If you've done something deceitful, do you come forward immediately, or do y!
Question: If you've done something deceitful, do you come forward immediately, or do you wait to be confronted!?
or if you've been on the receiving end!.!.!.
do you confront the person or wait it out!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
do you confront the person or wait it out!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Well, considering the fact that i don't usually do deceitful things, (as i don't lie; so anything else along those lines in terms of being deceptive is the same thing as lying) BUT i have screwed up (we all have)!. So it's not like i've never done it, you know!?
And besides, when someone is playing a "game" with me sometimes i play along and pretend not to know what they're up to !.!.!.!. and feed them things that i know they will run right to the source of my problems and tell that person what i said, so it works out for me to play along, for a while anyway!. So i guess that counts as being deceitful, right!?
IF i have done something wrong, I own up to it; and I usually will tell the person, as i believe in being honest and making things right!. But, on some issues, i won't say anything at all but wait to see if they've got the courage to actually say something to me about it (which they usually don't ROFL that's why they tell a billion other people and add a bunch of untrue things!. They think it makes their side of the story sound honest!. To lie and say, oh i talked to her about this and she said !.!.!.!.!. et cetera!.)
As far as i'm concerned, WHEN (not IF) it happens to me, I usually confront the person!. (In a kind and respectful way of course)!. There are a few issues though where i've not had the opportunity to ask the person basically "WTF did you do THAT for!?" lol, but they've never been honest with me so i wouldn't expect them to own up to it anyways!.
I say, it depends on the person(s) involved and the situation!.
The purpose of talking about things is to bring peace to the situation, and justification for the wrongs commited!. To make ammends and such!. With "friends" is the same principle, but IF the person is really your friend, then they will feel badly IF they hurt your feelings or whatever!.
Grown and mature people confront !.!.!.!. but they also tell the truth!. That's just the way it is!.
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And besides, when someone is playing a "game" with me sometimes i play along and pretend not to know what they're up to !.!.!.!. and feed them things that i know they will run right to the source of my problems and tell that person what i said, so it works out for me to play along, for a while anyway!. So i guess that counts as being deceitful, right!?
IF i have done something wrong, I own up to it; and I usually will tell the person, as i believe in being honest and making things right!. But, on some issues, i won't say anything at all but wait to see if they've got the courage to actually say something to me about it (which they usually don't ROFL that's why they tell a billion other people and add a bunch of untrue things!. They think it makes their side of the story sound honest!. To lie and say, oh i talked to her about this and she said !.!.!.!.!. et cetera!.)
As far as i'm concerned, WHEN (not IF) it happens to me, I usually confront the person!. (In a kind and respectful way of course)!. There are a few issues though where i've not had the opportunity to ask the person basically "WTF did you do THAT for!?" lol, but they've never been honest with me so i wouldn't expect them to own up to it anyways!.
I say, it depends on the person(s) involved and the situation!.
The purpose of talking about things is to bring peace to the situation, and justification for the wrongs commited!. To make ammends and such!. With "friends" is the same principle, but IF the person is really your friend, then they will feel badly IF they hurt your feelings or whatever!.
Grown and mature people confront !.!.!.!. but they also tell the truth!. That's just the way it is!.
xD
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I've been on the receiving end with a past coworker, I confronted her about the rumors she was spreading and told her if she didn't stop I would slap her with a slander suit and also slap her silly!. I've never done anything deceitful but if I did I'd have to come forward immediately as I've a conscience that talks to me constantly and keeps my moral compass in the right direction!. My code has been to do no harm!. Www@Enter-QA@Com
confrontation is never an issue with me, understanding and possible closure is, however comprehension is top most for me!. to be able to clarify what may have been a misunderstanding or not!. in order to determine if there is definitely need for closure, regardless of weather it is a relationship between two, or a family issue or a best friend, clarification promotes understanding so you may make the right decision for your peace of mind!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
When I was 6 years old I took a roll of life savers from a store!. The store has since shut down!. The whole chain is out of business!. At the time the candy cost 5 cents!. Should I mail a nickel to the Life Savers company!?!?!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
if I've done something deceitful AND get caught,I act like nothing happened until my boss or the harmed party comes forward,then I run!.
If I'm the harmed party I hire ucranians to do the jobWww@Enter-QA@Com
If I'm the harmed party I hire ucranians to do the jobWww@Enter-QA@Com
this is a hard question!.!.I usually come forward!.!.I am not good at hiding things!.!.I feel to guilty!.!.!.if I have been done wrong by I usually cut ties with the person!.!.or if I like them enough!.!.confront!.!.themWww@Enter-QA@Com
I confess!.!.!.!.I'm not good at hiding things!. And I have no problem confronting others, but I won't waste my time unless the person's important to me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It depends on how guilty i feel!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I wait to be confrontedWww@Enter-QA@Com
If I'm deceitful, I may as well ride it all the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com