If your MIL calls at 7:00 a.m in the morning to tell you she feels "depress!


Question: If your MIL calls at 7:00 a!.m in the morning to tell you she feels "depressed", what is your answer !?
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Well if you do have a good relationship with your MIL you should take the call!.!. if she really feels depressed then it's usually serious and it's good if a depressed person confides in somebody!.!.!. because that means they are reaching out to someone for help!.!.!. she wanted to talk to you!.!. because you were the ''beacon in the dark for her at that moment'' In my case my mother in law would only get depressed if I phone her as !.!.!. in some cases!.!. people don't get along!.!. she only ever talks to my husband!.!. she sometimes asks through him how I am!.!. but she never talks to me!.!. i would be the last person on earth she would phone if she was depressed!.!. To hear my voice is the only thing that would give her depression but I think it's great if you get on well with yours and a woman feels that certain things she can discuss better with another woman!.!. even if you are a lot younger!. you will understand just from having heard stories here on yahoo answers how desperate people can be when they are depressed so even if it was 7 am!.!. and someone was in distress I would talk to them!.!. if my MIL really suffered from depression and although she doesn't like me!.!. wanted to talk to me, I would talk to her and try to help her!.!.!. She needs to be encouraged and to be convinced to see a councellor I believe!.!. your MIL!.!. depending on her age!.!. it may be a simple hormone change that causes her depression!.!. maybe she undergoes menopause!.!. that will cause depression in a lot of women!.!.!.then all she needs is some hormone pills and not antidepressants!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

It is my belief women always have more faith and trust in other women, and often bond to them in preference to many males!.

MIL was reaching out to touch someone she respects and appreciates to find reassurance that she is loved and cared for!.

Loneliness is often the curse of the older adult!. Any excuse is a good excuse to be loved by someone!. As you get older, loneliness moves to the top!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Ask her y she feels that way,encourage her to take a nap and when she feels fully awake and comfortable we'll talk more n go back 2 sleep!.!.if she didn't go take a nap,I'd try my best 2 stay awake n listen if she's never done-then call my other half n mention that the worlds gonna end cuz his mom jus called 2 tell me she's depressed which hed get a good kick out of!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Aww!.!.!.!. this isn't gonna help you any this time!.!.!. but this is why I keep my phone OFF at night!.!.!. because of my in-laws and only because of them!.!.!. nobody else!.!.!.!.!. She woulda gotten voice mail!.

Anyway if that had happened, I would have told her I had important stuff to do right then (going back to sleep but she didn't need to know that) and I'd get over there as soon as I could!!! And then it'd be up to you when you got over there but she'd feel better knowing you were on your way!. If you felt it was safe doing that anyway, then you could have gone back to sleep and gone when you wanted to!!
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My mother talked more openly with Dawna than with me, so I happen to know she wouldn't tell her to call back at 8:30!. (partly because at 7am, we've already been awake for two and a half hours)
Secondly, but probably most importantly, my wife seems to think she can save the world!.
When my mother was depressed and called she always had someone to talk to!. I think it made her last months a little easier!.

Now!.!.!. if it was my mother in law who called!.!.!.she didn't call for me!. lol
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You tell her OMG! coffee is burning I will have to get right back to you after I have a cup and wake up!

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I Would ask what's wrong and start talking to them for a while till they settle down then ask them if we can talk more about it later!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

"you're depressed!?Me too!and I don't feel like talking about it!."Then I'll put down the phone and back to sleep!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Pass the phone to spouse!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Tell her if she's still depressed at 8:30 to call you back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

"Don't worry, Ma!. I'll send you the bullets to the gun later today!."Www@Enter-QA@Com

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