POLL: Woud you be pissed at your boyfriend if he did this to you???!
Question: POLL: Woud you be pissed at your boyfriend if he did this to you!?!?!?
When me and my boyfriend were talking about couples that break up and then get back together he told me that he NEVER does that!. He told me that if a girl messes up once shes done for good!. He told me that ONLY ONE time he EVER got back together with someone after they broke up!. He told me about 3 years ago him and this girl broke up and got back together but since then he NEVER has done that!. I looked on his facebook at wall posts from his last girlfriend and I saw that they broke up in the past and got back together (there relationship was only like 6 months ago)!.
My boyfriend is OBSSESSED with basketball and since I dont play basketball I said to him before "Are you use to dating girls who arnt realy into sports" and he told me that only ONE of his ex's played soccer and he told me which one!. I now see that his last ex not the one that he mentioned plays soccer too alot and always has!. Why would he lie about these two things!?
Do I have the right to be upset!?
Thanks!
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My boyfriend is OBSSESSED with basketball and since I dont play basketball I said to him before "Are you use to dating girls who arnt realy into sports" and he told me that only ONE of his ex's played soccer and he told me which one!. I now see that his last ex not the one that he mentioned plays soccer too alot and always has!. Why would he lie about these two things!?
Do I have the right to be upset!?
Thanks!
xWww@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Of course you have the right to be upset, but be reasonable!. When you are calm enough to speak to him in a civil manner, tell him that even though what he lied about is not a big deal, you don't understand why he feels it is ok to lie to you!. also ask him to please not lie in the future or it will diminish the trust between the two of you!. Then let it go!. Don't hold a grudge against him, that would be bad for both of you!. (Sometimes people tell fibs b/c they are afraid of the person's reaction to the truth!. Tell him that instead of lying you'd appreciate it if he tells the truth & lets you decide how you feel about!.)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I don't mean to offend you but he just seems like an idiot!. Who lies about things that don't matter!? As if you would care if all his ex's played sports or none of them did!.
If he lies this much about things that don't matter, I can only imagine how much he lies about things that do matter!. It's not the past that matters, it's that he can't even be honest about anything!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If he lies this much about things that don't matter, I can only imagine how much he lies about things that do matter!. It's not the past that matters, it's that he can't even be honest about anything!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think he is saying that he gives no second chances to make sure YOU don't mess up!. If you know that one mistake and you're out, then you'd be careful right!?
the other stuff about soccer I reckon is nothing because guys don't give any attention to detail like that, I wouldn't think anything of it!.
so no reason to be upset as far as I can see!. Quit worrying!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
the other stuff about soccer I reckon is nothing because guys don't give any attention to detail like that, I wouldn't think anything of it!.
so no reason to be upset as far as I can see!. Quit worrying!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
well, I would be pissed if I had a boyfriend!.!.!.
maybe all his attention is on you and he forgets about his ex's!. and stop worrying about the past!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
maybe all his attention is on you and he forgets about his ex's!. and stop worrying about the past!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
maybe he's just telling you what he thinks you want to hear!.
basically he's lying to save your feelings/ make you like him more
i don't really know!.!. xWww@Enter-QA@Com
basically he's lying to save your feelings/ make you like him more
i don't really know!.!. xWww@Enter-QA@Com
no it's his past rigght!. keep worrying a/b this stuff and you'll be his next ex!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
dump the loser AmberWww@Enter-QA@Com
get a new boyfriend don't waste your time with this looserWww@Enter-QA@Com
Red Flag!.
I'd move on to someone more worth my while if I were you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'd move on to someone more worth my while if I were you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com