Why is it that when u chat with someone online and find out u have so much in co!


Question: then u chat online for a week or so....then all of a sudden they seem kinda bored? theres this one person that ive been chatting with....we have been getting along so well!~ now all of a sudden this person doesnt answer my im's~ dont answer my fone calls!! whats up with that? i understand he is busy..but i take time outta my day...y cant he?

serious answers only.....is it cuz hes just a player tryin to get some dirty pics? what do u think?


Answers: then u chat online for a week or so....then all of a sudden they seem kinda bored? theres this one person that ive been chatting with....we have been getting along so well!~ now all of a sudden this person doesnt answer my im's~ dont answer my fone calls!! whats up with that? i understand he is busy..but i take time outta my day...y cant he?

serious answers only.....is it cuz hes just a player tryin to get some dirty pics? what do u think?

Could be the guy was just busy doing things to save his job before chatting with you. How do you know he hasn't tried contacting you? You might be just jumping to circumstances that were beyond his control. I think the guy still wants to chat and will be in touch with you. Maybe he has been trying and you two just miss each other.....

the man may be busy ....but did you offer him pics hmmmmmmm

Because they lie.

maybe he just doesnt have time,i dont know same thing happened to me,argh!that sucks because i thought i made a friend
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Maybe because he might be thinking you're a bit obsessive? Try laying off for a while... and maybe he's caught on that you already have unrealistic expectations just in the couple of lines I read from you?

well maybe he is trully busy or think your an old man lol [kidding]

I think people who chat to strangers online can very quickly become freaked out. I don't think it takes very much to make this happen. Don't take it to heart.

I dunno... maybe things have come up in his real life - maybe he met a girl in real life and has lost intrest because he is pursueing someone else now.

I've been talking to a guy online for 2 months and its still fun. :/

Usually their all lies. Probably just want some dirty pix, phone sex, or real sex. Sorry, but you said serious answers so I got straight to the point!

cause its the internet.. its not like you two are dating you know... its different in real life. But its the internet so just move on... im sure he has

umm well, we've talked for at least 2 maybe 3 months.
he's totally awesome!! :)
we dont get bored talking..
hmm.. well he still answer's my IM's lol

but i've called him ONCE and his mom answered. =\
scaryy. lol

and for your case, yeah he just wanted some.

Because they don't aways tell the truth

Could be that he has run out of things to say. When you talk to someone a lot like that it can get old and he may think that you are pushing at him a little to talk. I don't think he is trying to get pictures because you didn't say anything about him asking for any right? And that seems like a lot of time and investment for a picture. Maybe just back off some and not im him for a few days and see what happens.

Just leave him alone for a lil bit. If he wants to talk let him come to you. Its never happened to me, i have someone online that I really like, we have so many things in common. I hope it lasts, so far it has, I think it will. Tell me how it turns out k? For real email me if u want to

Well it could be that he is running out of things to talk about. As you said you have been talking on the computer and phone which will take for some long conversations and that will make you run out of things to say. It could also mean that he might of found someone else to talk to in person and dosent need the company of a companion just over electronics. The question is what are you in it for are you looking to meet the guy and see if he is as nice in person or are you just looking for a friend?

It's possible that he could have just wanted dirty pics... has he asked for them?

He could also be busy with school work or something...

I hate it when someone takes the time to pm/email me and the minute they find out I have a bf they disappear.. it's kind of pathetic when they come online to score nudes or want to cyber.... what happened to just getting to know someone?

I think with anyone you chat with online you should keep it light! Internet people come and go like the wind. You've only chatted for a week.........certainly not what you'd call a committed relationship. You sound young.........just play and have fun and don't believe a word you read!!

Just keep after him honey. Steadily IM him, email him at least five times a day, and call as often as you can. He's just playing hard to get. ?

Sounds like you were just fun for a little while to him.

Hey, GF (as we say in Answerland) join the club. You are singing my song today!! (Thanks) This guy was friendly and happy and all of a sudden he Turned and I am way out of space and time!! Just let it go. Let's both do that, OK? Dirty pics, yes. But you will never know and thus is the saga of Answerland. There are many more for both of us. We can pass or play. (I will pass however.) Had a great boyfriend but let him go. Damn.

First of all, I don't think you should make friends with random people online, unless you have a mutual friend or something.

Maybe this guy was jobless for a week, and now he's really busy with stuff. Since you don't know him, don't make assumptions!

And face it, some people do have a short attention span! Deal with it!

i'm gonna have to go with player... been there, done that

Well, if you sent him those pics, that's probably all he wanted..

Ahh...online 'flings' are so weird and frustrating! for SO MANY reasons!! THE REAL THING. That's what's REALLY all about :)
Now, he might be getting too attached to you...no wait...that's how we, women react...hum...I think the best you can do is forget about that guy and get a real one!! :) don't waste your time with it.

Listen to Cherry.....PLAYA!

I know a few. LOL

Online relationships start off so well due to the lack of physical and social stigmatas. If you start talking too much, due to the lack of real interest. You'll obviously become over stimulated with them. A little time alone is best to make you or him more interested. (other words give him space, and he'll come crawling back. If he dosent talk back, who needs him)

There's always hope without the restraining order...

Is half serious ok?

Anything we tell you will be conjecture based on our experience not yours. You have to decide what you have or have not gotten yourself into. There can be any number of reasons, bad or not so bad that the communication has stopped.

Good luck.

I know right that's so annoying we should im some time

maybe they are too busy or they get tired of it.



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