Poll: What Comes first "Trust" or "love"??!
Question: Poll: What Comes first "Trust" or "love"!?!?
me and my friends wanted to know!.!.since we cant decide!.!.!.
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Answers:
To be honest, that's the wrong question!.
Trust is an essential ingredient in love, your question is like asking "which comes first the cake or the sugar!?" In regards to relationships however, I dont think that assigning a linear placement on those words does any justice, since in order to love you must trust, but in order to trust, youll have to keep on loving!. Its not a line format but a cycle format!. In order to keep on trusting someone i obviously must value(love) them or their abilities, and in order order to continue to value (love)someone, i must keep on trusting them to not let me down!.
however
I suppose that you could make the argument that you trust lots of people that you dont love!.
for example when i fly over seas, i dont think it would be fair to say that i "love" the pilot, i mean im sure he is a nice guy, and its obvious that he makes a good living, but i sure as hell trust him!. Same is true for almost everyone you encounter, you trust other drivers to not plow into your car when youre driving and you trust you doctor to give you the correct medicine, but nobody would make the argument that you LOVE those people!. Well, i will admit a little bit of love for the pilot everytime the wheels touchdown safely on the runway, but im not sure thats the same thing!.
But to answer your question, i think you mean trust as in "emotional trust" trusting someone to be faithful and to not take advantage of you, if my assumtion is correct, then love comes first!. Because there is always an element of risk in love!. If its not risky (at least some what) then its probably not valuable!. Only when you love someone are you willing to risk (trust) yourself for them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Trust is an essential ingredient in love, your question is like asking "which comes first the cake or the sugar!?" In regards to relationships however, I dont think that assigning a linear placement on those words does any justice, since in order to love you must trust, but in order to trust, youll have to keep on loving!. Its not a line format but a cycle format!. In order to keep on trusting someone i obviously must value(love) them or their abilities, and in order order to continue to value (love)someone, i must keep on trusting them to not let me down!.
however
I suppose that you could make the argument that you trust lots of people that you dont love!.
for example when i fly over seas, i dont think it would be fair to say that i "love" the pilot, i mean im sure he is a nice guy, and its obvious that he makes a good living, but i sure as hell trust him!. Same is true for almost everyone you encounter, you trust other drivers to not plow into your car when youre driving and you trust you doctor to give you the correct medicine, but nobody would make the argument that you LOVE those people!. Well, i will admit a little bit of love for the pilot everytime the wheels touchdown safely on the runway, but im not sure thats the same thing!.
But to answer your question, i think you mean trust as in "emotional trust" trusting someone to be faithful and to not take advantage of you, if my assumtion is correct, then love comes first!. Because there is always an element of risk in love!. If its not risky (at least some what) then its probably not valuable!. Only when you love someone are you willing to risk (trust) yourself for them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Love and hopefully trust follows!. I love somebody who would lie to St!. Peter himself to try to get into Heaven!. Doesn't mean I don't love them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I believe that you should trust the person first then love them,
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Trust because you have to be able to trust the person you love!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Trust!.!.!. you have to trust someone before you can truly love them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Trust!. I can't love someone unless I trust them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com