Poll: Why do Women?!
Question: Drop a guy who is very good to her for a guy who mistreats her,goes out on her,and is a total jerk to her?
Answers: Drop a guy who is very good to her for a guy who mistreats her,goes out on her,and is a total jerk to her?
It depends. Probably every one has a different reason. The same question could be asked: "Why do children from good homes run away?"; "Why do people quit good jobs and go unemployed for a while?"; or, "Why does someone choose to drink again after being sober for years?"
Humans often are not rational creatures, and they think that what they gain from choosing one path outweighs what they had with the other. With the errant child, it is a sense of freedom and liberty. With the employee, it may be that the money and benefits were not worth the hassle. For the drinker, it may be that they thought partying would give them more satisfaction than sobriety.
There is something that she thinks is worth enough to outweigh everything else. What is wrong is her internal sense of value. People suffer unnecessary abuse because they feel that they are being rewarded somehow. Often, it takes a long time for someone to realize that he is being short-changed.
As a positive note, if she is so blind to choose so poorly, it is probably best that she moved on. Yeah, it hurts for us "good guys," but what we really deserve is a woman that has her values straight and can really appreciate what we do for them.
we like a challenge, until we wise up
Not all women are like that! I'm sorry you got hurt, though!
Women like bad boys, i stopped being nice to chics a long time ago and they LOVE me now.
I dropped a guy who cheated on me, used me, mooched off of me, lied to me, etc and I left him for a man who treats me like a queen. I've been married to my king now for 8 years and I couldn't be happier. 2D
not all women do that and most women do that cuz they want a challenge and most women are attracted to jerks
I'm afraid that some women need to have a guy who's a jerk so they can complain about him to their friends.
First of all, you cannot and should not lump all females into this category, as not every female dumps a good husband or boyfriend for a bad one.
maybe she is a masochist
I know what you mean. My ex dropped me even though I had a pretty good income for a far better looking guy who was horrible to her. He cheated on her, even hit her on occasion. I never hit her or cheated on her or degraded her in any way. No matter. She went for his looks as well as his pathetic $15,000 in severance pay. She thought he was rich and hot.
When he was done using her she came looking for me and I was long gone. Now I'm married (13 years), have two great kids, two vehicles, and very nice house, I am retired at 39 and have a very healthy income.
She is kicking herself daily over her decision. Now she lives with a 52 year old man and his 5 kids and his mother in a single wide trailer. He is on state assistance.
She chose her path and now has to walk and I don't feel the least bit of pity for her.
Ladies don't crucify me but I believe that women like drama. They don't want it but for some it defines who they are. Gives them something to talk about. They love drama but hate it at the same time. Their hearts desire the good guy but their egos desire something that will make themselves the focus with drama. A good guy can make the woman the center of attraction but not on all areas. Nothing to complain about, nothing for people to comfort them over....yadda yadda yadda...I don't understand it either. I am glad I found my queen.
One of life mysteries I guess. I guess every girl is attracted to the bad boy once in her life and think they can change them into what they want until they realized they can't and go back to the nice and good guys. So, for all those who say nice guys finished last, isn't true. I think some women it is a pattern that each has to break, think about we are conditioned from childhood to believe that drama and unhappiness brings fairy tales ending. I mean look at Cinderella, Snow white, etc. All these tales have in common women struggling to find their prince. So some women goes through bad relationship to the next trying to find a good guy. Or maybe I' am being to cynical.