Is it right to be annoyed when a friend is all over you one minute and then?!
Question: Is it right to be annoyed when a friend is all over you one minute and then!?
can bearly say hi let alone make conversation!?
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Answers:
Annoying and disappointing Sweetie
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Wrong!.
Fickle, that is what they are!. I had such a friend!. She was like glue and I was always there for her!.
I cried with her when she was sad and celebrated with her when she was glad, and listened to all her problems!.
If I had a problem she didn't want to know!. If I had some good fortune I could tell she was jealous!.
Then she found another 'friend' to stick to and I was history!.
I was more hurt than annoyed as I would never do that to anyone!.
Just forget about him/her Sweetie, they are not worth the energy !.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Fickle, that is what they are!. I had such a friend!. She was like glue and I was always there for her!.
I cried with her when she was sad and celebrated with her when she was glad, and listened to all her problems!.
If I had a problem she didn't want to know!. If I had some good fortune I could tell she was jealous!.
Then she found another 'friend' to stick to and I was history!.
I was more hurt than annoyed as I would never do that to anyone!.
Just forget about him/her Sweetie, they are not worth the energy !.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It is right, yeh!.
I have this guy and we were each other's first loves!. It then got too hard from the distance so we both agreed to just be friends but we always ended up sleeping together whenever I went over!.
Everytime I went over, even though we weren't together, I still told him I loved him and wanted him back but we both knew deep down it wouldn't work!.
He hasn't had a girlfriend since we stopped seeing each other (3 years ago!.!.!.we still chat) but whenever he's got his eye on someone, he ignores me completely and only comes to me when he feels down or when he misses me or when he needs to talk!. The last girl he had sex with was me!.!.!.at New Years!. I haven't seen him since then and started going out with my bf in May!.
I do like that he talks to me when he wants to chat but I wish it was more regular that twice a month!.
I haven't seen him since New Years and started going out with my bf in May!.
So, now, I have a boyfriend!. And he is speaking to me more than ever about our past sex life!. It really annoys me that this is all he wants to talk about when he knows full well that I am in a stable and loving relationship!. I don't encourage it at all and tell him to shush because I'm taken but he just keeps pushing because, although I cheated on my last boyfriend with him one time (my then bf was emotionally abusive and I was in an extreme low in my life as my mum found out she had cancer!.!.!.he broke up with me in front of all our friends a week later), he reckons I'm going to do it with him again to my now bf!.
I would never!. I know that Steve is the one for me so I couldn't do it to him as he is in no way abusive or nasty to me!. He's perfect!.
Anyway, funny you shoudl ask this cos Martin (the sex-obsessed guy) he text me this morning asking me to bring a sex toy up with me when I next goto see him!.
Now, bear in mind that I told him and his mum (who I'm also in touch with) that I'll take Steve with me so they can meet him and Martin wants me to bring a sex toy with me while I stay the night!?!!! I don't bloody think so!!!
I didn't text him back!.
Now, see, when I was single, I told him I still had feelings for him but he knocked me back so's we don't get hurt and now that he's seen I'm in a solid relationship, he can't handle it!.
He's still messing with my head but I know where my heart lies!.
I'll take the sex toy over to him and hand it to him in front of Steve and say "There you go!. I don't need it as I get the real stuff now!. You have it as you obviously need it more than we do"
Lol, nah I'm kidding about that bit but I really understand what you mean!. He knows I still have feelings for him but I wouldn't do anything while I'm in a relationship with him!. He's a head fcuk!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have this guy and we were each other's first loves!. It then got too hard from the distance so we both agreed to just be friends but we always ended up sleeping together whenever I went over!.
Everytime I went over, even though we weren't together, I still told him I loved him and wanted him back but we both knew deep down it wouldn't work!.
He hasn't had a girlfriend since we stopped seeing each other (3 years ago!.!.!.we still chat) but whenever he's got his eye on someone, he ignores me completely and only comes to me when he feels down or when he misses me or when he needs to talk!. The last girl he had sex with was me!.!.!.at New Years!. I haven't seen him since then and started going out with my bf in May!.
