Why are there so many mean people on Yahoo! Answers?!
Question: Why are there so many mean people on Yahoo! Answers!?
Answers:
They were treated in mean ways as kids,
and they think that making fun of someone in front of a group will make THEM have the upper hand in doling out that awful punishment!.!.!.and so safe from it themself
As if THEY have become the abusive adult now (and so safe from it themself)!.
they get a buzz off this too
it's a sense of control in life,( which we all need to have one of some kind)
mine is I like to give people what they need, to be empowered to act for themself
I think thats a positive "sense of control" (to really be taking none, of others!.!.!.just give them their own instead!.)
But yea mean people will take your ability away, and laugh at you!.
They get off on impeding and humiliating another person!.
-on destroying your good time, taking it away-and making you feel bad instead!.
(that makes them feel good, like they DID something,
because they had control (of any kind, dont matter to them, just to get to have some)
Stay away from these people!. Ignore them like they are not there!. Because they feed off attention!. And if you get mad in return you'll only be giving them success in having hurt you!.
and also!.!.!. dont spend time being disgusted at them either (after you've walked away)
If you beleive in god pray they get helped to be healthy and nice, and not mean anymore
If you have no god idea, then just quietly wish those things towards them, and then move away
This will do amazing things for you
You will find peace and calm!.!.!. you'll be serene and wise, in not having to be affected by twisted child's attempt to MAKE you feel bothered
You will just feel love!.
Love feels good
And everybody deserves some
Even them!.
People who lash out are actually in distress usually, for example!.
So next time someone is like that, instead of saying "well screw them then", stop and help!.
You'll find out they just were feeling troubled at the moment!.
Then you'll notice how great you feel all day for being nice!.
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All your interactions, Sunshine, with people leave you with a feeling you got left with from them!.
**************************************!.!.!.
So YOU be in control of what feeling you get left with, ok!?
You always wish others well, even when they are mean, you'll always feel well!.
Thats the secret!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
and they think that making fun of someone in front of a group will make THEM have the upper hand in doling out that awful punishment!.!.!.and so safe from it themself
As if THEY have become the abusive adult now (and so safe from it themself)!.
they get a buzz off this too
it's a sense of control in life,( which we all need to have one of some kind)
mine is I like to give people what they need, to be empowered to act for themself
I think thats a positive "sense of control" (to really be taking none, of others!.!.!.just give them their own instead!.)
But yea mean people will take your ability away, and laugh at you!.
They get off on impeding and humiliating another person!.
-on destroying your good time, taking it away-and making you feel bad instead!.
(that makes them feel good, like they DID something,
because they had control (of any kind, dont matter to them, just to get to have some)
Stay away from these people!. Ignore them like they are not there!. Because they feed off attention!. And if you get mad in return you'll only be giving them success in having hurt you!.
and also!.!.!. dont spend time being disgusted at them either (after you've walked away)
If you beleive in god pray they get helped to be healthy and nice, and not mean anymore
If you have no god idea, then just quietly wish those things towards them, and then move away
This will do amazing things for you
You will find peace and calm!.!.!. you'll be serene and wise, in not having to be affected by twisted child's attempt to MAKE you feel bothered
You will just feel love!.
Love feels good
And everybody deserves some
Even them!.
People who lash out are actually in distress usually, for example!.
So next time someone is like that, instead of saying "well screw them then", stop and help!.
You'll find out they just were feeling troubled at the moment!.
Then you'll notice how great you feel all day for being nice!.
**************************************!.!.!.
All your interactions, Sunshine, with people leave you with a feeling you got left with from them!.
**************************************!.!.!.
So YOU be in control of what feeling you get left with, ok!?
You always wish others well, even when they are mean, you'll always feel well!.
Thats the secret!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I pretty new/just catching on:
so I think some lame answers are just for 2 points
(I changed that negative thinking to:I get 2 Karma points for
actually trying to help someone w my ans)
y!.a!. is a reflection of the real world some people are mean
some people are too annoyingly nice and some people are
choosing to be helpful as they can be/polite/conscientiousWww@Enter-QA@Com
so I think some lame answers are just for 2 points
(I changed that negative thinking to:I get 2 Karma points for
actually trying to help someone w my ans)
y!.a!. is a reflection of the real world some people are mean
some people are too annoyingly nice and some people are
choosing to be helpful as they can be/polite/conscientiousWww@Enter-QA@Com
One, it's the internet!.!.!.so people's asshole level increases about 50%!. Two, most people are well!.!.!.stupid!. And I mean really stupid, like I used to think people were pretty adequate in the intelligence department but not so much anymore!. It's actually quite minuscule!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
!.!.!.to hone your skills of dealing with various personalities!.!.!.
!.!.!.at the tip of YOUR FINGERS!.!.!.
!.!.!.and not be phased by their biting attitudes and sarcasms!.!.!.
!.!.!.and move on, and up in YOUR life with a positive attitude!.!.!.
!.!.!.good luck!.!.!.thanks for asking!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
!.!.!.at the tip of YOUR FINGERS!.!.!.
!.!.!.and not be phased by their biting attitudes and sarcasms!.!.!.
!.!.!.and move on, and up in YOUR life with a positive attitude!.!.!.
!.!.!.good luck!.!.!.thanks for asking!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's because they are miserable and misery loves company and another reason is because they are anonymous behind a computer which they feel they can act however they want!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have met a lot of nice people!.
But you are right, there are too many mean ones!.
Angry, bitter, frustrated!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and it comes across the screen, doesn't it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
But you are right, there are too many mean ones!.
Angry, bitter, frustrated!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and it comes across the screen, doesn't it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The ratio is probably consistent with the mean people everywhere!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because over the Internet, people do and say whatever the hell they want because there is no way that you will meet this person in real life!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Many of them are not really mean in real life, they are just pretending to be someone they're not because they know that nobody will ever find out the truth!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's funny but I've noticed the same thing!. People making rude comments, taking about offensive things, also the use of bad language!. What's wrong about these people is just stupidity!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because they are afraid to show their aggression in the real world and think that here's the place where they have to judge people !.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because they do not even like themselves and they want you to feel their pain!. Do not do it!. Move on away from evil hearted people!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You shouldn't talk like that!. It isn't nice to talk about other people!. It puts you in their catagory!. Just be nice and ignore the mean ones!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The anonymity offered here makes them less restrained by the social niceties!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because they are everywhere!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sarcasm is often misconstrued as evil!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Its called "ignorance" hunny!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Your gonna see mean people everywhere might as well get used to it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because there are mean people in this world and you gotta respect it!. I hate mean people too!Www@Enter-QA@Com
they're all 12 and 13, and not sure what to do with their hormones so they release their frustration out on YAWww@Enter-QA@Com
Because there's so many mean people off Yahoo! Answers I guess!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I know what you mean!. A lot of times they dont even adress the question!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
because they are just weird! they have nothing better to do then be butt cracks!! dont worry bout it!
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Go do your homework!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i think of them as opinionated but some r just straight up nasty!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
You are one of the mean one's!.
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Schools out, the kiddies must play!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because many people don't careWww@Enter-QA@Com
I don't really know the answer but I do agree with you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
cus they have nothing better to do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com