Cuddles at bedtime?!


Question: Cuddles at bedtime!?
my boyfriend told me my weight did bother him!.!.and was hesitating dating me!.i didnt know this until 4 months into the relationship!.!.it hurt and i told him it was best if we seperated!.!.he didnt want us to be apart so i gave in!.!.we had a drink one night and he confessed his love for me and then said that he always wishes for more (regarding him rather me be thin) this made me sad!.he never cuddles me while i sleep and i think its because im not a skinny little thing!.im the one who always cuddles up to him!.!.its making me feel unloved!.he is affectionate most of all the other times!.when we have sex he doesnt explore my body or carress me but we do kiss passionately!.im lost!.!.what does he really want from me!.im self concious about my weight which is 76kgs !.he tells me im beautiful and spirited but wishes i were his ideal in body!.!.!.help please!.!.is he doing this to mess up my self esteem!.!.why does he stay with me if he likes thin girls ( he did buy me a laptop for my birthday(strange but trueWww@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
You should dump him!.
I mean, I don't get guys these days!.
They say they love you, and thinks your the beautifulest girl in the world, and they don't do anything about it to prove it to you!.

My suggestion is to dump him, because once he finds a better and cuter girl, he's going to dump you and your the one to be hurting!.

Don't let these type of people to bring you down!.

You deserve a better and nice guy than this, and I'm sure that there are tons of other people!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

this is a really hard question to answer, if it were me i'd ask him to talk and tell him gently everything you just wrote!. in "feeling" terms, not confrontational! like:

"i feel very hurt when we make love you don't appreciate my curves, yet you tell me that my weight doesn't bother you!? "
or
"sometimes i feel like my weight bothers you, because we don't cuddle after sex, and that hurts me alot"

good luck! maybe just maybe, if the answers he replies with don't heal your heart, its time to move on!.!.!.!.!.permanently!Www@Enter-QA@Com



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