I NEED GUY ADVICE! Please read question?!
Question: I NEED GUY ADVICE! Please read question!?
Ok so I've been dating this guy for 3 months now!. We spend about every weekend together, talk on the phone everyday, really like each other, respect each other all that good stuff!. He treats me very well!. He told me when we first met that he was looking for a relationship/maybe even marriage but that he wanted to take things slow!. Which we have been, we kiss and all that, but have not slept together!.
The thing is, he has still not made the relationship official!. He is not seeing anyone else and neither am I!.
So question is:Is this normal!? Can a guy really just want to take his time and there's nothing else to it!? How long does it normally take you to make a dating relationship and official
one!?
I see his point on one hand, about getting to know each other as friends first!. But I'm used to rushing into things a little faster so this process is very new to me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The thing is, he has still not made the relationship official!. He is not seeing anyone else and neither am I!.
So question is:Is this normal!? Can a guy really just want to take his time and there's nothing else to it!? How long does it normally take you to make a dating relationship and official
one!?
I see his point on one hand, about getting to know each other as friends first!. But I'm used to rushing into things a little faster so this process is very new to me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
What does it mean to be officially dating!.
What ceremony does one perform to be in an official dating relationship!. Hell, the way things sound today, just by him not seeing anyone else he made you his official girlfriend!. What exactly do you expect from him after three months!? I have never seen an official dating guide, for that matter I haven't seen an official married life guide or raising kids guide!.
What you might want to do, instead of trying to rush around with your relationship, is to listen!. You, him, a bottle of wine and a nice quiet evening at his or your place!. Ask him about the relationship you two are in!. Ask him, where and how do the two of you go from where you are currently, to get to the next level!. Explain your feelings for him and ask him to explain his feelings for you!. When you ask him questions, listen!. If he doesn't fully answer your questions, Ask him some more!.
You say after three months you have only kissed and not slept together!. I may be old fashioned, but is there a time frame or number of dates when your supposed to screw someone!. Maybe he was raised with values as opposed to the NOW generation!. Treat a lady like a lady, and you will have a lady!.
Hell, maybe he is the 40 year old virgin guy!. You might have to seduce him!. Relationships have too many factors to be able to just ask questions and try to find a correct response in this forum!. My best advice, take it slow, ask questions, and really listen to him!. also, see if he is listening to you!. The questions you asked here, should have been asked of him in private!. GOOD LUCK!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
What ceremony does one perform to be in an official dating relationship!. Hell, the way things sound today, just by him not seeing anyone else he made you his official girlfriend!. What exactly do you expect from him after three months!? I have never seen an official dating guide, for that matter I haven't seen an official married life guide or raising kids guide!.
What you might want to do, instead of trying to rush around with your relationship, is to listen!. You, him, a bottle of wine and a nice quiet evening at his or your place!. Ask him about the relationship you two are in!. Ask him, where and how do the two of you go from where you are currently, to get to the next level!. Explain your feelings for him and ask him to explain his feelings for you!. When you ask him questions, listen!. If he doesn't fully answer your questions, Ask him some more!.
You say after three months you have only kissed and not slept together!. I may be old fashioned, but is there a time frame or number of dates when your supposed to screw someone!. Maybe he was raised with values as opposed to the NOW generation!. Treat a lady like a lady, and you will have a lady!.
Hell, maybe he is the 40 year old virgin guy!. You might have to seduce him!. Relationships have too many factors to be able to just ask questions and try to find a correct response in this forum!. My best advice, take it slow, ask questions, and really listen to him!. also, see if he is listening to you!. The questions you asked here, should have been asked of him in private!. GOOD LUCK!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
he could be playing hard to get it,maybe he wants to see if you think he is worth chasing i done that with my last girlfriend she got tired of all my teasing and told me i was fixing to let a good women pass me by well i got off my butt and got on the ball it was the best relationship i have ever been in and we are still the very best of friends!. tell him how you feel if it feels good do it and tell him you know it will feel goodWww@Enter-QA@Com
well I do understand the situation there, and it sounds like he's probably been really messed up before, but it should be going to relationship status soon, if not already!. Some guys are just like that though, if you really like him you will wait till he is ready and it will all work out!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i would just take it slow and let it all flow into action and if he doesent want to get reushed then respect that but if it continues 'slow' for 8 monthes to a year have a meating and tell him about how you feel and maby he will agree!. some guyes can be very slow to get moving not nowing that you want to get further!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You've probably done this, but talk to him!. Tell him nothing will change, your relationship will stay the same but it needs to be more official!. Ask him, that might make him feel more comfortable rather than telling him!. Good luckWww@Enter-QA@Com
yes take it slowly, this is why most couples break up quickly, because they dont get to know each other proplerly and other stuff, so this is why im saying, take it slowlyWww@Enter-QA@Com
It has only been three months!. Give him some time, it will come soon!. Give him 3 to 5 months to seal it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Wow!.!.!.yes!.!.!.my encouragement to you would to be, to go ahead and SEEK therapy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Take it slowWww@Enter-QA@Com
Idk
I like going faster too
lolWww@Enter-QA@Com
I like going faster too
lolWww@Enter-QA@Com