I'm so #!$%ing sick of being labelled goth and emo!?!


Question: I'm so #!$%ing sick of being labelled goth and emo!!?
I'm sick of it!. People think I am goth and emo just cause I have long black hair!. I am not either!. I listen to all kinda of music, thrash and death metal, power ballads, punk, poppunk, grunge!.!. but not emo!. I don't hate my life, I love it! Yeah sure I can get depressed sometimes but everybody does!.!.!. And I do not cut myself!.
How do I convince these idiots that long black hair and awesome music and being a happy person does not mean emo or goth!?
These people don't even know what goth really is, and emo is, in my opinion, just a music, and a fashion style!. It's just really annoying and starting to p*ss me off!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


Answers:
Obviously they have no idea what goth and emo are!. People should really stop stereotyping other people because it's offensive and pointless!. You should tell them that you enjoy life and also tell them what music you listen to and your hobbies!. Tell them that you like long black hair and you like it that way!. You're not trying to copy anyone else!. Another thing you could say, is that they don't even know you, so how would they know!. Just because you have one characteristic of that stereotype, does not mean that you are one!. Example: Just because you wear pink, doesn't mean you're a prep!. People just assume that that person is one!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

It's probably because Goth and Emo folks tend to change their appearrance to intentionally be something different!. Dying your hair tends to place you into that category because it's so different from your usual appearrance!. Rockers don't "usually" do that kind of thing!. P!.S!. Your rant sounded really emotional to me!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

okay don't try and convince them anything and don't let yourself get pissed off with them!. If they can see you getting angry they will just call you an emo more because you are angry!. just be yourself and just think to yourself that it is their problem that they put a label on you before they know who you really are!. i really wish u luck with this!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Sorry but your just gonna have to put up with it , haha
Think of a comeback or something!.

When they call it you say "no, and do you even know what a goth/emo is" if they say they emos cut their wrist and die and whatever, you can just laugh because you dont and they look gay!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Do you wear eyeliner, and tight jeans as well!? if i saw someone with long black hair!.!.!.i would just think they have long black hair, now if you wear the same clothes that the emo kids do, it would make sense that people think your emo!.!.!.other than that i don't know what to tell you but it doesn't matter what other people think because you are an individual, not part of some labelWww@Enter-QA@Com

You dont have to prove yourself to anyone!.!.!.you dont want to be friends with these people if they dont like you for who you are so dont bother trying to convince them of anything!.!.cut your losses on focus on people that are really your friendsWww@Enter-QA@Com

I'm sure not everyone calls you these freakish labelling names!. Stick with your mates and be who you want to be, dont change for anyone else!.
Dont listen to crap music just because everybody else does and keep your hair like it is!.!.is sounds really nice :]

Dont worry about the names!. They mean nothing!.!.once you show them you dont care, the names will stop!.

Good luck mayytee!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Let those freaks call you whatever they want!. You be who you are!. Wear what you want, listen to what you want, and look how you want!. The day you start changing yourself to please others is the day your beautiful self begins to die!.

Be you! Let them say what they want!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

As long as you say you aren't and these people are getting on your nerves, then you better do something before they push you towards long-term depression !
Some activities that beam cheerfulness and peace will eliminate there allegations!.

And , you *ready to fall* where exactly, Mr!.Brunette Rapunzel !?!?!?

Some activities that beam cheerfulness and peace will eliminate there allegations!.

G¤¤d Luck !Www@Enter-QA@Com

It sounds like there are some immature as*holes labeling you!. Unfortunatly, this happens with almost everyone!.!.!.preps, jocks, nerds, emo, gangster-wannabes, etc!.!.!.

I know it's hard to ignore these fools!. Just don't let it show that is bothers you!. Make a t-shirt that says "I am NOT EMO!"!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

They'll get over it!. REAL emos don't have friends, and don't talk to people!. People your age (I'm guessing your a teenager) just like to say everyone and everything is "emo" "stupid" "gay" whatever!. In my opinion, it's immaturity!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I hate when people assume that of me, too, and I don't wear tight jeans, and I don't even dye my hair! They just assume I'm either one because of the black sweatshirts I wear with my hood over my head!.!.!.!. dumb rednecks!. T!.T+Www@Enter-QA@Com

calm down!.
well if your not gonna change for them why are you asking that question they obv think you dress like a goth and if you wont change for them then theres nothing you can do!.
soz!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

There's GOT to be reasons other than your black hair making folks believe you're emo and goth!.

Do you wear black all the time!?

Walk with your head hanging down!?

Moan and groan about everything!?

C'mon - what are you not telling us!Www@Enter-QA@Com

uhmm!. why does it bother you so much!? just tell them calmly "i'm not"!. i don't think it would kill you to ignore them!. "emo" and "goth" weren't insults last time i checked!.
-bf jb nmWww@Enter-QA@Com

1: correct them
2: get away from them get better friends
3: try to ignore them
4: come up with good comebacks!. "If you
re so obsessed and proving that I'm emo then you yourself must be emo"Www@Enter-QA@Com

My advice, be yourself (cliché, I know)!. Some lucky girl will love it!. Besides, on the most female population's behalf, we love guys with long hair!. I myself have a habit of gawking at hot boys w/ shoulder length hair XD!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Go down to a T Shirt shop and have them custom make you a shirt that says "I AM NOT EMO"

That should give you the desired effect!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

People always believe what they want!. It's hard to change their minds!. Just be yourself and don't listen to them!. You and your friends know who you really are!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Unfortunatly, the ignorance will not go away unless you have a total makeover!. All I can say is tell them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

? I'm listening ?Www@Enter-QA@Com

dont ware dark cloths maybe style your hair with gel but dont you change for no one mate tell them to shove ther nasty coments up ther as$Www@Enter-QA@Com

You sound really emotional!. Just tell people that you like to keep to yourself and listen to your music!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

f it looks like a duck, and talks like a duck, and swims like a duck, ummm!.!.!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Don't let them get to you!. Just ignore them when they call you goth or emo!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Same thing happens to me everyday!.
Best thing is to ignore them to be honest!.
If that doesn't work!?
I have to deal with itWww@Enter-QA@Com

You sound emo/goth to me!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. You have the anti-social thing going for ya too :) Keep it up & they'll keep on too!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Tell them to go f*ck themselves!. It shouldn't matter what people say, just enjoy life, they're just jealous

hey thats the motto I follow =]Www@Enter-QA@Com

I don't think you're emo!.!.!.you're just being yourself!.
Good for you!
I have blond hair and I dyed it dark brown before!.!.!.I'm not emo; just don't like blond hair!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Who cares!? People are ignorant!. Be you and be true to yourself!. No one else matters!Www@Enter-QA@Com

cut your hair short, listen to rap, wear blue and white shirts and sweaters, change your haire to brownWww@Enter-QA@Com



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