I'm jealous of one of my best friends, what should I do?!


Question: I'm jealous of one of my best friends, what should I do!?
I'm so sad!. I feel like crying!. I know jealousy is bad, but I can't help it!. My friend has more friends than me, gets all the guys, has a better wardrobe, and is more outgoing than me!. Not to mention she is a star at soccer and basketball, and my mom won't let me play sports because I was a pre-mature baby!.
It's hard to be her friend because I feel like a piece of crap compared to her!. What should I do!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
Hey its okay!.!.!.!.And jealousy is bad, it means you're insicure and you have a low selfesteem and thats not acceptable!.!.!.!!! You should always think good things about yourself!.!.!.!!! SO your friend has a better social life BIG WHOP! Who cares its not about who has more firends its about who has better trust worthy ones, and its not about the wardobe is about how you wear it!.!.!.and so on! You know what im trying to say is that you shouldnt feel bad! Try to do different things, upgrade your look, be more friendly, try out for different activities in school, sports isnt everything!. And dont feel bad okay think of yourself as the pretiest most popular and fabolous person in the world and dont let anything bring you down!. SORRY IF I WROTE TOO MUCH
i hope you take my advice, feel better hon! Www@Enter-QA@Com

Situations like this are life threatening and can lead to serious problems!.

It sounds like the best thing you should do is to just Be yourself, sometimes things may be difficult because your knowing your friend is *all that* you should talk to someone about it and tell them about how you feel perhaps your parents!. It's natural to be jealous, don't worry but i have to admit, It's hard to maintain the fact your not jealous in front of your friend!.

Keep your mind off the situation!. I'm not telling you to FORGET about your friend but!. You can find more friends, to make you feel better about yourself!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Tough situation, all you can really do is try to put it behind you somehow which I'm sure is hard but if you don't it's just going to eat away at you!. You could try finding something else to focus your mind on: something you're good at and enjoy, that might help!. I'm sorry I'm not much more of a help!. Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Try talking to her!. I had the same problem with one of my friends, she's still the "star" but right now, I'm the one with the bf, & she's not!. Not something to really brag about, but you should try to put yourself out there a little more!. I did that!. We're still the best of friends, nut noe I don't feel like there's a big green monster on my shoulder!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Try doing something to make you feel better about yourself!. Like go shopping and get you some really cute outfits or experiment with some make-up to figure out which ones look best on you!. Do anything that makes you feel more confident in yourself!. I'm sure you like plenty of things about yourself !.!. you just need to do some things to get your focus off of comparing yourself to her!. What I would do is pick one day to go get my hair done really cute !.!. like a new haircut and style !.!. then I'd go shopping to find me a couple of really cute outfits !.!. then I'd make myself over and show up as a whole new person at school!. Just do what usually cheers you up when you're down!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

First of all U should not compare yourself to ANYONE!!!
If you feel this strongly about the situation, maybe it would be a good idea to take a break from hanging out with her!. I refuse to live in anyones shadow and U need to find your own identity!.I also think that as you get older and more mature, these things wont bother U so much!. She's your friend and you should be happy for her, but if U feel like crap instead, TAKE a BREAK and find your own passions, style, and confidence! KWww@Enter-QA@Com

just be yourself and dont try to be anything else!. people will see how great you are, mabye not now but they will, and then you will be just as great as her mabye better!. but just be yourself dont try to be her, or anybody else!. i know it sounds corny but!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

get more friends, get a hobby that has nothing to do with sports, by getting a new hobby you'll also get more friends, hang out with your other friends and just pretty much stop paying too much attention on her and instead on yourself!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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