Why do the ones that say they love us.....?!


Question: Seem so intent on destroying us? How do you ever learn to trust again!


Answers: Seem so intent on destroying us? How do you ever learn to trust again!

To be honest babe i wish i knew, Every person i ever Loved and trusted hurt me and mistreated my Trust, ive havent trusted anyone enough to let them close to me for at least 3 years now.
Hearts are like glass once broken even if you fix them the marks of shattering still remain.
*hugzz* xxx

move on or get destroyed .. simple

trust yourself-no one else!!

i dont trust hun i learned the hard way too

look at it from an outside view, maybe they are doing this to help you realize you are doing something wrong, and they do it because they care for you

cos love and hate are very closely linked together.... you can only be hurt by someone you love otherwise you wouldn't care

Keep loving yourself...

im not sure

Such is life...And it can be hard to trust again.

hurt them first before they hurt you

Because it is a true statement that those who are closest to you will hurt you the most... They have the power to do that to you.



There is such a fine line between hate and love, and you don't even know when it is crossed most of the time.

There's other fish in the sea!
Also the trustworthy loving ones, so take out your fishing gear & start fishing..

(if they're not good enough- just trow them right back in the sea)

Don't trust nobody - that's the only way 2 deal with it, unless you go completely numb and you won't be able to even be civil to anyone,

It ain't easy.

The reason it seems that way is because friends are the people who you are most likely to "drop your guard" around so they can hurt you much easier than someone who you aren't good friends with. That's also why it seems worse to be hurt by a good friend.

To fix it will take a lot of trust by you and a whole lot of honest redemption from them. That's why it's so hard. It probably ain't gonna be easy for you to trust them and it's probably gonna be difficult for the other person to show they are truly & genuinely repentant without coming looking phony.

Both sides have to be willing to work that situation out in order for it to be fixed. Many times it doesn't work out...

Begin with believing in yourself, and trusting in yourself to embrace the changes you cope through to get pass that emotional roller-coaster. Expand your thinking into positive action, move forward without them, stand strong, and shame them for having hurt you. Trust is something earned, and one who is loyal will understand that is your loud message. Stand firm in your beliefs, be strong, and participate in life to the fullest in positive ways. Surpass the coward that tried to destroy you...but don't give in to twisted game...conquer it! Hope that helps, thanks for asking.

The only person who has never destroyed my love and trust is my hubby, wish I could say the same about my family and so called friends.

Trust hurts. It takes a bit of time to get over getting your heart trampled on, but in time, you may be able to trust again.

My mum found it out the hard way that's one of the reasions why she devorced the b*****d. Life's a b***h and I went out with one.

I am too trusting i think. It is very hard though, maybe i have not been hurt enough yet to stop trusting people? x

its hard to move on sometimes but then you will find someone that you think you can love and want to trust there is only two thing you can do................take a leap of faith or take small steps

That isn't love darling, that is control. Love is just a word that some people use to get us to trust them. Don't fall for it.

Love is something that is shown, not spoken.



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