ok, I tried, of course I blame her but will not reveal all!. In the end the blame does not matter unless you need it to to carry on!. Whats important that two lives are not wasted in a love less relationship!.
I agree 99% of the time, I will always give a little bit of doubt for the truly innocent that married a bad one!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
heavy stuff,
the marriage is meant to be about sharing all aspects of life together!.
Everyone knows that, so then why do so many people in a marriage drift apart, did they marry wrong, or did they both evolve in different directions!.
I know this, because I am living it, there must come a point when one says ok this can not be fixed or this is not what I signed up for!.
If I have to be blamed then ok, I tried, of course I blame her but will not reveal all!. In the end the blame does not matter unless you need it to to carry on!. Whats important that two lives are not wasted in a love less relationship!.
I agree 99% of the time, I will always give a little bit of doubt for the truly innocent that married a bad one!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Disagree!.
Sometimes it's just the one spouse who is to blame
They're tired of being with the one person year after year!.!.or they never really loved the person but just stayed with them for the children's sake!.
Sometimes the other spouse does all they can to make the marriage better and the person is still not satisfied!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sometimes it's just the one spouse who is to blame
They're tired of being with the one person year after year!.!.or they never really loved the person but just stayed with them for the children's sake!.
Sometimes the other spouse does all they can to make the marriage better and the person is still not satisfied!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It depends!. Let's say the husband was cheating on his wife with a waitress or something!. If the waitress KNEW that he had a wife then they're both to blame!. But if the guy never told the waitress that he was married then it's just his fault!. In my opinion!.
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Sometimes true!. I've known couples where the woman cheats, & the man beats her up!. If a man cheats, the woman would want to fight the girl he cheated with (like the other girl knew!. the man would lie & say he's single), AND she would cheat BACK on the guy!. ALL that, in revenge!.
But these are experiences "I've" witnessed in my life!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
But these are experiences "I've" witnessed in my life!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Takes two people to create a cheating affair!. My wife would not satisfy me in regards to intimate relations, still does and I have cheated!. She knows full well what causes a person to cheat, but do you think she takes any blame, NO!. It all my fault!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Not only men cheat!. I think who ever cheats is to blame!. That's like saying that if a women gets raped its because she was dressing wrongly!. Even if the partner was boring or stupid or crazy you shouldn't cheat!. BREAK UP WITH THEM!Www@Enter-QA@Com
**Relationships are games!.!.!.
when someone cheats, one should be kicked out for breaking the rules!.!.
every person in that relationship are to blame, including the 3rd party!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
when someone cheats, one should be kicked out for breaking the rules!.!.
every person in that relationship are to blame, including the 3rd party!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Cheating is a symptom of a failing relationship!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
ive had a couple of guys cheat on me, and after soo much long hard thinkin i still have no idea why cos what they wanted they got, maybe they just wanted something i cant give them!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I disagree!. Its the cheaters fault, no one else's!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes!. Wife cheated on me!. Don't know with who!. Good thing i don't know, i guess!. I have never cheated in 17 years!.Www@Enter-QA@Com