Does this make me a bad person?!


Question: Does this make me a bad person!?
Well first, I live with my boyfriend and his mother
and me and him was in his room playing a game, (my favorite game =( ) and my boyfriends MOTHERS BOYFRIENDS DAUGHER just had a baby not too long ago!.!.!.and she called me in the other room i was polite and everything and i say hey how are you etc and she asked me did i want to hold her baby!.!.!.i said no thank you im a little busy right now she kind of looked at me like i tried to murder her (well maybe not as serious as that but you get the point i hope) and i smiled and walked back to the room!.!.i was polite i wasn't rude about it
and now, my boyfriends mother, and her boyfriend and her friends are all saying that I don't like kids etc etc!.!.!.and its not that its just i was busy at the time i understand she is happy about having a baby and im happy for her!.!.!.but does that make me a bad person for not wanting to hold someone elses baby!?!?
also i don't even really know her i've only met her 3-4 timesWww@Enter-QA@Com


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People give me that too!. Well, maybe I don't want to hold a baby! No one can force it on you!. I don't think you're a bad person!.!.!.on the contrary, you cared too much!. XD

Again, I don't think you're a bad person!. : )Www@Enter-QA@Com

People are proud of their new babies and the polite thing to do is to show interest!. It wouldn't have hurt you to acted interested!. You're pretty quick to show lack of connection to the baby but we are all party of the human village and it wouldn't hurt you to acknowledge that!. Some day you will have kids and you will understand!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

No u r not a bad person at all!. There r often misunderstandings in human interactions!. This was 1 of it!. U r not even closely related 2 d baby!. there r so many family members 4m what u've mentioned above, every1 will have a diffrnt opinion!. Since u politely said no, it means u r not a bad person & the fact that u r also thinking so much abt it shows that u r a good person at heart!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I don't think you're a bad person, if you don't wanna hold the kid it's none of their business, you're not even related, I had to read the question a couple times just to get it straight who the kid belonged to in relation to you :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com

No!.It doesn't make you a bad person!.She isn't even family to you!.It's none of their business if you didn't want to hold the baby you didn't want to hold the baby!.End of story!.Don't even worry about itWww@Enter-QA@Com

No, it doesn't make you a bad person!. If you didn't want to hold the baby, that's your business and they need to get over it!.

It's not like she's your best friend or even a relative!. I never hold babies!. They freak me out!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Not at all!. Just explain to them that you were busy at the time!. Just tell them you love kids and you would love to hold her baby for her anytime!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think they're completely overreacting, and I can understand that you were busy!. And even if when some people aren't busy, they just don't like holding babies, and I think that's fine!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

no your not!.people always seem to think that other people want to hold their babies!. dont feel bad about itWww@Enter-QA@Com

no!.thats upto you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I don't thing it makes you a bad person!. You should not be pressured to hold someone else's baby!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

nope as long as you are ok with it thats all that mattersWww@Enter-QA@Com



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