How can I stop being jealous of my friend?!
Question: How can I stop being jealous of my friend!?
She constantly texts the guy that I like!. I'm not sure she knows I like him!.!.!.but its really teraing me apart, because I know she's so much prettier than me, but I just wish I could have him!. She gets mad really easy so I don't wanna tell her to stop liking him!. I just get really jealous when she texts him and tells me about him, plus I've never even had a boyfriend, and she's had 3 before!. How can I stop my jealousy!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
look at and appreciate all the good things in YOUR life!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You can tell her that you like him and have for a long while now!. If she still continues to text and flirt with him, then just say, "Hey ! I told you I liked him hoping maybe you would let up!. I have liked him for a reallllyyy long time now and I would really appreciate it if you can give me a shot!." And then just woo him with your awesome personality!. Your friend may be "prettier" but I'm sure you are just as pretty and have a great personality!. Be funny and witty around him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Having a relationship is a two way street!. Just because you like a guy doesn't necessarily mean he likes you back!. What does this boy think about you liking him over her liking him!. Has it ever occurred to you that he likes her!? Before you start thinking about destroying this friendship, ask him how he feels about you!.
A lot of people that have really great looks are somewhat vain and usually find people equally as vain!. You may be able to find a much nicer guy than him by lowering you expectations in the looks department and find someone who is really sincere and caring, who is actually a better match for you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
A lot of people that have really great looks are somewhat vain and usually find people equally as vain!. You may be able to find a much nicer guy than him by lowering you expectations in the looks department and find someone who is really sincere and caring, who is actually a better match for you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Its best to learn to overcome jealousy!. Instead of being jealous, you need to be happy for your friend!.
Recognize your jealousy for what it is, but don't dwell on it!.
The Buddhist concept of mudita, "sympathetic joy" or "happiness in another's good fortune is a good principle to follow!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Recognize your jealousy for what it is, but don't dwell on it!.
The Buddhist concept of mudita, "sympathetic joy" or "happiness in another's good fortune is a good principle to follow!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I hate to break it to you but if she's much prettier than you and she is already texting him and they are close and you are too scared to ask her to help you out because she's nasty then try and get in the game!. If you can't then you need to find another man! It's your only chance! Www@Enter-QA@Com
jealousy is a bad thing (trust me I know) u should confrnt her about liking the boy!. And sencond of all u need to stop saying that ur frined is prettier than u!. I'm sure ur just being self-conscience!. If u really like the boy than talk to him!. I know it sounds hard, but would u rather let ur friend have him!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Get over it, he's just another guy!.
And don't think that the more boyfriends you have the better!. The fact the she had 3 means nothing!. So she had them, so what!. It's not a race, nor a goal!. Keep your head cool and take it easy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
And don't think that the more boyfriends you have the better!. The fact the she had 3 means nothing!. So she had them, so what!. It's not a race, nor a goal!. Keep your head cool and take it easy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i have the same problem
it's hard to get over
but here is what i started to do,
i started tlking to the guy and now were good friends,
i still like him, but now i like someone else too
trust me, you'll find another guyWww@Enter-QA@Com
it's hard to get over
but here is what i started to do,
i started tlking to the guy and now were good friends,
i still like him, but now i like someone else too
trust me, you'll find another guyWww@Enter-QA@Com
Pick another guy!.!.!.BAM!.!.!.!.all done!.!.!.!.That way you won't care since you are not brave enough to fight for what you want!. Personally, I wouldn't give in!. I would tell her my feelings!. She can either accept me, or find another friend!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, ask him, Who does he like more, and if he chooses you, then say u earned him fair and square, and that you still want to be friendsWww@Enter-QA@Com
DONT TRY TO GET RID OF HER!. BOYS COME AND GO BUT FRIENDS ARE HARDER TO MAKE!. TELL HER YOU LIKE HIM TOO!. TALK ABOUT HIM, AND HAVE A GOOD TIME!. WHO EVER GETS HIM!. GETS HIM!. PLUS IF THEY GO-OUT THEN NOT, THEN UR FRIEND COULD HOOK-U-UP!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Tell her you really like him and that you'd prefer it if she went after some other guy!. Tell her you love her and that you value her friendship!. If she's a good friend she should understand
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Tell her you like him, she shouldnt go near him if she knows you like him!. If she chooses him over you she isnt a true friend!Www@Enter-QA@Com
tell her what to you told use just leave out the she gets mad easy part!.!.!.!.or if you don't like dat flirt with him and you text him alot and then ask him outWww@Enter-QA@Com
Tell her that you like him!.
