Hi guys, can you please lift my spirits, my coworker just dissed me?!


Question: Hi guys, can you please lift my spirits, my coworker just dissed me!?


Hi, I know this is not a P&S question so I'm sorry in advance!. But may I please have your opinion on this!.

There is a coworker who is new who has been here a few weeks and I walked by to introduce myself (we're both women - my avatar is wrong, lol)!. Anyway, she extended her hand and gave her name and I told her if she needed anything (I'm a secretary) that I sit right there!. (close to her)!. Anyway, she just seemed forced like she didn't like me but followed through on the handshake anyway!.
It was the most awkward moment, I sat down on my chair with a flush on my face wishing I hadn't introduced myself!. I kinda stumbled on my words a little!.
How do I stop caring about what others (my coworkers) think of me!. I wish everyone would like me which is why I introduced myself but she looked like she hated me when she shook my hand (I was just being cordial) and I have no idea why since although we work in close proximity to each other we are in different departments/areas!. I thought I was being nice!.

WHat do you guys think!. Thanks, I'm feeling a bit bummend about it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
You may not like this answer but read it you should!. You will most likely like at the end what you have read!.

Just from reading it I don't like you!.
1!. Your shallow
2!. you suffer from low self esteem!.
3!. My worth is valued by what others think of me!.

You think everyone you meet should like you, why!? What makes you so great that we all should say hey what a great an nice person you are when you don't even like yourself!. Your trying to get others approval of yourself when you can't even get it from yourself!.

Now if I haven't totally pulled the carpet out of your spirit raising expedition of trying to get approval of your self worth from people you don't know or don't know very well, I'm going to give you a gift!. If you are as smart as I think you are you might try it!.

I want you to walk to were there is a mirror!. Look into it!. Doe's the person you see make you feel like your worth something!. Doe's she make you happy!. Are you happy with this person!. If not it won't matter what anyone else thinks about you!. You will never feel like you are good enough till someone says oh how great your are when the main person that should make you feel good is the one that is inside you!. When you are happy with this person, what any of us other idiots in the world may think of you won't matter!. Why!? because you know the truth of who you are and you like yourself!. That's all that should really matter!.

Maybe you caught this women by surprise and she reacted as such!.
Maybe you mistook what her reaction really meant!. She might still feel ackward because she is new!. When you think you know what someone's looks or actions mean is it possible you might be wrong!.

Oh by the way I lied!. I don't like your avatar but I do like you!. I see in my mind a light that is you!. Struggling to find herself!. Within two years you will emerge as the person you want to be!. More self assured and happy with the young lady you are turning out to be!.

I also consider myself physic!. I see you as 23, 24!. Light brown to blondish hair, maybe highlites!? 5'4 physically fit but not overblown!.
Young lady you are much more than you know, so be happy with yourself!. Now do as I said go to the mirror, look and say I like this person, who the intercourse cares what anyone else thinks!. {they won't let me use the other word}

I hope you have read this and if you want to e-mail me go ahead!.

1!. you can tell me to bet bent
2!. you can tell me to get intercoursed
3!. You might say thanks I think I just might try what you said!.

Would like to know how close I am as to what you look like!. I do see your hot, just need to come out of the shell and be happy with who you are!.

Now big smiles cause your worth it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Maybe she just seems that way but it doesn't really mean anything!. Some people just come off cold when they don't mean to!. People have thought that about me before and I didn't even know I was doing it!. But even if she doesn't like you, she is obviously the one with the problem because what you did was totally normal and polite!. She may warm up in time!. good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com

i know you would want the new co worker to like you, but you can't force it!. maybe she came across that way because you weirded her out!. just relax and act natural!. when you see her outside the office (lunch/ hallway/ restroom!.!.!.) say hey!.!.!. don't force a conversation just hey!. and little by little it'll happen!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Shake it off!! I don't care which of my co-workers like or dislike me!. I am here for two things; a hefty paycheck and the authority to boss people around!. You need to harden your heart to other people and then you will be just FINE!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Be EXTRA happy, perky and friendly and annoy the b*tch for the rest of her days there!.

PS- I am SO happy that I don't work with an y women!. I can't stand the cattiness!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think that she doesn't like you!.


Irrelevant, non-topical questions tend to elicit the same reaction!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

For $100 i'll show you how to change your avatar back to a female!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

hugs u Www@Enter-QA@Com

sometimes we meet people we don't like at first glance!. sometimes they remind us of someone else, we're wearing a fragrance they don't like, etc!. it could be any number of little things!. some times we can't even articulate what it is that bothers us!. in time, she may come around!. but in the meantime, be polite & friendly!.

I've met & worked with people that didn't like me!. I've gotten to the point where I don't care if they like me or not!. but it does make me wonder what it is that they don't like!.

good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com



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