I do like that he talks to me when he wants to chat but I wish it was more regular that twice a month!.
I haven't seen him since New Years and started going out with my bf in May!.
So, now, I have a boyfriend!. And he is speaking to me more than ever about our past sex life!. It really annoys me that this is all he wants to talk about when he knows full well that I am in a stable and loving relationship!. I don't encourage it at all and tell him to shush because I'm taken but he just keeps pushing because, although I cheated on my last boyfriend with him one time (my then bf was emotionally abusive and I was in an extreme low in my life as my mum found out she had cancer!.!.!.he broke up with me in front of all our friends a week later), he reckons I'm going to do it with him again to my now bf!.
I would never!. I know that Steve is the one for me so I couldn't do it to him as he is in no way abusive or nasty to me!. He's perfect!.
Anyway, funny you shoudl ask this cos Martin (the sex-obsessed guy) he text me this morning asking me to bring a sex toy up with me when I next goto see him!.
Now, bear in mind that I told him and his mum (who I'm also in touch with) that I'll take Steve with me so they can meet him and Martin wants me to bring a sex toy with me while I stay the night!?!!! I don't bloody think so!!!
I didn't text him back!.
Now, see, when I was single, I told him I still had feelings for him but he knocked me back so's we don't get hurt and now that he's seen I'm in a solid relationship, he can't handle it!.
He's still messing with my head but I know where my heart lies!.
I'll take the sex toy over to him and hand it to him in front of Steve and say "There you go!. I don't need it as I get the real stuff now!. You have it as you obviously need it more than we do"
Lol, nah I'm kidding about that bit but I really understand what you mean!. He knows I still have feelings for him but I wouldn't do anything while I'm in a relationship with him!. He's a head fcuk!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It would depend on the person and the situation, i know i havent been very chatty online recently but its because ive been through alot again the last few months and i havent wanted to explain myself because its too painful to think about so i just kinda keep myself to myself mostly until i feel i can cope with my own emotions!. But if the person is just plainly ignoring you all together then id have to ask them what their problem was!.
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I can understand you being annoyed with your friend But!.!.!. I would seriously consider if this is a real friend or no!. My advice would be have a get together and be open about how you feel and if she is a true friend she would care about your feelings!. Good luck !Www@Enter-QA@Com
You have every rite to be annoyed!. Why not ask whats the matter, some times people have problems and it takes a question like that to bring it out in the open!. Hope it all works out well!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
yeah!!! its like their using you and they know it!! just do the same to them!.!. talk to them whenever u feel like it and when u dont feel like it, dont talk to them at all!! Www@Enter-QA@Com
Some mixed up emotions there!. It's wrong for them to do that to you, but you need to discuss what's causing it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's your right to be annoyed with anything you dislike!. I can see how that would get extremely irritable!. So yes it is right to be annoyed!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Heck yeah it's right to be annoyed, technically i'd be quite suprised if somebody wasnt!.
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You just gotta ask em whats wrong,if the person is a true friend they'll tell u & u can work it out,if not altho its annoying let em get on with it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have people who complained when I was not in touch then when I started talking they where not *** ed and it was one word answers so bollocks to them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I would be so angry & so annoyed as I would not know where I stood with this person from one moment to the next !Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sometimes other things get in the way!.!.!.!.at those times you just have to be patient with them!.!.!.!.i am sure they will chat to you if they canWww@Enter-QA@Com
shutup :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes!.!.I know what it's like it's really annoyingWww@Enter-QA@Com
It's wrong!.!.!.!.asked them WTF is the problem!Www@Enter-QA@Com
wrong!. very wrong!. how can you even call this person a friendWww@Enter-QA@Com
of course you have the right to be annoyed, they're messing you aroundWww@Enter-QA@Com
Very annoying duchess aye I've no time for folks like that!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
yeah its annoying!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com