Ladies, do you find non confident guys attractive? why or why not?!
Question: It depends. It's cool if a guy's a little uncertain about some things, that's kinda cute, but if they're always like "Oh, I can't do anything right at all, I'm awful, horrible..." or "I'm always right, no matter what you say," it's aggravating. Both extremes are uncool. I don't want to have to constantly reassure someone, but I don't like arrogance either. So, probably the best in my opinion is a little of both.
Answers: It depends. It's cool if a guy's a little uncertain about some things, that's kinda cute, but if they're always like "Oh, I can't do anything right at all, I'm awful, horrible..." or "I'm always right, no matter what you say," it's aggravating. Both extremes are uncool. I don't want to have to constantly reassure someone, but I don't like arrogance either. So, probably the best in my opinion is a little of both.
They think shy guys are cute.
NO no no no
It's very unnattractive
Cute but not attractive...
unattractive
Confident.
they know what they want
not really, i like someone who is confident, it's appealing
sometimes, it depends if they really do look good. if they do who cares? and you don't got to worry about them cheating as much =]
non-confident no, I like confident people since I'm a confident person. But that was an obvious question, what do you mean by 'non confident' exactly?
Being 'shy' doesn't necessarily mean non confident, some people are just not the talkative style but can still believe in themselves.
No. I tend to go for the "alpha dog" kind of guy. They are confident. So really, a guy who doesn't have confidence just isn't my type.
no, insecurities are always unattractive. I don't want to have to compliment someone every 5 minute for him to know i love him.
Yes, and no.
I find non-confident guys attractive because it seems like they need someone to take care of them...I also know that they have the most potential for being controlling and scary.
I like confident guys because they're...well...confident. It shows that they are okay with themselves how they are without caring about what others think. They also tend to be cocky sometimes, though.
lol, I just like guys. <3
No, it makes me feel bad for them. It makes me think weakly of them, and I will not respect them.
I like guys in the middle. Cocky isn't attractive, but neither is a guy that thinks he's crap.
Well it depends on the guy and the girl really, like sometimes it could work not being so confident and other time it wont.
Well as long as they have a good personality it doesn't matter as much, but saying that i do like confident guys not arrogant ones, you need a guy to protect you or at least stand up up for himself and be confident at times like those :)
well, not really. i like self confidence in guys, but not to much 'cause it will cause *********.
No.
Not man enough to protect us.
No I dont becasue they are to dange shy to ask me out. But I dont like so confident they get cocky.