Help! i got into a big fight with my bf because i caught him smoking! he says sm!


Question: Help! i got into a big fight with my bf because i caught him smoking! he says smoking helps him think better!?
should i let my bf smoke if it makes him smarter!? what should i do!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


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lol, if i had a GF thats as controling as you obviously are she would be dumped so fast she would wonder WTF happened to her!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

ROFL!!! Smoking does NOT make you smarter!. In fact it makes you stupider!. There are EXTREME risks to smoking (the biggest one is lung cancer)!. You should NOT under ANY circumstance let him smoke!. Even if it is true that it makes him smarter (which I know for a fact it is not true) it is still EXTREMELY unhealthy and just plain gross!.

Even though it is a very bad Habit, it is still a Habit!. The nicotine in the cigarettes makes it very addictive and hard to stop!. Don't just say something like "stop or we are over" or anything like that!. Try to help him to get out of the habit somehow!. I have heard that sucking on lollipops instead of smoking can help you to get out of the habit!. So tell him to carry around a bag of lollipops and whenever he feels like smoking, have him suck on a lollipop instead!.

Well, thats all I have to offer!. Hope I helped!Www@Enter-QA@Com

First, it depends on what he's smoking!. Well, not really!. I myself am a smoker, and when you smoke, it's just a part of you!. Asking someone to quit smoking for you is asking someone to give up a part of who they are!. I think you should let him, but just tell him not to do it around you!.
You shouldn't have to change someone to suit your liking if you want to be with them!.
also, "think better" does not mean "smarter"!. I know what he means by it makes him think better!. I don't quite know how to explain it, but it can help with that!. It's kind of calming and clearing!.
I've been on both ends of that spectrum, i've experienced what it's like to be in your place and not want your partner to smoke, and i've been on the other side, where i was the one smoking, so i would know better than the other answers who probably have never touched a cigarette!. I'm not saying that that's a bad thing about them in any way, but it DOES mean that they are inexperienced on the matter!.
Unless it's causing serious problems with his health, let him smoke!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Regardless of what he is smoking, the health effects are extremely detrimental!. Cancer, heart disease, various oral problems, the list goes on!.!.!.

You need to google up photos of throat cancer, various cancer patients, and smokers that have had to have their voice boxes taken out and have a hole in their neck with a monotone robotic voice box, show them to your boyfriend, and see if it makes him "think better"!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Smoking never makes anyone smarter, but honestly it's really not up to you!. If you're really offended by it, by all means talk to him about it!. If he won't give it up, you guys obviously won't last long!. If you're not that bothered by it, ignore it!. And by the way, having a spouse who smokes is not disgusting!. Chain smoking is always gross for people, but kissing a guy who smokes a couple cigarettes a day is fine for me, really!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

smoking doesnt make anybody smarter!.!.!.
It does relax people tho!. Smoking does make those smokers feel better!.!.!.

If you dont like it tho, you should tell him that you are up to helping him quit!. And that he should quit for you!. CUz its for his own good, and you dont like seeing him doing that!. Ask him: Would you like it if smoke!? or if i was doing something that its harming me!?

If he does agree to quit, do it slowly!.!.!. if he's smoking 5 a day, then lower it to 3 a day!.!.!. until he just quits!.

good luck hun!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

smoking seems to have a positive effect on people in the beginning but it won't in the end!. it will cost him large amounts of money in the future and if he is under aged, being illegal if an adult caught him the repercussions would be pretty bad!. i think you need to support him because there must be a reason he started smoking so maybe he needs a bit of help!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

What a lame excuse!. He should just admit that he likes smoking!. And it should not be up to you to decide whether he smokes or not!. It should be his decision, and if you can't deal with it, then leave him!. Pressuring him into quitting will only lead him to hide his smoking from you, and relationships tainted with deceit tend to suck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

LET him!? aren't you being kinda controlling!? i know you are just looking out for him, but let him make his own choices!. just be sure he knows the dangers of smoking!. try suggesting another alternative, for example: chewing gum!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Smoking does not make him smarter!. It is a health risk and a waste of money, but, ultimately, it is his choice!. Just insist he doesn't smoke around you and put you at risk from the ill-effects of passive smoking!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

give him nicorette
trick him and offer him it making him think its regular gumWww@Enter-QA@Com

You can't make his decisions for him!.

He can choose, he just needs enough knowledge to make a sensible decision about ways to improve "thinking"!. It will be improved by a healthy diet and exercise which won't ultimately kill him!Www@Enter-QA@Com

No, he is lying, smoking makes his brain shrink, and smoking make his life shorter!!! You know smoke is a drag don't you!? He should stop smoking or else his life will be shorter!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

ROFL are you that stupid
Smoking makes u think better
O yeah lady thats why its recommended 4 u
Moron its time you quit smokingWww@Enter-QA@Com

RELAXXXX!!!! Its just ciggerettes not drugs and NO smoking doesnt make you smarter!.

Im a non-smoker and I hate it ALOT but if I found my bf smoking I wont get into a huge fight about it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

smoking cannot make a person smarter, i don't think it makes them dumber!.!. but it's very bad for the brain either way because it depraves the brain of needed oxygen!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

uhhhh
I don't get it!.
Maybe you should start smoking!.
Since it makes him think better maybe it will make you think better too!.
SMART HUH!?!Www@Enter-QA@Com

My friend always used to say it helped her clear her mind!. It may help him think better or clearer, but it's really bad for his health!. The effects can not be reversed!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Maybe he smokes to get away from your control, so he can actually have his own thoughts rather than those you force on him!. It sounds like that is what you fear!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

seriously!.!.!. smoking makes him think better!?!?!? well if you truly love him then nothing wont matterWww@Enter-QA@Com

This site should only be allowed to more mature and older people with brains!. You are simply the stupidest person on here!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

makes him think better its bullshit!. but smoking does make you feel better!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

some people find it relaxing so i cant speak for him but sometimes it does take the edge off!.

If hes of age of course!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

well if you want to kiss an ash tray then let your bf smoke and be smart!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

smoking what!? Www@Enter-QA@Com

Oh my god!.!.!. Seriously!.!.!. If it makes him think better, he'd stop already!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

it does not make him smarter he lied! do you want to kiss a smoky mouth!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

i doubt it'll make him smarter, but then again i don't think he has anything to lose either!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

NAH SMOkiN iS NOt GOOD At ALL!.!.!.& i tHiNk itS GROSS kiSSiN A SMOkERWww@Enter-QA@Com

dump him!.!.!.that is such a lame excuse!. You should tell him that seeing other guys will make you think better!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

if he wants to do it, then let him!. he is his own man!. you should love him for who he is anyways!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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