I know cheating is wrong but what if....?!


Question: I know cheating is wrong but what if!.!.!.!.!?
I went out with this guy for three weeks, and I wanted to break up with him about the last week but I wasn't sure if I still liked him or not!.

I kept falling in and out of love with my best friend!. I'd always love her more than anyone because "best friends are forever"!. One day I kept thinking "I wish she'd kiss me!.!.!." She got really quiet for a while and when I asked her "what are you thinking!?" she kissed me!. We decided to make it official,!.

The next day as soon as I saw the guy I was going out with I broke up with him and told him it'd be better if we were just friends!.

I have been wondering about this for a while but even though I broke up with him the very next day, is it still bad that I cheated on him!? Even if it was for my bff!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
ideally you would have broken up with him before you kissed her
BUT you did the right thing and broke it off the next day

i think the fact that you still think about it is good
it's giving you food for thought and it shows that you do care about how your actions affect other people
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i dont condone cheating, but since she kissed you first instead of the other way around, then the blame really isnt on you for that kiss!. but if you ever kissed this girl after that first kiss before you broke up, then youre a cheater!. dont beat yourself up too much about it though, you did about as much right as you could do in a situation that awkward!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Well it was wrong but since you two broke up and it's obvious that your best friend loves you then go for her!.

To anyone who doesn't know what cheating is:
Kissing for longer then 5 seconds
making out
getting naked together
having sex

Hugging is the only thing girls/guys can do that isn't cheating!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Do whatever you want, dont let peoples short comings or perspectives or themselves rub off on you!. There is no reason a young woman should ever date 1 guy for and extended period of time!. better to see many men and find yourself and what you like so you know you have the perfect guy you wanna marry when you get older!. Just dont milk the poor guy for everything hes worth and dumb him, then that would just be mean!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

no!. you cant be responsible for what your heart feels!. you just go for it!. i wouldnt call what happened "cheating"!. i mean, you told him the very next day!. but you couldnt stay with him knowing you had feelings for your bff!. if you would have done that you would have been miserable and unhappy!. though, before i would have reacted i would have thought out completely what i was going to do!. and make a vow to myself i would never go back to him, even if i had to be single!. once trash, always trash!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

cheating is cheating!. break up with the person first!. you can't sample at a restaurant before eating a whole dinner!.!.!. and if you do, either way you'll end up paying!.

don't do it!. have respect for yourself and don't cheat!. you wouldn't want someone to cheat on you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

In your case I don't think it was cheating!. You were planning to maybe break up with him anyway and I'm sure that if you were given the chance to be with him ot her (before she kissed you), you would have picked her!. I hope you guys are happy together! =DWww@Enter-QA@Com

Yes!. If you were still with him, It is still considered cheating and no matter what, Cheating is bad!.
However, at least you broke up with him!. It would have been worse if you would have stayed with him and continued cheating on him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

It's kind of wrong because cheating is being disloyal which you were!. But I think you did the right thing because coming upon the right time for a first kiss is rare and you had a perfect time for that special first kiss!. He needs to be understandingWww@Enter-QA@Com

its ok, if you were not that serious, if you really wanted to be with him than you would still be with him, but its alright dont beat yourself over it, we all make mistakes and feel bad at some points, but if your hearts not in it, than let it go,Www@Enter-QA@Com

Cheating is wrong!. Period!.
There is absolutely no excuse for it!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

I'd say cheating would be if you dated both at the same time!. Trust me, the other way happens all the time!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

bad
yes
bad question from a horrible person
what next!?
vote for Osama Obama!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

So you are Bi sexual lots of married females with families are!.
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cheating is cheating no matter what kind of spin you put on it - you are a horrible person!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Weell, yes, I guess that would be cheating, but you dumped him, so it's alright if you go for her!.!.!. I think!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes its still bad but its good u broke up with him!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

whoa whoa whoa!

get yerr sexuality straight!!

geeesshhhhhh!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Hmm!.!.

"I went out with this guy"
"I wish she'd kiss me!.!.!."

You need to know what gender your into first!Www@Enter-QA@Com

I don't think so!. But he might think so!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

i dont think its cheatingWww@Enter-QA@Com

yeah i guess it would beWww@Enter-QA@Com

wait!. are yhou bi!?!?
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since you broke up with him, then nahWww@Enter-QA@Com

naw i mean u broke up with him the very next day so its not bad :DWww@Enter-QA@Com

it was just a kiss!. i don't really think it's cheating!. are you Bi!? Www@Enter-QA@Com

and why are u posting this in P&S hun!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Okay are you lesbian!? Or something!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

Why not just play them both!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

cheating is sex lol not kissingWww@Enter-QA@Com

god why do women suck at making up their minds!?Www@Enter-QA@Com



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