Have you ever felt guilty for something that wasn't your fault in the first !
Question: Have you ever felt guilty for something that wasn't your fault in the first place!?
Say someone in your life wasn't taking responsibility for their actions and they've finally been punished for it!.
Do you in the back of your mind feel guilty/bad about them getting punished!? Www@Enter-QA@Com
Do you in the back of your mind feel guilty/bad about them getting punished!? Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
No!. Adults are responsible for their own actions!. (Took years of schooling and working with victims to adopt that philosophy)
Now!.!.!.you need to e-mail me and tell me what happened!! I think I have an idea!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Now!.!.!.you need to e-mail me and tell me what happened!! I think I have an idea!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yup I sure have!. But then I spoke with a counseler and they helped me realize I had no reason to feel the way I did at that time and to move on with my life as the person whos dealing with the reprocussions floundered!. Now I am a better person for not staying at their level and have learned that you only get dragged down if you let yourself get sucked in!. And no Im not a member of any club to use this prayer it just suits the situation I was in at that time to use it and I still do!.
Lord grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference!.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next!.
Amen!.
--Reinhold NiebuhrWww@Enter-QA@Com
Lord grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference!.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next!.
Amen!.
--Reinhold NiebuhrWww@Enter-QA@Com
I still always feel bad about my ex getting punished for the things he does, although he truly deserves them!. Like he just got put on probation for not paying me any child support-he owed me $6000, but I still felt really bad that it had to come to that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
yes absolutely
I just got out of an abusive marriage,but Somehow I feel guilty,maybe I didnt try harder,pray more,do more,to make it work,and then I remember I did the best I could,and the best I knew how to do!.Its hard I still cry at night over it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I just got out of an abusive marriage,but Somehow I feel guilty,maybe I didnt try harder,pray more,do more,to make it work,and then I remember I did the best I could,and the best I knew how to do!.Its hard I still cry at night over it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sometimes!.
I learnt a long time ago, it's good to let go!. Sometimes, you just have to!. The feeling left inside, can be deadly!. I speak from experience!.
There is only so much you can do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I learnt a long time ago, it's good to let go!. Sometimes, you just have to!. The feeling left inside, can be deadly!. I speak from experience!.
There is only so much you can do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Not anymore my dear, for a long time i did, but as i got older i learned to deal with it!. E-mail me if you would like to talk more as i do understand how you feel!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I try not to because guilt is really a useless emotion, however, often my Catholic upbringing gets in the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My father's life!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, and I am in therapy for it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com