Poll: Have you ever been abused- How did you deal with it..?!
Question: I don't think there are any human beings who have not been abused. People put the negativity out of their minds pretty much...at least when they are in a safe environment.
If you are still in an abusive situation, you need to figure out a way to get out of it. If you are out of the situation, begin to realize that that was then, this is now and live in the present.
Different people have different abilities to live in the present instead of dwelling in the past or projecting into the future. If you are safe and comfortable with others in the moment, be grateful for that and live in the moment. The past doesn't have to control your life. Get counseling if you continue to dwell over yesterday or tomorrow.
What we have today is a gift...its why we call it "The Present". Yesterday is a done deal. Just do what you can to keep yourself safe today.
Everyone has been abused at some point in their life. Everyone has been ridiculed or even physically hurt by family members so don't feel so special. It can be dealt with...millions of people already have.
Answers: I don't think there are any human beings who have not been abused. People put the negativity out of their minds pretty much...at least when they are in a safe environment.
If you are still in an abusive situation, you need to figure out a way to get out of it. If you are out of the situation, begin to realize that that was then, this is now and live in the present.
Different people have different abilities to live in the present instead of dwelling in the past or projecting into the future. If you are safe and comfortable with others in the moment, be grateful for that and live in the moment. The past doesn't have to control your life. Get counseling if you continue to dwell over yesterday or tomorrow.
What we have today is a gift...its why we call it "The Present". Yesterday is a done deal. Just do what you can to keep yourself safe today.
Everyone has been abused at some point in their life. Everyone has been ridiculed or even physically hurt by family members so don't feel so special. It can be dealt with...millions of people already have.
nope..
i bend over and take it.
i called dyfs and they took care of everything... now i live with my grandparents
nope
I've been in 4 relationships that were abusive to some degree. I've been both the victim and the attacker, emotionally and physically. I was so screwed up that I stayed in the relationships until the guys eventually left me. I didn't get out of it like I should have.
I'VE NEVER BEEN. but my cuzin has. We all (Me my brother, and my 2 other cuzins,) went and started beating on my uncle for doing it.
i've only been metally abused..it was really bad for a while, i was putting myself down after that all the time, and thinking i wasn't good enough. But i pulled myself round, and realised that it was them that wasn't good enough.
yeah-counseling/prayer and time
yes, i don't talk to my parents.
Physically abused? Never.
Abused in terms of friendship? Yes, many times.
I've learned my lesson now and have been avoiding those kind of people who are not really true friends. I also try to avoid being in similar situations totally.
I did when i was little, i was coming to gripps with it, but in the UK when i was on holiday i got sexualy assaulted... But i'm sorta doing ok.....x
the only one abusing me is me....that too is a tragedy
seriously, no...if you have, speak to someone and free your mind of it at least, and hopefully report them to police and your parents...no matter what the abuse was
Well when I was a little kid, my cousins who were no more than 1,2 and 5 years older than me used to touch me and stuff. It was akward because they are girls too, and we get along fine. I geuss I'm just now realizing I was sexually abused when I was younger
I went to my local school and had a shootout. It sure is effective at relieving stress
no thank god
you
elizabeth