Why????:(Help!?!
Question: Ok so i love my mom real bad.My parents are divorced and i live with my grandparents who are wonderful.Anyways i haven't see my mom since last year on decemember.She won't answer my calls and she won't call.She didn't even call on Easter to wish me a happy easter.Shes usually always at her job or doing something else.I am crying as i type this.I miss her real bad.I can't send her emails because she dosen't have a computer.Its so hard to deal with it.I am feeling guilty like of the pain i put her when she was giving birth.I feel unwanted...Like an unwanted child.Why is this?Why don't my mom answer me?:(
&& i worry about her alot
Answers: Ok so i love my mom real bad.My parents are divorced and i live with my grandparents who are wonderful.Anyways i haven't see my mom since last year on decemember.She won't answer my calls and she won't call.She didn't even call on Easter to wish me a happy easter.Shes usually always at her job or doing something else.I am crying as i type this.I miss her real bad.I can't send her emails because she dosen't have a computer.Its so hard to deal with it.I am feeling guilty like of the pain i put her when she was giving birth.I feel unwanted...Like an unwanted child.Why is this?Why don't my mom answer me?:(
&& i worry about her alot
Your mom loves you.She just needs her space.Atleast your moms still alive.You should be thankful.Theres kids out there who don't have mothers at all or whos mothers don't even care about them.Maybe your mom works alot.I'm sure that she'll drop in a call.If she dosen't drop you a line try going to her house by yourself or with a relative to see her.Ifs shes not home then thats the problem she must be at work or somewhere else
wow, i'm sorry, maybe you could try going to visit her and confront her about how you feel....at least that way you'll have closure
I'm so sorry. Ask your grandparents if you can go visit her (unexpectedly so she won't have an excuse) then just really tell her how you feel and how much you worry about her and miss her. Don't feel guilty, you couldn't help being born and it IS a painful thing, but it wasn't your fault. Good luck.
cause you want someone and she doesnt want to talk/see you.. Divorce can be a very depressing
What ever your mom is dealing with - is her stuff, not yours. You ought not have guilt but be proud of yourself. You are wanted, without a doubt - and regardless of how your mom acts - she will always want her baby, part of life. Be grateful for your grandparents, friends and anyone that touches your life and give them the positive energy they deserve instead of expending energy on someone that at this moment in time can not accept it. I believe as you let it go, and you use your energy in positive ways, the other will come around the other being your mom.