How can I learn to shut up and shut down my emotions as well?!
Question: If this question was asked by anyone else I would have answered differently.
Seeing this is asked by my partner in crime I'll answer this in this way seeing I know you best.
What you say to me - because I know full well that this question pertains to me is that you do NOT need to shut up around me you worry far too much okay, the things you've told me have never and will never make me hate you but yet theres still part of your consciousness that doesnt listen to me and so you start beating yourself up you do NOT need to do this anymore.
I keep telling you that you're a good person that you shouldnt worry about saying things how they are.
Listen to me okay, and to put in some method acting here did Scully ever hold back from Mulder???????? Okay well there was twice you tried to shoot me, maybe that was a bad example but like I said we're partners in dealing with crime.
We could always talk about this on the phone even though my bill is gonna be astronomical but seriously dont worry about a thing.
Answers: If this question was asked by anyone else I would have answered differently.
Seeing this is asked by my partner in crime I'll answer this in this way seeing I know you best.
What you say to me - because I know full well that this question pertains to me is that you do NOT need to shut up around me you worry far too much okay, the things you've told me have never and will never make me hate you but yet theres still part of your consciousness that doesnt listen to me and so you start beating yourself up you do NOT need to do this anymore.
I keep telling you that you're a good person that you shouldnt worry about saying things how they are.
Listen to me okay, and to put in some method acting here did Scully ever hold back from Mulder???????? Okay well there was twice you tried to shoot me, maybe that was a bad example but like I said we're partners in dealing with crime.
We could always talk about this on the phone even though my bill is gonna be astronomical but seriously dont worry about a thing.
Try not to think about your emotions and try to think about what matters most 2 you.
Grow a penis. I'm sorry, it's the only way.
By learning Lifting and dropping. Try to make some sense. It would do u well.
When you know the answer to this, let me know.
I'm with Cessna.
That's why I drink. I don't know, it works for me though.
That takes YEARS. I have gotten so good at it that I can't turn them back ON. Trust me, you are lucky to be able to actually give a sh!t about something. Don't shut that out.
do what i do, stay in a room by yourself. its quiet and u dont think about how u feel.
Hey!
thanks for asking the question dear..
i cant wait till i see the answers because i have the same problem !
x nat x
Good luck trying.
I've tried lots of times and it won't last long...
I wish that I knew the answer to that. I have the same problem.
i agree. men are really the only ones that can do that.
Aww. Don't do that. You should speak up about what you think. If you shut down your emotions it will just come out in another way and it won't be healthy.
Perhaps you could just think a little more before you speak and practice listening.
You won't like the answer. You will have to pretend. And seethe. And not have fun, less it's alone.
Why would you want to shut down your emotions? That is how you feel. You should shut them down for no one. In my opinion, you don't need to learn to shut up, you need to learn to value yourself to know that your opinion and what you think is what makes you you. Why would you want to compromise any of it?
It is not a good thing to do, if there is one thing that I have learned in life is that never bottle up your emotions, it is deadly. I think that you are an amazing person and you have ever right to show your emotions. If you show your emotions then the ones that love you will still accept you. Dont ever shut up and there is always writing in a journal, I have found that to be one of my good Friends.
You tell me and we'll both know. I take it you're an emotional individual also. I think if we stick around here long enough we'll learn to control our emotions. :D Happy Easter!
Self control brings maturity. I'm 49 and still learning this! Do what I did, go to the doctor and get some medication.
'Believe'
Why should you? that's what makes you you....if you start shutting down your emotions you'll end up numb and bitter and if you stop speaking your mind you'll end up used and abused...sorry if that's not what you were looking for....
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We are emotional creatures us women! There's no shutting us up! We say what we feel . Emotions are what make us who we are. When I get mad I leave the situation until I calm down which may take awhile. lol ? Good Luck with that! ?
Depends which emotions you are talking about some emotions have to come out
OMG!
Are you English?
I thought you were Canadian...oh well, same difference I guess.
I thought you guys were taught that at birth.
I say 'Never shut up, and never shut down'!
LOL