Do you find it is hard to put yourself out there in social situations?!
Question: Do you find it is hard to put yourself out there in social situations!?
I have always been a loner!. Now I am putting myself out there and experiencing some rejection!. Do you think that it is worth it for me to continue!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Listen!.!.!.I'm going to impart the "wisdom of the ages" to you right now, so listen up, and listen good!.!.!.
It's NOT "rejection!.!.!."
Simply understand that!.!.!.
"Not everybody in the world is going to like you or want you or whatever "you!.!.!."
In fact!.!.!.most people "aren't" going to act or feel about you the way you want, but!.!.!.
"That's Their Problem!"
And THAT is how "harsh reality" truly is!.!.!.
YOUR problem, is that somehow you've come to believe that if "one or two" people (women or friends or whatever) don't dig you the way YOU want them to, that that means that you've been "rejected!.!.!."
And THAT is just not "right thinking!.!.!."
Capche!?!!?
To be a "healthy minded individual," you must start to believe in "the truth," and THAT truth is!.!.!.
You're cool!.!.!.it's just that there are an enormous number of people in life who "are not going to agree with your own assessment of yourself!.!.!."
Now "get over THAT" right now, or I will be forced to beach slap you!.!.!.
YOU are cool!.!.!.(anybody who disagrees, or whatever, can kiss your friggin oz!.!.!.get it!?!!?"
It's NOT "rejection," it's that they suck, and eventually, if you dig down deep to find that "hero" inside you that I know exists, you will find someone who DOES agree with you, because one thing is for darn sure!.!.!.
Nobody likes somebody who has a "wimpy ego" or a "wimpy self-esteem"!.!.!.
Would YOU!?!!? Would YOU really like to hook up with someone who doesn't have self-confidence or a sense of worth unto themselves!?
The answer is!.!.!.YOU yourself avoid those people like the plague, so realize this!.!.!.you must become like the people that YOU want to hang out with!.!.!.if YOU are somebody nobody wants to hang out with, why would that be!?!!?
Because YOU are behaving "just like the people who even YOU don't want to hang around!.!.!."
Get it!?!!?
Now reach down deep inside yourself, and pull out that "hero" that I know is inside you, and pull yourself up by the bootstraps, and get out there and become a person who YOU YOURSELF would like to hang around and be like!.!.!.
Okay!?!!? I know that you can do it!.!.!.now quitcha' whining, and find that "inner cool person" I know is inside you!.!.!.capiche!?!!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's NOT "rejection!.!.!."
Simply understand that!.!.!.
"Not everybody in the world is going to like you or want you or whatever "you!.!.!."
In fact!.!.!.most people "aren't" going to act or feel about you the way you want, but!.!.!.
"That's Their Problem!"
And THAT is how "harsh reality" truly is!.!.!.
YOUR problem, is that somehow you've come to believe that if "one or two" people (women or friends or whatever) don't dig you the way YOU want them to, that that means that you've been "rejected!.!.!."
And THAT is just not "right thinking!.!.!."
Capche!?!!?
To be a "healthy minded individual," you must start to believe in "the truth," and THAT truth is!.!.!.
You're cool!.!.!.it's just that there are an enormous number of people in life who "are not going to agree with your own assessment of yourself!.!.!."
Now "get over THAT" right now, or I will be forced to beach slap you!.!.!.
YOU are cool!.!.!.(anybody who disagrees, or whatever, can kiss your friggin oz!.!.!.get it!?!!?"
It's NOT "rejection," it's that they suck, and eventually, if you dig down deep to find that "hero" inside you that I know exists, you will find someone who DOES agree with you, because one thing is for darn sure!.!.!.
Nobody likes somebody who has a "wimpy ego" or a "wimpy self-esteem"!.!.!.
Would YOU!?!!? Would YOU really like to hook up with someone who doesn't have self-confidence or a sense of worth unto themselves!?
