Do people judge you completely wrong based on first impressions?!


Question: Do people judge you completely wrong based on first impressions!?
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I have had that happen to me!. More often now than before!. I am not a whole lot like I was just a few years ago!.
A couple examples: quite a few doctors (and other people too) assume (before even asking or testing) that I am a coke head, speed freak, or meth head due to the fact that I have bad teeth!.
Or, my son is listed on the Missouri Missing Persons list!. One organization that aids families in finding missing people is headed by a friend of mine's mother!. My friend was running with a really hard-core crowd and wound up missing (foul play is strongly suspected)!.
Her mother only assisted in my case as far as creating a flyer and listing him on her website!. She has openly refused to offer her assistance in my case anymore because I used to hang out with her daughter so I must "have aided" her daughter in "getting messed up"!.
She doesn't know me, only met me once!. She is a judgemental woman and running her organization to get her her 5 min of fame!.
Don't worry about it!. If they are going to judge you that quickly without getting to know you!.!. then I say "whatever their loss not mine"!.
A true Christian knows who the judging should be done by!. It's definately not us!.!.!.!. it's the Lord!.
Hope I gave you something that might help!.

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(hmm!? scratches chin for a moment) it would be naive to believe that it does not!.!.!. people naturally perceive a slob as being disorganized, or a man with shady stare as a pervert!.!.!. The guy could be gardener or a plumber earning $100k+ a year!. Then you have a guy in a business suit that picks up prostitutes or worst!.!.!. You see a Mexican at the Home Depot and you think he is an illegal!.!.!. A good buddy of mine is white with Tatts and he has all kinds of heat from the cops that he is a White Supremacist, the dude is the nicest guy and has several kids (one is adopted and hispanic)!. So with that said, yeah I do it, you do it and they do it - we are all profiling each other!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

People's first impression of you is based on the image that you are projecting, which is something that we all do, so they judge you how you want to appear, or as much as your acting ability allows!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Definately!. As soon as they don't see me drunk and partying out there, they assume I'm a boring person with nothing to do, but I really have secret passions and incredible talent for the arts and music!. If only they knew!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yea , I seem to have a cute image!.
They're all like " Awwuh , look at the cute innocent little kiddie!. "
I hate telling them I'm a criminal!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think I give the impression that I am easy to talk to which I am when approached but I am basically a shy loner~~!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yep!. At first glance people think I'm quiet, serious, and reserved - all the time!. Which I'm not!. I'm so hyper around my friends!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Personally, no!.

Hypothetically, yes!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Ohhhhhhhhhhh yes!. Everybody!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

But of course! I think every single person in the world has been judged wrong based on first impressions! Www@Enter-QA@Com

yes!. after knowin me for a while ALL of my friends confess that at first they thought I was stuck up!.!.and thats so faaaar from the truth!. it bothers me!.!.!.stuck up!.!.me!.!.!.nonsenseWww@Enter-QA@Com

Yeah people think I'm lazy and crazy!. I am crazy but not completely mental!Www@Enter-QA@Com

No - they don't need to judge me, I let them fully know who and what I am so that there is no mistakeWww@Enter-QA@Com

Yes!.!.hell yes!. A lot of people think I'm shy even though I have more guts than they do and I prove it all the time!. Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yeah I guess I look mean when I feel like there is no expression on my face!. I was always labeled as the bully in high school, when honestly I'd go home a cry cuz people wouldn't talk to me and stuff!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes, it happens and it hurts!

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ya most ppl think im a nerdy little white boy just cause i have glasses!.

but im not at all!. thats one thing i hateWww@Enter-QA@Com

Yah! I am an Arab Muslim!. I don't cover because I don't believe in that and I was born and raise here but people put their gaurds up around me!. AHHHH!.!.!.!.!. life is cruel but I deal Www@Enter-QA@Com

Yes!. People think negatively, then they learn otherwiseWww@Enter-QA@Com

One of my co-workers did!. She thought I didn't like her!. Which was totally false!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

unfortunately!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

yes sometimes!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

yeah probably!Www@Enter-QA@Com

absolutely but in the long run we usually become really close friends because they get to now me more and understand me Www@Enter-QA@Com

yeah people usually think i'm sweetWww@Enter-QA@Com

ummmmm, don't care!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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