Do you get frustrated when people misunderstand you?!


Question: What can you do once people have an impression of you and you know it's wrong. Is there any way to get through to someone that you are not as bad as they think you are?


Answers: What can you do once people have an impression of you and you know it's wrong. Is there any way to get through to someone that you are not as bad as they think you are?

Yes it is very frustrating. I think the more you try the worse it gets. My advice would be tell them if their willing to listen and if not just carry on as usual. Eventually 'the truth will out' then they will see what your really like and feel awful for misunderstanding you. The only trouble is this often takes a long time.

just ignore it
you know who you really are. They are just a little kink in your day. Keep your head up. Ignore and have confidence. Thats what makes a girl sexy.

It's damned near impossible, let me tell you that. The best way is just to put on a good impression and try to persevere. But who cares what people think anyway? That's what I always say. Don't get too beat up over it. If they judge you too quickly and aren't willing to give you a second chance, they're not worth your time anyway.

no, im used to it..

show them what you really are. actually, the trick there is to not give a d@mn about what people say, because people would do anything to make others feel bad so they can feel better about themselves. let them think what they want: YOU know the truth.

Thats happened to be i've always been judged because of a stupid mistake i did in the past, people started making things up about me. Now all those judging twats have caused me to have depression and anxiety. Once you get a reputation for being like something you can't get rid.

People who do that are not worth thinking about, those closest to you know exactly who YOU are ...

I used to get frustrated when people misunderstood me, but after years of never having anyone understand, I got used to the idea that I'm just different.

Yep, especially when they're purposely playing dumb.

Yep what Kate C said.....Ignore it and Show that person who u really are by being youself and then they will see the real you and be sorry for Judging you like that.....

Cause only u know who u really are and no one can change that so dont listen to those dumb people and dont let them bring you down......Be strong and Like Kate C said Keep your head up....u are smart

Take Care ^_^

Once someone has it set in their mind what you're like u cant usually change it anyway. People like that aren't worth worrying about!!

it is so annoying... and then i hate it when they stay angry at you after you told them what you really said...because they THINK you said something there angry at what they THOUGHT not what IS

No I don't. C'est la vie - get used to it.

I don't really give a wet slap about what others think about me.
I like me the way I am - if they don't don't, too bad!

Yes,just come right out and say it 'you've got me all wrong' and explain.Its easy!

i get it all the time then once they get to know me they now they were wrong

Yes. Especially when they try and blame something on you or make accusations. If they don't believe you the first time you tell them, then they aren't worth the explination.

yep....i try my best to be friendly..and if it doesn't work then i would just leave them alone!


~peace~

Ignore him/he unless his/her oppinion is so important to you

Yeah ido,i think its difficult to change someones opinion when they have preconcieved ideas of who you are.
But if someone doesn't want to take the time to get to know me it doesn't bother me as i have lots of good friends x

People do this because they enjoy belittling you and they want to see how far they can push your button. I have even seen some Christians do it. I would just ignore them and refuse to talk to them. I ignored them like this and then they got really annoyed and I did it in public and they were embarressed. There is always a way to get revenge.

Yes, but I hold on to my frustrations and let them out only when I'm alone! (:

I usually ignore them ,,,then it`s their problem,,

Well, I suggest to let him/her find out the truth about yourself. It's more powerful then your thousand words or explanation.

Of coz you are not only waiting there, and let him/her find out. It won't work!!!!

You gotto do some trick.hehehehehe

Ask 3rd.party to simulate him/her, make the situation let him/her think that it was he himself find out the truth.

The difficult part would be this 3rd. party will be very skillfull and willing to help you. Then you will be alright ^^

Me-thinks,people can please themselves,if they like me or not. What you see,is all you get.

Yes and it's always happened and always will happen. I'm Aspergic and still find it hard to get my head round the rules of social etiquette.

Yeah, whats the point in explaing things over and over again... shouldn't they listen the first time??

People only misunderstand you if you haven't made yourself or your ideals clear to start with !-

i get even more frustrated when they act on it and try to influence other people with it.
anyway, just ignore what they think....as long as you are in peace with yourself.



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