The answer is!.!.!.YOU yourself avoid those people like the plague, so realize this!.!.!.you must become like the people that YOU want to hang out with!.!.!.if YOU are somebody nobody wants to hang out with, why would that be!?!!?
Because YOU are behaving "just like the people who even YOU don't want to hang around!.!.!."
Get it!?!!?
Now reach down deep inside yourself, and pull out that "hero" that I know is inside you, and pull yourself up by the bootstraps, and get out there and become a person who YOU YOURSELF would like to hang around and be like!.!.!.
Okay!?!!? I know that you can do it!.!.!.now quitcha' whining, and find that "inner cool person" I know is inside you!.!.!.capiche!?!!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
yeah i dont like being around a lotta people and i really dont talk to people i dont know!. when i get past that, normally it is a good thing and i like it!. if youve experienced rejection just keep at it!. youll experience both sides of the spectrum and see what you like better, personally id rather be talking to other people than be alone!. you know the people that dont judge you are possibly friends worth having good luck and God bless:)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I hate that!. I've always been shy, but wished I could be more outgoing!. I try, sometimes, but as soon as I feel the slightest bit of rejection, I back off!.!.!.!.it's just my personality, I guess, to be antisocial!. It's worth it to continue, for you, only if you would be really missing out on something great if you don't!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am a loner too!. I notice you stick up for your friends though!. Yep!. It's what I'm doing and I do not like rejection either!. Unlike you though, sometimes I deserve it!. Happy excursions my friend and if you don't like what you see you always have a retreat but you have already made some friends!. The question is can you put up with me!. I was born in the country and I like it there!. I don't mind it if you can't with me!. I really act stupid a lot of the time!. Don't let my Q&A's dissuade you from having a really good experience on here and in life!. I really enjoy solitude myself but you may notice I am on here, reaching out for people to talk to!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i'm not very sociable!. or rather, i'm more comfortable sitting in the back watching what's going on!. you're overflowing with personality, humor and wit, so i think, if you want to "put yourself out there", you should keep on with it!. don't worry about the rejections, everybody gets them sometimes!. i would do things you like doin', meet people that like doin' the same stuff, and you'll have that much in common anyway!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hell, go for it!. Do like I do and leave your feelings at home locked in a filing cabinet!. Oh there'll be a bit of rejection but ignore it, if people aren't open enough to accept you, they probably aren't worth the effort in the first place!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's really up to you and what you want!. I relate and am currently finding it difficult to keep putting myself out there!. However, if I didn't, I would always wonder !.!.!. and it's in my nature to at least try!.!.!.!.
I wonder if this will change one day though!. It's tempting to say NO and go off and forget about caring!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I wonder if this will change one day though!. It's tempting to say NO and go off and forget about caring!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sir, I used to try to be social, but then I realized I just don't like people except as objects!. I'm happier now that I've quit trying to be the way I thought I should be, instead of the way I am, naturally!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, but I'm working on it!. I know what you mean about rejection!. Talking to a good psychologist would probably help!. It's helping me right now!. I think it's called Social Anxiety Disorder!. And yes, it is worth it for you to continue!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
keep on trying!.
i know it's hard!. I have been rejected too!. You know those people are not for you!.
You will find some people that will accept you for who you are!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i know it's hard!. I have been rejected too!. You know those people are not for you!.
You will find some people that will accept you for who you are!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm also a loner with social anxiety!. It is great to improve your social communication because it's necessary to make it in this world!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If I'm putting out it's usually very hard!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
We all have to deal with rejection, it is worth it to continue!.
!.!.!. there are plenty of good days also!Www@Enter-QA@Com
!.!.!. there are plenty of good days also!Www@Enter-QA@Com
yes,,very hard, so i think i`ll continue being alone !!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yeah go on, go for it, you never know unless you try!!!
Steve, lmao I can't think that is just too funny!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Steve, lmao I can't think that is just too funny!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
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