How Do You Feel When Someone Questions Your Character?!
Question: How would you feel if someone thought you had an ulterior motive for the good things you do, when in reality it's just who you are and you are being yourself?
One of my cousins did that a few years ago when I sold property for my family...thought I was getting a kickback or making a profit. I was not and did not.
Answers: How would you feel if someone thought you had an ulterior motive for the good things you do, when in reality it's just who you are and you are being yourself?
One of my cousins did that a few years ago when I sold property for my family...thought I was getting a kickback or making a profit. I was not and did not.
Actually, I couldn't care less. I don't stick my nose into their business and they can keep theirs out of mine. The only one I have to answer to is my husband and we talk everything over before we do anything. If someone does not like our decision about something, that's too bad. Everything we have we worked for and if I want to do something good, or bad, I don't need to explain why to anyone.
annoyed
*slap*
I would look at the person doing the questioning and then just ignore them.
Ignoring stupid people comes in very handy.
Angry..annoyed..frustrated...
Especially when it's family and they should know me better..
When someone questions my character they are envious and suffer from lack of character.
well i get kinda upset because they dont understand me as well as i understand me.
I feel like they don't know me or anything. It makes me feel bad.
i hate it when people judge me. its like ummm you dont know me so who are you to pass any judgement on me. fcuk all the haters!
Sounds like your cousin is jealous cuz she isn't a good person like you. I would be annoyed as hell, but would realize that I know what kind of person I am. The family you sold property for knows the type of person you are too. She's a freak. =)
i wud rise above it and realize that it says more about the other person than it does about u. keep being u and don't let anybody bring u down. be yourself, because those who mind don't matter and those that matter won't mind.
People tend to judge me without getting to know me first, and that can really bug the mess out of me. Don't let that kind of thing bring you down, as it's only a reflection upon themselves.
yEAH People can't see the good in us
I carry on as normal in most cases. Screw `em.
No one who loves or cares about me would ever do that ... and if they did they would no longer be someone I loved or cared about. I am a person of action ... not just talk. So if someone looks at the good I do and degrades me for that by accusing me of having ulterior motives they aren't anyone I'd want around in the first place.
And if it was someone I didn't know I wouldn't really give two cents about their jealous accusations in the first place. People like your cousin tend to suffer from low self esteem and try to bring others down to their level so they feel better. I never have and never will allow someone to do that to me! Neither should you!
Keep doing the good that you do. The world needs more of it!!
Peace to you ...
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They do all the time, I learn to live with it. ~~Peace~~