I slapped a guy on the face today, was I right or wrong?!
Question: If you look at my profile you can guess am a very sweet person. But this guy is no friend just someone I talk to sometimes when were waiting on the bus. He is the same age as me and he is kinda cute but nothing to fight over, but anyway I was talking to him today about how some guys are shallow to me and won't give me a chance and see the person inside. And then he told me maybe I need to lose some weight.....and I was very shocked I swear he never said anything so wrongful in his life to me!!!
I got very upset and maybe I should of walked away but I slapped him across the face and I do feel sorta bad but he should of never said that to me, am happy with myself and now am thinking its my age group that's why guys are kinda shy towards me because the media is there leader.
But I don't want to ever talk to him again.
Wouldn't you do the same?
Answers: If you look at my profile you can guess am a very sweet person. But this guy is no friend just someone I talk to sometimes when were waiting on the bus. He is the same age as me and he is kinda cute but nothing to fight over, but anyway I was talking to him today about how some guys are shallow to me and won't give me a chance and see the person inside. And then he told me maybe I need to lose some weight.....and I was very shocked I swear he never said anything so wrongful in his life to me!!!
I got very upset and maybe I should of walked away but I slapped him across the face and I do feel sorta bad but he should of never said that to me, am happy with myself and now am thinking its my age group that's why guys are kinda shy towards me because the media is there leader.
But I don't want to ever talk to him again.
Wouldn't you do the same?
I slap guys all the time. Never once have I slapped one across the face though lol..I feel it's okay..as long as you're not a guy slapping a girl across the face. I mean that is very rude. I would be insulted and I get physically! lol..I don't "hurt" them though, just maybe a slight tap. How old are you anyway?
he sounds like a jerk
no I wouldnt
Yes, you were wrong. You committed battery over a verbal insult.
It's doubly bogus when a female initiates a physical altercation, because the male is screwed no matter what he does. If he hits back, he's a woman-hitter, if he just takes it, he's a wuss, and God help him if he reports it.
Am I endorsing his behavior? No, but yours was worse. All he did was say something inappropriate, and you hit him. Inexcusable.
P.S. "Very sweet" people don't commit battery.
P.P.S. Oh, now you are advocating battery upon ME for saying something you dislike? I can see you didn't learn anything from physically attacking your acquaintance.
No...I would....Cry...LOL! Yesh I would do the same.
Slapping anyone, for any reason, is wrong.
It's an act of violence.
Do you think it's OK for a guy to slap a girl for any reason?
Than stop thinking it's OK for you to do it.
This is one reason there continues to be violence against women;
because so many women think it's OK for them to do it.
a little over reaction, it may have gotten to you more than you think, not about what he said but the fact that is what he thinks about you. You should apologize and tell him your sorry for over-reacting and next time someone asks a question like that, he should keep hi mouth shut
Wrong. You don't slap people for stupid comments. I would be slapping people in Y!A all day if slapping people for stupid comments were permitted. Silence is golden. Next time act as if he doesn't exist. Cut him off without explanation.
oh my god.
right, all men are the same, as a matter of fact, go slap him again.
Wrong, You must keep your hands to Yourself...!!
I'm so sorry, guys can be such buttholes. I would cry or just be so shocked or end up doing some things that would I would end up regretting later.
I think he desevered it.
he was being a @$$ but still i think it wasn't right to hit him.
find out why he insulted you and see if you need to forgive him or not. WORKED FOR ME! :D
True, the guy may be a jerk, but he may also be right. Ask yourself, " Do I need to lose some weight ? " Afterall, carrying extra weight around is not only unattractive, but also unhealthy...
Edit : " In that matter " ? Shouldn't it be, " In that manner " ? Maybe you should be in school working on your spelling instead of out slapping guys around...
5'8" ; 350 lbs.? If you don't think that's overweight, then you are headed for an early death, my dear. But, then, it's YOUR life...
I personally wouldn't have slapped him...I would've probably tried to get my point across to him by talking...well, mostlikely yelling with anger.
You're right though, he was a jerk at saying that...but I don't think it was to the point where you had to hit him. Plus, though it isn't a big deal...it is against the law to do such a thing.
^_^
I would've slapped him, kicked him in the nuts, called him a few choice names and left. He sounds like a total buttface jerk. You were absoloutely right!
Yeah you are wrong. Hitting someone because he said something you do not like is very immature. You are right to feel like you want to hit him, but actually doing so is another thing. Rather than a slap, just tell him off and walk away from him. At the end of the day, you would have proven to be the mature one with poise and class. Your lack of maturity may also reflect on your true age.
I read what you wrote; I read the comments (answers); I read your profile.
You WERE WRONG; at the very least, you should apologize to him.
If a man did that to another man, let alone to a woman, he would be in jail facing a lawsuit.
You women don't want "equality"; you want to rule.
You ARE SERIOUSLY overweight; IF you care at all for yourself, your health, your life, you WILL lose weight.
Maybe he was offering common reasons for that.
It COULD have been JOKE. Us guys make jokes about the way we all look.
EDIT
Look, if you want to be treated equally, be prepared to be treated like a guy!
Yes.You were wrong.He didn't physically put his hands on you.He made a very rude comment I must admit,but you HAD NO RIGHT!ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT!Regardless of how mean and chauvinistic his comment was to put your hands on him.And if he filed charges.You'd get in trouble.And honestly.If you did that to me.No offense,but you'd get slapped right back.I'm a girl by the way and don't condome violence on anyone much less women,but come on.There has to be a line drawn because you were out of it.
Yes because he deserved it! Because I'd get mad if someone said that to me or asked how old I am!
NO never feel bad
i ve done it before
and ive gotten more respect so far because people realize theres a limit to insulting someone
you were right
That's really rude of him.
I would have kicked him- so you did very good. What you did was right.
You were right
You go girl, give him a slap across the face for me
no i wouldnt but thats just you....(i dont mean that in a mean way) because thaat was like SOO RUDE and MEAN of him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how did he react though???? i wannnaa nooo!!! haahah but yes that was fine of you to do! smack him again if you want to .... that wasnt nice of me
I slapped my brother once .. he deserved it,
and it sounds like this guy deserved it to.
There are a few guys i've met who
i'd love to go back and slap really hard!!
You go girl! I would have done the exact same thing that you did!
Good job!
I slapped someone the other day =] he called me an @-hole