POLL: What do YOU do to cope when you lose a friend??!


Question: today i lost one of my best friends. he said he doesnt want to be friends anymore..says its best for the both of usif we end it all right now. so what do i do now? im heartbroken and this sucks
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Answers: today i lost one of my best friends. he said he doesnt want to be friends anymore..says its best for the both of usif we end it all right now. so what do i do now? im heartbroken and this sucks
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thanks =]
xoxo

Oh dear...I am so sorry...it must feel overwhelmingly painful...
*hugs*
I wish I had some mind-blowingly profound advice for you, but I don't. I have had similar experiences and I just have to wade through the crap on my way out.
I guess that is the one thing I CAN tell you.
No matter how dark or painful it is feeling right now...no matter how much it may APPEAR to be devastating...life DOES go on.
Maybe not as quickly as we would like...but...it does happen.
Keep doing what you are doing...this question is a way of reaching out to others...accepting their help, good thoughts and friendship.
That can mean the world at a time like this...
*more hugs*
Keep your chin up...even if it is hard...keep trying.

i laugh, answer questions on yahoo answers, and watch my fav TV. show.

Move on, life is all about tranquility & fluidity.

I find a new, better friend, and I try not to blame myself.

Smoke
eat fresh

well make new ones

you cry

Same here but we didn't say anything, it just went cold and we didn't talk anymore. I just wondered what I should do and then came to the conclusion of making new friends.

Just... Ignore it.
Pretend its not happening.

listen to musiik qet over it && move on its life =] somtimes you have to let things go for the better .

It sucks, I know. I've learned the hard way that you won't always have the same best friend your entire life, or even be in that same group of people you were with. If you had one best friend at a given time, you might not have them later in life. Just let it go and cherish the friendship you once had with that person. You will make another best friend and you don't know it yet. =]

first of all sorry this has happened to you

second of all, try to look at it with a bit of a positive spin
whatever happened is over now and it probably is best for the both of you to move on
if you let it drag out it might have become nasty

there is nothing to make the hurt go away fast, but just keep on socializing and realizing that it doesn't make you a bad person
it just so happened that this relationship didn't work out

good luck

simple, find new friends! You never know who might come along the way (:

i tell someone or write it down ina diary, blog etc to get it off my chest. sure it still hurts but there is less of it than before

just become really good friends with the friends you already have. try to build a bridge. it will work out eventually.

When my bff died in a wreck, I used to go to her grave a lot and talk to her and tip and 40 for her.

I fix all my problems by sleeping until they go away. I sleep too much....

Try to get them back...by what ever means possible!

What would I do? Sleep with his sister. =)

hang out w/some else, but its hard for me to keep track caus i hav like around 100 lol!

Find a new best friend
If it was me i would do it or get on with life
I would never go back to him and beg him to become my friend again.
I don't show people my weaknesses.

I had this happen when I was about 19 years old. At the time I was devastated. It turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. Find a job that you work with a lot of different people, especially people around your age, and you will make some of the best friends of your life. That's what I did (unknowingly) and they are still my best friends over 7 years later.

Trust me, you have bigger and better things ahead for you in the future. No one deserves to be disrespected by someone that they cared about.

It would depend on the circumstances. The thing I would ask...were they really a friend in the first place?

To me, it seems that people use friendships for one reason.... self gain. If it isn't mutually beneficial, then what's the point?

I got an email from a "friend" that has always stuck in my head, "A friend will bail you out of jail, a true friend will be sitting next to you laughing at how bad the two of you screwed up!"

Personally, I would cheer myself up with another tattoo!

Friends come and go, and those are the ones I see as aquaintances. Real friends can go but when they come back it's like they never left. And even when they're away for a while you're still friends. Someone who can drop you as a friend and not care for you anymore was never a friend to begin with. That person just wanted something from you and ended up leaving after they found out they could not obtain that something you have. He told you he didn't want to be friends anymore and ended it. Would a real friend ever end a friendship if he/she was a genuine friend?

I can think of younger days when living for my life
Was everything a man could want to do.
I could never see tomorrow, but I was never told about the sorrow.

And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend a this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again.

I can still feel the breeze that rustles through the trees
And misty memories of days gone by
We could never see tomorrow, noone said a word about the sorrow.

And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again.

I doubt if that helped. but I couldn't but help think of that song when I read the question

I surtround myslelf with more loyal friends. Eat a lot of chocolate invite a friend over and watch comedy marathons.

huh...wow you don't have any more friends.... Anyways give him/her these quotes in letter:

Dreams are to be forgoten
Reality to be lived
Desires to be fulfilled
& destiny to be reached.
Where it began.
Where will it end.
Friends from the start.
Friends till the end !!.....

Or give him/her a sweet, beautiful greeting card


Best Of Luck

From one Goddess to another Goddess, you have several choices.
1. Go eat a gallon of your favorite ice cream
2. Cry your heart out( this I do not recommend)
3. Go to the SPCA & get yourself a dog or a cat to tell your problems to, plus they will love you & won't judge you.
4. Find yourself a new hobby to occupy your thoughts.
5. Curl up on the sofa or your bed and watch old Bette Davis' movies.
6. Get on Yahoo Answers & ask and answer tons of questions till the hurting goes away or you drop off to sleep from exhaustion.
7. Watch Adult Swim on the cartoon channel or something on TV
8. Sketch out new designs you've been wanting to try.
9. Make a voodoo of this person & enjoy sticking pins in it for all the hurt this person has caused you.
10. OR Just go to sleep & get on with your life, it's like Scarlett O'Hara says in Gone with the Wind, "after all, tomorrow is another day."

i tell myself that she's not really a frend 2 begin w/...
real frends never abandon each other
they stand by u & will always understand & 4give u 4 every mistake u do

well, i hate to say this, but...maybe he wasn't worth it after all! keep smiling, my beautiful friend!

=)
xoxo



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