Coming out on Myspace?!
Question: Coming out on Myspace!?
I was thinking about posting a bulletin!.
My school gets out soon, and I'm hoping if I do it at the beginning of summer it won't be as big of a deal by next year!.
Good/bad idea!?!? Why/why not!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
My school gets out soon, and I'm hoping if I do it at the beginning of summer it won't be as big of a deal by next year!.
Good/bad idea!?!? Why/why not!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Bad idea, coming out isn't like telling everybody something unimportant!. You should tell your close friends first face to face and then gradually tell people who you like!.
And there will always be one prick who will make it into a big deal, even though I don't really think it is!.
People might also think you're joking!.
I recomend you ask this question again in the LGBT section as they will have more experience with this sort of thing and they will be able to provide you with better advice!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
And there will always be one prick who will make it into a big deal, even though I don't really think it is!.
People might also think you're joking!.
I recomend you ask this question again in the LGBT section as they will have more experience with this sort of thing and they will be able to provide you with better advice!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
it seems like a good idea but maybe you just want to tell people you feel closer to!? it doesn't have to be the business of the entire school (unless you are comfortable with &want all the "publicity")
it really depends on how people at your school are: i know some people can be REALLY prejudiced and stupid about that kind of thing & so maybe you don't want to make yourself a target for prejudice
also, on the other hand, i know lots of people dont REALLY take myspace bulletins seriously so they won't believe you, which you also probably don't want
however you decide to do it, good luck!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
it really depends on how people at your school are: i know some people can be REALLY prejudiced and stupid about that kind of thing & so maybe you don't want to make yourself a target for prejudice
also, on the other hand, i know lots of people dont REALLY take myspace bulletins seriously so they won't believe you, which you also probably don't want
however you decide to do it, good luck!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am not certain why so many people feel it that MySpace is so important to their daily lives!. If you choose to come out on MySpace, only those people who receive the bulletins will know and chances are it will only stop there!. My advice is not to use MySpace as the basis of your coming out experience, I feel you would be cheating yourself out of it!. Come out in real life first, and then online!. That way, you can find forums or support groups who will help prepare you for it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
bad idea!. if you were graduating then i would say go for it but you know how cruel teens can be!. remember the kids from columbine and other school shootings they were treated like outcasts and lepers and they weren't doing what your thinking!. i would avoid all the crtisism, name calling, talking behind your back and possible beat downs that will more than likely haunt you till you get out of school!. we live in a world that if your different you will be made aware of it on a daily basis!. i'm glad you know and accept your feelings but i would keep it a secret for now!. good luck to ya and enjoy your summer!!! :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Why do you need to do it at all!? Your sexuality is your business and that of those with whom you have sex or romantic relationships with, not EVERY BODY'S!
Besides, teenagers can be some of the most emotionally cruelest creatures that walk the earth! I would think twice before I announced my sexuality for all to know, you just may be opening yourself up for a truckload of abuse!
If I were you I would probably only say what my orientation is if I were asked directly, and even then I might only answer if I felt I could trust the person not to become abusive once he or she knew!.
However, you need to do whats right for you, and what ever you choose to do, just make sure you are prepared for what ever happens as a result of it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Besides, teenagers can be some of the most emotionally cruelest creatures that walk the earth! I would think twice before I announced my sexuality for all to know, you just may be opening yourself up for a truckload of abuse!
If I were you I would probably only say what my orientation is if I were asked directly, and even then I might only answer if I felt I could trust the person not to become abusive once he or she knew!.
However, you need to do whats right for you, and what ever you choose to do, just make sure you are prepared for what ever happens as a result of it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
school starts again in just a few short months, so timing has nothing to do with it!. it's the issue at hand!. - if you can't decide "when" to do it, then maybe you shouldn't do it at all since you are not 100% sure about coming out at all!. - people love to stir up ish and love gossip and love rumors!.!. if you don't think you can handle it now, then why would august or sept!. be any better!? - good luck!. and never mind the ******* out there!. don't let them get you down!. ok!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
NOO!
People won't take you seriously, that is probably the worst way to come out!.
Tell your closest friend, he/she will probably say I know or will just be fine it is, but not on a bulletin, that's just dumb!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
People won't take you seriously, that is probably the worst way to come out!.
Tell your closest friend, he/she will probably say I know or will just be fine it is, but not on a bulletin, that's just dumb!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i dont think i would do it over bulletin, i think i would just change my orientation on myspace and wait for people to notice!. btw i know it seems hard coming out but once youve done it its such a reliefWww@Enter-QA@Com
Bad Idea!.i think you should just send messages to the people you actually know and talked to!. If you put a bullentin up complete strangers would know and you might get tons of hatemail from themWww@Enter-QA@Com
go for it!
the only thing is, i'm not sure people will take it as seriously if you post it as a bulletin!.
in the case that they think you're joking!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
the only thing is, i'm not sure people will take it as seriously if you post it as a bulletin!.
in the case that they think you're joking!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
mmm, your friends would probably be pissed off if you didn't tell them first, and just went and told the world, tell the people who you can trust, and who wouldn't careWww@Enter-QA@Com
Only if you want everyone on your myspace to know, I would say first come out to the people who you know would support you send them private messages instead of posting a bulletin!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, I think you should, that way you'll have time for people to get used to it!.!. But, I would tell your closest friends in person if they don't already know!. Good luck :]Www@Enter-QA@Com
Not a good idea!. Things might happen!. You may get hatemail!. It's better to tell friends!. Not everyone should know!. It's really none of their business!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
it depends i mean whats the bullitan about and im sure if its good then i ts good, if its bad then its bad,Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well!.!.!.yes maybe therefore people have the whole summer to get over anything that they have on their mind!. So I say GO FOR IT!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
thats a hard step!.!.!.i would make sure all your close friends knows!.!.!.so it would be eaiser!.!.!.!.then do it on myspace!.!.thats if your readyWww@Enter-QA@Com
Yea, I guess!. Just avoid people for the summer then get questioned later!. Maybe!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You should tell your friends and parents first, in person!. Before telling some strangers!. Don't be scared though!Www@Enter-QA@Com
good idea!. its so much better because your not having to tell them in person!. less awkward too!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sure, Go right ahead!.!.!.!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
well, if you are comfortable with it go for it!!
good luck!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
good luck!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
better to say it in personWww@Enter-QA@Com
If you really want to, sure why not!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
sure if you want toWww@Enter-QA@Com
dude!.!.wait till schools over!.Www@Enter-QA@Com