How Much Does It Hurt When You Finally Realize That...???!
Question: How Much Does It Hurt When You Finally Realize That!.!.!.!?!?!?
your older brother/sister you've looked up to your entire life has never liked you and will never like you!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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it doesnt really hurt, and i'm over it!. after so many yrs, i just have to!. i can't change the way they feel towards me!. but i can change the way i feel towards them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My situation is related but not exact!. I've recently realized that my brother whom I always thought of as a father to me and whom I looked up to since I was little, is not the person who I thought he was!. Or has maybe changed through the years and is not the same as before!.
We use to be so close, and inseparable!. He's ten years older than me, but has always achieved so much that I thought he was invincible!.
No he is not the same; suffering from alcohol abuse and drug abuse (which, I have constantly tried to help him overcome, along with my family)!. Now it seems that he accepts it and never plans on quitting!. Strangely enough he still maintains a normal lifestyle for the most part and a decent job!. But he has stopped being the achiever everyone knew him as!.
It can be hard to deal with this type of thing but you have to remember that role models can be a guideline to help you lead your life, but should not be a mold to adapt to!. You can always trancend their examples!. Spread your wings butterfly!
Au revoirWww@Enter-QA@Com
We use to be so close, and inseparable!. He's ten years older than me, but has always achieved so much that I thought he was invincible!.
No he is not the same; suffering from alcohol abuse and drug abuse (which, I have constantly tried to help him overcome, along with my family)!. Now it seems that he accepts it and never plans on quitting!. Strangely enough he still maintains a normal lifestyle for the most part and a decent job!. But he has stopped being the achiever everyone knew him as!.
It can be hard to deal with this type of thing but you have to remember that role models can be a guideline to help you lead your life, but should not be a mold to adapt to!. You can always trancend their examples!. Spread your wings butterfly!
Au revoirWww@Enter-QA@Com
just wake up and stand on your own legs stop complaining them and do the things u want to do dont try to get them attention what u feel just find what things u like and start appreciating yourself stop critisizing others fill yourself with your own love when u have love inside u your brother and sister start liking you !.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Ha ha i tell my younger sister that i dont like her!.!.!. u know why!?!?!? CUS I LOVE HER!.!. so if she told u that she doesnt like u maybe its cus she loves you!. anways if mean it in the other terms!.!.!.!.!. just take it as ur sister is not thinking logically and maybe she will come around!. SISTERS USUALLY COME AROUND when a family member either A) gets married or B) has a baby!.!. MOSTLY THE baby always gets the sister or brother to come around and guess what!?!!?!!?! It doesnt matter anyways cus maybe she does and just doesnt know it!. U don't think that if something happens she wont come running!? i bet u she does and this whole feeling was for nothing and u allowed ur self to feel bad and so u know if she comes running she loves u !.!.!.!.!. BY THE WAY!.!.!. u know what i would do in this situation !? I would show my sister i love her so that i would not feel guilty cus most of the time when u feel unliked to stay away from her instead bombard her with love so maybe u can get some love back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
aww that is so sad i pretty sure they just saying that and if not those guys should go to hell!!!! it hurt to know even you family member don't care about you who else can you really turn too!.!.sorry you found out !.!.!.but dont worry once you make more money then them then lets see who hates who!.!.!.hehehe no thats evil!.!.!.good luck =)Www@Enter-QA@Com
I get that feeling from both of my younger brothers!. I think they just tolerate me!. Can't tell you the last time they called and wanted to see what I was up to!. It's been almost two years since I hung out with either one of them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, It's hard to be older too!. You have your parents all to your self and then!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.You don't!. Just tell em "Your a rotten sibling"!. See what they say!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
nah, i dont feel hurt at all!. cos i hate them too!. so its even better of they hate me cos that means they will never talk to me and stuff, just consider that were strangers!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
does that mean you have to stop loving yourself!? nope, move on! always love; give love!. just don't disrespect the people that don't love you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It would hurt a lot!. But I think either you are overreacting, or they are telling a big lie just to hurt you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
hehe i don't really care cause i got my own life and i still got my parents, friends and boyfriend!. ehehe and pets tooWww@Enter-QA@Com
then id cry, get angry, bargain with them, then finaly accept that they dont like me and take their stuff from their room!.!.!.!.SILLY LITTLE GIRL! everyone goes through it!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Try finding some common ground with them and gain their respect if it's that important to you!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Don't know, I'm the oldest!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Idk, it kinda sucks, you know!.
It's like loving someone who doesn't love you back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's like loving someone who doesn't love you back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes it hurts!.!.!.!.
if I wasn't an only child!. :P
Hahhahahaha!.
And because I don't know what its like to have siblings, I cannot help you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
if I wasn't an only child!. :P
Hahhahahaha!.
And because I don't know what its like to have siblings, I cannot help you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
They have to be lying or they are a sociopath!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
I just hate em back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i would so not careWww@Enter-QA@Com
get over itWww@Enter-QA@Com
dat would be like , ur own kin stabbing u from behind !.!.!.!.
like the pain ceaser felt wen brutus stabbed him!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
like the pain ceaser felt wen brutus stabbed him!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com