Is loaning a friend money like a kiss of death to the friendship?!
Question: Is loaning a friend money like a kiss of death to the friendship!?
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i've done it twice!. one guy is like a brother and i gave him nearly $700 (i gave him different amounts at different times) and i didn't get it back!. i didn't really trip about it because at the time i had it to lend, but times have been hard for him and i know that in his heart if he could pay me back i would so i wrote it off!. another guy i lent $200!. later when i was pregnant and broke and diabetic and living on junkfood, despite me really needing it back, he played me to the left!. he even told a mutual friend that he had the money to give me, he just didn't feel like it!. so needless to say, he and i aren't friends!. but if it cost $200 to get rid of him, it was worth it!. now that i've had my son, no more lending out money!. EVER!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It can be!. Because for some strange reason, none of my friends like to pay me back!. If they think they can get away with it, then they just act like I never let them borrow nothing!. It's like they get amnesia or something!. I'm way stronger than them, so I think I'm going to have to start beating them up!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
consider a loan a gift of money!. if they pay you back then good but if not it truly was a gift!. i don't "loan" more than $200!. if you get it in writing and a time it has to be paid and the loanee signs it you can fight in court if you want!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It can be the ultimate kiss of death to any relationship!. Lender beware!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
yes, if it is a good amount of money and your gut says not to!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Nope!.
Not unless you trust that friend to pay you back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Not unless you trust that friend to pay you back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Perhaps - no good ever comes of it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, it isWww@Enter-QA@Com
yes of courseWww@Enter-QA@Com
i guess it depends on how much money!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com