What Exactly Do Some People Get Out Of Pretending To Be Happy..??!
Question: What Exactly Do Some People Get Out Of Pretending To Be Happy!.!.!?!?
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Sometimes they pretend so much, that it actually becomes true to them!. also, if you're always in a bad or sad mood, people will either think your a jerk or feel sorry for you, which might actually make you feel worse!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I get a happier life!. I have severe clinical depression, according to doctors!. But I choose to live my life as if I did not feel sad!. After about a year of doing that, I found that I didn't feel as sad anymore!. Plus, the people around me know me as a positive and encouraging person, rather than a morose and negative one!. I get LIFE, rather than an existence!. I'd much rather pretend to be happy once in a while than live in a sad world all the time!.
That's not to say I don't show sadness when it's appropriate, but I see no need to show my true emotions at all times!. There are times when it is better for all involved to pretend, and try to be what you're pretending to be!.
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That's not to say I don't show sadness when it's appropriate, but I see no need to show my true emotions at all times!. There are times when it is better for all involved to pretend, and try to be what you're pretending to be!.
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Nobody ever gets anything out of pretending to be happy!. Its a mask they put on to prevent beople from seeing how vulnerable they are!. People who pretend to be happy are the people who want love and affection!. They need others to give them praise so they show the fake happiness to anyone who pays them mind!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
they get EXACTLY the opposite!. unhappieness!. because thier being fake and living in a made up world!. its best to just let it all hang out so someone can help you and get u on the right track to actually being happy for real!. instead in drowning in their own fake unhappy worldWww@Enter-QA@Com
Acting experience (and perhaps a hit song)!.
http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=E2E_RSJAh!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=E2E_RSJAh!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think people who pretend to be happy because they think its a sign of weakness to let people know that their not actaully happy!. or they just find it hard to let people into there lives and just want things as they are!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, I have heard it said that if you pretend long enough to believe you are happy, you can fool yourself into being happy!. I don't know!. Never tried it!. =)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hey, it's worked for the past 7 years for me!.
As a result, somewhere along the line, I DID become happy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
As a result, somewhere along the line, I DID become happy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
nothing , my ex had friends like that!.!.!.it drove me nuts!.!.!.they are building thier dream home!.the one they will live in till thier divorce!.!.all her friends got divorced, i was just waiting for my head to fall!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
So people won't worry them by asking what's wrong!?!? and so people won't think they're a sad, sorrowful person all the time!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
maybe if they pretend long enough they will convince themselves that they are, after all happiness is just a state of mind!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
or maybe if others see that you look happy, you'll attract them over, and their company will make you happy, yay!Www@Enter-QA@Com
A lot of anger build up and hatred toward the people that actually annoy themWww@Enter-QA@Com
Forget Their Sadness Temporarily!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Occasional pity sex!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hurting and deceiving themselves!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Probably not to influence people around them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
a feeling of accomplishmentWww@Enter-QA@Com
A false sense of securityWww@Enter-QA@Com
nothing!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
!.!.!.it keeps the world at bay!.!.!.it's a force field of strength to ward off facing their "demons"Www@Enter-QA@Com
drugs and cupcakesWww@Enter-QA@Com
maybe if the pretend long enough they actually will be!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm with Trixies Mama on this one a false sense of security!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
they get to ignore me with their fakeness!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Early heart disease and lots of gift cardsWww@Enter-QA@Com
i dunt know ? but usualee when people pretend its cuas they dunt liek their realityWww@Enter-QA@Com
Not having people go "Aww Sorry to hear!.!.!. blah blah blah"Www@Enter-QA@Com
Feeling some what good even if it is for a short time!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Uhmmm!.!.!.!. at the bar I frequent it's called a tipWww@Enter-QA@Com
free drinks at the pub!.!.!.!.!.
no one wants to treat a miserable personWww@Enter-QA@Com
no one wants to treat a miserable personWww@Enter-QA@Com