If you found your one true love, would they occupy most of your time?!
Question: I would think that would be appropriate. Variety can add spice, but at the core, it should be each other.
Answers: I would think that would be appropriate. Variety can add spice, but at the core, it should be each other.
Yes, because I'm terribly lonely right now. :|
Thought I did and yes they did, until I realized she wasn't the one
I do/have but I do not want to smother her.
Yes, always. Epecially those early days when love is just starting. Overtime sounds great right now.
HAHAHAHA!! As if!!!
No not necessarily. I found mine 20 years ago. We've blended our lives together both in work and home. A lot of people couldn't both work and live together but we've luckily been able to do that. BUT.....we also understand when one needs space. We don't question it at all. We just give it. We both have our own hobbies and projects and just do them. We respect each other and the jealousy went out the door ages ago. Communication and trust is very important. I love it when mine goes on a golf trip of something. It lends me time to do my spa thing!!!!
I've found him and when we're not working we spend all of our time together. (Well, about 95% anyway.)
yes... and I would lose myself completely.
I have her.
And yes she does
Yes, because most of my untrue loves occupied most of my time.
yes and he does...
Well, in answer to this I will definitely say yes. Only he's at work, so the days are mine for whatever, but my evenings belong to him. He usually gets my undivided attention when he is home. >:D< This was a really good Q.
No doubth they would. But space can be a blessing and doesn't have to be bad. True love survives that kind of stuff.
True love would and is loving everything about each other, encouraging each other's dreams and helping each other to achieve the individual's potential. If those ideas can be achieved, then the love blossoms and bears fruit.
Good topic. If you mean by 'one', a person, and by 'time' you mean attention, I would say not really. In our culture there is what social scientists call the 'myth of romantic love', and part of that is the expectation you mention in your question. We get into expecting that we should feel absorbed in the partner, and them in us. So if that does not happen, then we can doubt if they are our 'one true love'. By exploring love to be more than emotion, and more the inner reality of Love, it is true that with that special ' one ' we can feel connected beyond time and space in a constant way. With that unity feeling, it is easier to accept and enjoy the diversity of our 'one', as they embrace their own life flow, without the artificial social expectation that they should be primarily attentive to us. Of course the 'ideal' and the 'real' create a bit of a roller coaster ride, as our moods and needs fluctuate throughout the days and weeks. And so we ride the waves....