Should I Move In With The Boyfriend...?!
Question: Should I Move In With The Boyfriend!.!.!.!?
i'm 20 and a full time college student, and i also work part time!. i still live with my parents!. and for about the past 6 or 7 months, my parents have been arguing, fighting, etc and are pretty much talking about divorcing, so my home life isn't really spectacular right now!. recently, my bf of about 3 years just moved out into his own apt, and i go stay with him maybe 1-3 times a week, not only to spend time w/ him, but to also get away from the chaos going on at my own house!. yesterday i was basically complaining to him about my home situation, and he asked if i'd like to move in with him!.!.!.that i wouldn't have to worry about bills and things, that he'd pay for everything i need!. i told him no and said that i would feel like a huge freeloader, like i already do at my own house lol!. and this isn't the first time he's asked me this!. i want to move out, to get away from home, and see what it's like to live on my own, but i'd rather do it on my own dime, when i'm financially independent, but lately, because of what's going on at home!.!.i've been thinking about takin him up on his offer!. should i do it!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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I know it's hard, but the truth is, you should only move in with someone if it's because you really want to wake up with them every day, do everything together, etc!.
Living together can put a stress on a relationship, so I wouldn't do it as a form of escape!. Now you can go there whenever you want, but if you move in and things become tense, you won't have any haven at all!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Living together can put a stress on a relationship, so I wouldn't do it as a form of escape!. Now you can go there whenever you want, but if you move in and things become tense, you won't have any haven at all!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
Maybe it would be best to take him up on the offer and get on your feet whle you're there!. You've been together 3 years!. So you know how much you can trust him with this!. Would you be able to move back home if something happened though!? If you have no fallback plan in case of a failed relationship, don't do it yet!. Otherwise, he's your man, and it's not like you're some freeloder starnger!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Don't make your parents fighting the reason that you move in with him!. You may love him and want to spend time, but just go over there more often!. You should move in when you've both talked over all of the things that it involves!. Don't get pressured into something you're not 100% about!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
if ya love him do it but if ya let him pay for everything he will throw it in ya face eventually!. don't do it coz ya need to get away from the folks coz it wont work!. been der done dat put up wi crap for 5 years!. now i have my own place and couldnt be happierWww@Enter-QA@Com
If you move in with your boyfriend it should be because you're moving TOWARD something bigger with him!. It shouldn't be because you're running away from something!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, then you can have lots of sex!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
no things will change!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.everything will change!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.dont do itWww@Enter-QA@Com
no don't move in with him you are too young and it is a lot easier to dump some one if you don't co habitate the same areaWww@Enter-QA@Com
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its up to you
but if you love your bf so much move in with him :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
but if you love your bf so much move in with him :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
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sure why not!?
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yes but give some first , just kidding, unless u want toWww@Enter-QA@Com
It is a choice you would have to seriously consider!. Try making a list of pros and cons about moving in with him, maybe you can also get a chance to see how is it to live with him but do not let your guard down because from experience i can say people are so much different when you live with them!.!.!.there are a lot of things that you would realize whether they be bad or good!. if you care deeply about him then you could move in but more than likely you will be more sexually involve so please have safe sex!. Try also to communicate and not ignore what is going on around you if you do decide to move in!.
hope it works out =] btw your mom and dad are going through what most parents go through, soon enough it will be a lot less painful!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
hope it works out =] btw your mom and dad are going through what most parents go through, soon enough it will be a lot less painful!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i kind of have this problem to but it was when i was 18 i moved out !.!.!.!.and with my boyfriend he was working full time , me part time and in between jobs and going to school!.!.!. you really get to know a person when you live with them and that's both a good and a bad thing we are still together and still living together!.!.!.i think u should give it a try , but u need to at least pay some if not all the utility bills then u wont feel like a freeloaderWww@Enter-QA@Com
My gf and I have been going out for 2-years and often wish we could move in together but we physically don't have that option these days!. We're about your age as well, our relationship is strong, and we're dedicated to our education too!. If you know that living together will be beneficial and won't be hurting your progress in life, then go for it!. I know for certain that my gf and I can live together without anything changing, but that's something that I know!. The fact that you asked people might be the key to telling you that you're not ready to make such a commitment!. Just remember that if you're going to live with him, then make sure that's not the reason why you're going to stay in the relationship if something does happen!. I know this doesn't answer your question but no one here can make that decision for you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com