Ladies Survey: What should I do about a girl that I care for who is treating me !


Question: Ladies Survey: What should I do about a girl that I care for who is treating me bad!?
She consistantly chooses to use drugs and other people at my expense!. She will go for days without calling, and then come back and be all about me!.

I know the right thing to do is to wash my hands of her, but it is hard!. What should I do!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
It takes time :( Just go deeper into yourself and find the strength in you!. And then just forget about her once piece at a time!. It's better to go through it than to just ignore feelings and stuff!. Suppression is easy!.!.!.but one day you may end up flipping and ending up on the evening news!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

if she's choosing to do those things after what you've been through the past few weeks, then you know what you have to do!. jeez, hop, you deserve better than that!. end it now, and FAST!. don't make excuses!. you've done hard things before!. look, i was ready to end a 30 yr marriage for similar yet different reasons, and would have, if things hadn't done an abrupt 360!. you can sure end what you have with this woman!. she's no good for you and you know it!. dump the chick, NOW, and find yourself a nice sober gal who will love you like you deserve!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

You should tell her how you feel!. Tell her to go to rehab!. Or just sugjest it!. If she doesn't
want to go u might consider dumping her!. I know what its like to care 4 someone and them treat u bad!.(im only 12) but i know lots about everything!. I made a bad choice!. But
u have the chance to make a good choice!. If she really cared 4 u she would quit drugs!. I really hoped i helped!.

-Victoria Renae-Www@Enter-QA@Com

my ex(the father of my 2 boys) chose drugs and mates over me+his baby's!.When the 2nd son was 24hours old,he went out again,i closed the door and never let him back,and didn't shed another tear+none since,that was 9yrs ago!.I'm happy being a single mum,my kids are great and well adjusted,but they could of had a worst life,had i chosen to wait+wait for the dad to be good!.Still to this day,the father abuses drugs,but he doesn't pay too much attention to the boys,unless it suits him!.If your girl doesn't want to stop and isn't doing anything about it,and you have offered and given support,you will be hurt over+over again!.Some folk change+stop,many don't!.Relationships+family's suffer!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Time to draw the line in the sand! Tell her its the right way or the hiway no if ands or buts and don't you budge not even a little!. People can change but only if THEY want to, don't waste your precious life on someone who does not!. You cant save the world but you can save yourself from the miserable people in it, time to make a stand and get busy livin!. Hope it works out!.!.!. I really do!
P!.S!. sorry!. I am a man but I had to chime in cause you are a friend of alot of mine, no dis-respect intended!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Dude, you need to help this girl out!. Tell her to quit the f*cking drugs which will just kill her!. Are you sure this girl cares for you back!? I bet she's just taking advantage of you!. If I were you, I'd stop caring for her and let her enjoy her drugs!. I wouldn't care for someone who doesn't care for me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

wash your hands of her!.
OR explain to her that you care for her very much but if she doesn't get help or put her selfishness aside that you're going to have to not deal with her anymore because she's dragging you down with her and that's not good!. It's not being a good friend either!.
Hope this Helps ^_^Www@Enter-QA@Com

Dump her!. She's a bimbo and you can do better!. You can't care about someone who doesn't even care about themself!. Drop her, you don't need someone who has time for you when THEY want to have time for you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

You make her choose: You or the drugs!. If she leaves you, it's her loss, if she chooses you!. you can help her!.

I can already tell that you are too good for her!. Why do you love her anyway!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

maybe she wants u 2 get really mad at her so u can leave her cause shes cheating on u or maybe shes just not tht good of a person!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Handcuff her to you otherwise cut the ties that bind!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

You should know better!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

change your number and moveWww@Enter-QA@Com



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