If shes a true friend -- [hannah montana] then she should understand what your going through and stop!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If shes a true friend -- [hannah montana] then she should understand what your going through and stop!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
ask her if she likes him or ask th boy out before your friend ever had the chance and when she asks you why say you didn't know she liked him aswell!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
girl!. get a life and leave ur friend alone!. get ur own guy!.
hey im single lets date and will make ur friend jealous of you now!. heheheWww@Enter-QA@Com
hey im single lets date and will make ur friend jealous of you now!. heheheWww@Enter-QA@Com
just go further than her, go hang out with him and you be around more than just texting!.!.!.!.its hard to not be jealousWww@Enter-QA@Com
If hes texting her and not you, then he obviously he has interest in her not you, he's not worth your time!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Tell her that he is your guy!.If she still continues, then she is not your friend!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Tell her that you like him!.
maybe you could make up some crap
and say that you and him madeout last night!
JK but you could
and if she chooses him over her best friend
she is gay
stupid
retardedWww@Enter-QA@Com
maybe you could make up some crap
and say that you and him madeout last night!
JK but you could
and if she chooses him over her best friend
she is gay
stupid
retardedWww@Enter-QA@Com
being jealous is not goodWww@Enter-QA@Com
to words
Stop itWww@Enter-QA@Com
Stop itWww@Enter-QA@Com
just tell her and start to text also play fire with fire chiccaWww@Enter-QA@Com
Just pack it in and move on!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
get new friends, its life you are always going to get feelings you dont really like Www@Enter-QA@Com
i feel the same way!.
i dont really know what to do either :[Www@Enter-QA@Com
i dont really know what to do either :[Www@Enter-QA@Com
!.!.!.!. stop ur jealousy !?
Lol !. Sorry but I think u r getting a wrong view of the situation here !.
First , she doesn't know u like that guy !. so let her know & see what she got to say - if she really is ur friend she might sacrifice him for u or else its usual cat fight !.
Second , u lack confidence & u really feel like u r not up for the competition with her !. May be she is prettier -as u say- but not with looks only u win guys , u have to work hard to gain him at ur side !.
Third , If u care that much for ur friend (She gets mad really easy so I don't wanna tell her to stop liking him ) then may be u should be the one to stop liking the guy , Right !?
Fourth , Stand up for urself , don't let such competition tear ur friendship to a thousand shred !. u should be honest with urself at this point - which do u care more for !? ur friend or getting this guy !? then u will be able to decide on number 3 -up there- whether to let go or fight for that guy !.
Fifth , u didn't make a move for this guy !.!.!. am I right !? if u really like him then go for him , try each and every thing u know to get him !. he is ur prey & u r the huntress , if u didn't aim u won't hit !. If u fail it doesn't mean stop trying , it only means u need more time to hit ur goal !.
At the end , sorry if I was a bit harsh up there -truth sometimes comes harsh on whom expect it least !.
Just go for him & don't turn to the competition at all !. its him u care for , right !? then u should only see him = )
Good luck Miss!.Huntress Www@Enter-QA@Com
Lol !. Sorry but I think u r getting a wrong view of the situation here !.
First , she doesn't know u like that guy !. so let her know & see what she got to say - if she really is ur friend she might sacrifice him for u or else its usual cat fight !.
Second , u lack confidence & u really feel like u r not up for the competition with her !. May be she is prettier -as u say- but not with looks only u win guys , u have to work hard to gain him at ur side !.
Third , If u care that much for ur friend (She gets mad really easy so I don't wanna tell her to stop liking him ) then may be u should be the one to stop liking the guy , Right !?
Fourth , Stand up for urself , don't let such competition tear ur friendship to a thousand shred !. u should be honest with urself at this point - which do u care more for !? ur friend or getting this guy !? then u will be able to decide on number 3 -up there- whether to let go or fight for that guy !.
Fifth , u didn't make a move for this guy !.!.!. am I right !? if u really like him then go for him , try each and every thing u know to get him !. he is ur prey & u r the huntress , if u didn't aim u won't hit !. If u fail it doesn't mean stop trying , it only means u need more time to hit ur goal !.
At the end , sorry if I was a bit harsh up there -truth sometimes comes harsh on whom expect it least !.
Just go for him & don't turn to the competition at all !. its him u care for , right !? then u should only see him = )
Good luck Miss!.Huntress Www@Enter-QA@Com