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Question: Confused opinions needed!.!.!.!?
why is it that ppl think it's so wrong when teenageers have sex and stuff and they say like you should wait until you grow up!.!.!.but isn't sex outside of marraige just as bad whether ur 15 or an adult!.!.!.!.!.why is it ok for adults to sleep around but teens get judged for it!?!?!?

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You're absolutely right; sex outside of marriage is sinful whether you're 15 or 50!. The particularly difficult thing about being a teenager, though, is that you're far less likely to possess the emotional maturity required to deal with sex!. When you're young, your passions run wild, and you aren't experienced in controlling them!. So teenagers are more likely to make more and bigger mistakes, generally speaking!.

It's so awesome that you're waiting! You will never regret that!. :)Www@Enter-QA@Com

I think its because many people are then past the teen stage and forget what it was like to have all those hormones!.!.!. what they focus on instead is their own experience, or they're envisioning a young family member conceiving to have sex and are weirded out by it!.

I don't think everyone links adult sex with sex before marriage!.!.!. some people mean wait till your married, some just mean wait till your responsible enough for sex!.

also, there is the risk of pregnancy that (whether you abort, give up, or keep the baby) many people feel teenagers should try to avoid if all it takes is refraining from sex!.

Body wise, once you start to feel it, you're ready to have sex physically (remember, the concept of teenagers never really took off till the 1910-1920's), but you have to prepare yourself mentally for all it intails!.

Sex really isn't the biggest deal out there, but when you start it, it is a big step, and should be considered as such!.

also, most adults can sleep around and not take it to heart, a lot of teenagers have sex, the relationship doesn't work out, and it leaves them a mess for a while!.

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I'm not sure it's so wrong teens have sex and I think it's commendable when people wait for marriage although I didn't-I was afraid that if I waited for marriage that I would wind up cheating on my husband because the curiosity of what it would be like with someone else would kill me until I cheated on him!.
My problem with teens sleeping around is that it is just too common place anymore-you see 16 year olds who have had sex with way too many partners and aren't always safe about it-HELLO PEOPLE there's such a thing as aids, etc!.
There are consequences to sex such as pregnancy which an adult is more capable of handling than a teen-way too many teen parents out there raising children when they are children-I'm sorry but a teen parent doesn't have much to offer a child-they don't know much about the world themselves!.
also-it is so much better when you love the person and I guess it's hard for adults to think that teens actually know the concept of love-teens seem to know more about lust-completely different!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Im young enough to know if your smart you won't fall pregnant!. It's not that common with people who use protection and play it safe!. But I am old enough to know when your a teenager you head is a mess of emotions, Trust me, one day when your about 20 you will look back and feel like you have been seeing the world through coke bottles until now!. I think that is why you should wait!. Though I am a firm beleiver that sex b4 marriage is a good thing, it is human nature and affects a lot of how we feel!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Adults don't tell you this b/c it's a sin!. We say this b/c we've learned our lessons and have more experience!. We say this to keep teenage girls from getting pregnant and ruining their chances at a better and easier life!. also to keep you guys from getting STDs!. No it is not right to sleep with someone unless your married, I know!. I am 30 with 4 children, had my first at 16 b/c I didn't listen to my mother!. So please wait!Www@Enter-QA@Com

it is not that teens are being judged for it!. They don't have the means (aka Money) to pay for the possible child!. Yes it is just as bad if adults have sex before marriage if they don't have the means to pay for the possible child!. If the adult (teen too) is sleeping around it is just plain stupid!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

You are right- I feel it is wrong for anyone outside of marriage!.

I think so many people think it's worse for kids is because they could get pregnant or get a disease because they aren't educated!. And then society or the kids parents end up paying for the baby!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

You are right, it is wrong with anybody you are not married to, but what's really bad is teen-age girls having several partners!. That is just terrible!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Because at least when your older!.!.!.!.if you get pregnant you can raise the baby better!.!.!.!.and if you were young then you may get an abortion!.

This just has many views and is comlicated to me lolWww@Enter-QA@Com

Adults have a better perspective and are more likely to use protection the right way if at all!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/index!?!.!.!.

i think ur to youngWww@Enter-QA@Com

It is wrong to have any sex outside of marriage!. Your doing the right thing!. Wait and give this gift to your husband!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

because they're old enough to deal with an unexpected pregnancy!Www@Enter-QA@Com

abstinence is gay and boring!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

liarWww@Enter-QA@Com

sex is sex!.


Just wait, you're not missing anything -- trust me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

a bit young but it's ur lifeWww@Enter-QA@Com

well!.!.!. if ur waiting till marriage!.!.
why does it matter to you!?!Www@Enter-QA@Com



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