Do you run away...?!
Question: when confronted to anger or do you just stay there and contemplate it with something approaching a smile?
Answers: when confronted to anger or do you just stay there and contemplate it with something approaching a smile?
I tend to run away because of the fear of my own reactions...
I never run, as a young man I fought, now I contemplate and evaluate my choices, I should learn to smile too.
I stand there and give them "the look". A little smile? yes. because they have about 10 seconds before the can of wupass is opened.
i always seem to runaway from everything...
I may smile, it depends.
I never run.
sometimes anger excites me..it is the perfect opportunity to let out your inner bee-yotch..
..i hang around in there until the situation gets settled..or at least try to make some understandings with the opposing person..
you cant run from anything,,,not even yourself,,,for me the best thing to do is to understand what is really happing, and then deal with it,,so it doesnt happen again,,anger is a waste of my time,,,but understanding how some one might feel and fixing it,,make's me smile,,,,
Yes I run away,I dont want to do something irrational with my anger and hurt others,I have done shameful things with my anger,I have hurt people close to me because of it,I dont have the inner strength yet to overcome it so running away is the only thing I can do.
i stay. i believe in confrontation no matter what.
...bottom line, I don't do anger well...I have "cat claws", but I don't use them much
I stand there and stare expressionless and when I am done staring I explode or walk away. It all depends on how violent the anger is that I encounter.
When the confront you with anger, all they want is to see you angry too!! Or see you scared, running away. In such cases, I am trying to control my anger and I appear calm as if their anger is not my concern (which is not -that's the truth). If I manage to have some smile, it is wrecking their nervous system. I rarely succeed in smiling though. I just remain calm - it is already too much for them to bear!! heheheee