Did I do the right thing..............?!
Question: .....my ex just called, he want to see me, after 6 years of not meeting just keeping in touch on the phone, now he wants to spend the saturday night with me. I am happy as I am, single just looking after the kids, I don't want to get involved with anyone, Oh and he broke my heart 6 years ago , forgot to tell me he has a wife, he still does (he said they are just friends now).
......So did I do the right thing by saying NO.........?
Answers: .....my ex just called, he want to see me, after 6 years of not meeting just keeping in touch on the phone, now he wants to spend the saturday night with me. I am happy as I am, single just looking after the kids, I don't want to get involved with anyone, Oh and he broke my heart 6 years ago , forgot to tell me he has a wife, he still does (he said they are just friends now).
......So did I do the right thing by saying NO.........?
You did.
Sounds pretty shady to me.
I'd be ULTRA careful with this situation. He's obviously not in a position (morally) to be getting up to anything but, as a man, he may be thinking of just one thing...
For your part, if you allow him to have what he obviously wants, it will damage you (emotionally), your relationship as it stands now (think how awkward those phone calls are going to be - if he calls at all) and most importantly, your kids lives (confusion!!!).
I don't want to preach to you but I think you know deep down that something isn't quite right about this situation.
After all, you must be some way to considering it by asking US about it...
Best of luck to you and above all else, look after yourself and your kids - everyone else is further down the list.
Yes
absolutely yes!!
Yep.
Yep totally you did.
yes, i would say so.
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Way to go girl, you rock, what a pig hey, how dare he just try to walk back into your life after what he did to you, you don't need that crap again.
yes you did...he is maybe tired of her now,,stay away...he will break your heart again...
For Certain, good on ya sista woman
Peace ?
absolutely
I admire your strength ;))
yea u did
if he just "forgets" to tell u he has a wife or did or w.e. thats just lame enough not to hang out wit him
hes sounds stupid. i say dont get involved
XoX Jen
yeah, hope you told him where to go aswell
Yes! just leave him alone!
You certainly did.....he's your ex for a reason! And of course him and his wife are just good friends, hmmmm, that's his story!!!
Indeed! Good on you! Now go out and have fun with your kids and friends. :)
pfffft what a total loser, ur better off without him! u defo did the right thing. well done u! xx
Yes you did, you're a star, you should be so proud of yourself. You aren't his bit on the side, you're a person. A mum to his kids and as such he should respect you for that. I think if thousands of other women were to take a leaf out of your book. There would be a much reduced membership to the "I'm a doormat" club........WELL DONE YOU.!
YES you most certainly did.
That is not something you want to get your kids and yourself involved in again. He is only looking for some action and called you because his wife is away visiting her sister or some such.
DO NOT fall in to that trap again.
I am proud of you.
YUPPER!
hell yeah hon. always remember an ex is an ex for a reason.
well done, yes you did, there is always a reason they are an ex, and they dint change, blue
hurrah for you, you totally did the right thing, hes out of your life leave it that way, he was a cad for asking.
Yes you did....