When is she going to grow up?!
Question: I'm talking about my mom. She dresses like a sleezy 16 year old with the REALLY low cut jeans, REALLY low cut V-neck shirts, and pigtails. She's 42 years old and has four kids.
Would you have any respect for her if you saw her?
This isn't normal for a 42 year old woman to do is it?
Answers: I'm talking about my mom. She dresses like a sleezy 16 year old with the REALLY low cut jeans, REALLY low cut V-neck shirts, and pigtails. She's 42 years old and has four kids.
Would you have any respect for her if you saw her?
This isn't normal for a 42 year old woman to do is it?
Im also 42 and I have a 17 year old son BUT I would never dream of wearing anything to embarrass him. Iam like 5 ft 1 and weigh 104 lbs so I do have to buy my jeans in juniors but i dont run around letting my tummy and boobs hang out all the time either! And I was still voted the hottest mom in the school! They have a competition each year- and everyone votes and Ive won 3 yrs straight. I agree- u can be sexy and pretty and NOT have to show everything u have! U can be classy and sexy too! Ive seen a few that age act this way and dress like they are 16 and u r right- it looks disgusting and totally embarrassing for you. Let her know how u feel. Ask her to please cover up when she comes to the school or out in public around people u know. Tell her how it makes u feel. If she still doesnt tone it down- let her know u are going to pretend u dont know her when she does it- that u will not bring friends over to be embrrassed in front ot. My heart goes out to u!
Not with pigtails thats for sure I would lmao
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I'm sorry you're having this problem, and I don't have the answer, contact jerry springer though.
Why don't you have any respect for her?
she is your mother. you shouldn't be calling her sleezy.
you should love her for who she is and be able to accept her especially if there's a possibility that others won't.
*shrugs shoulders* Whatever turns her on is ok with me. I'm no judge.
Maybe the pigtails are a little over the top!
idk...sorry
I would respect her because she is my mother but I would feel sorry for her at the same time because I think she would need some help from outside sources such as a psychologist.
mid life crisis? my mother went through the same thing and still is after menopause shes 48 now
put her on What not to wear
if it bothers you
then you should talk to her
now yes it is..i see women older than i am dressing skanky too..and i have yet to figure it out....cause i dont dress that way..i do believe you can be sexy without being skanky
No She is not setting a good example for you but you seem smart enough to know she needs to grow up take her on one of those make over shows
I'd think she was trying to kling to her youth. She still wants to feel like a sexy attractive woman. She just doesn't know how. Check out what not to wear, they have good pointers on this subject. She needs to learn how to dress age appropriate and learn that you can still look very sexy.
It sounds as though she is having a difficult time with aging. I would not say it is normal. Perhaps in her mind she is still very young.
Try to talk to her about it. Love her for who she is.
i think she sounds cool. leave her alone. she's not bothering you. she's having fun. would you prefer she was knitting dog sweaters? alright then, quit complaining - she's fine.
I don't think so maybe talk to her say whoa mom thats a little low isn't it or thats a little small. but it depends.....if she's one of those young mom's or a lady who wants to be young. Maybe talk to her or mention it lightly.
take her on maury or jerry.
Someone at that age? Probably no. I'd think she would be sleazy as you say. But who am I to judge anybody?
I would die if my mom dressed like that, and she is also 42. You should sign her up for one of those shows like Tyra Banks, they can usually correct the situation...lol
hmmm .... sounds like a lot of mom's I've seen.
i guess they are saying They are gonna flaunt it for as long as they have it. But I say let the pigtail loose.
she never grew up in the first place .Oh believe me its gonna get worse.I have mom that competes with her daughters and tries to dress like shes a Baby Phat model and wear hair all young. I blame the fact my mom got pregnant at 16 and didn't get to enjoy her teen years so she is really acting it out now at age 58. its not gonna get better at all just except her and move on cause they are just gonna tell you that" I'm Grown and I'm gonna do what the hell i want to do". That my moms favorite quote. Me and my older sister are in our 30's so just imagine what we had to put up with in our 20's.
i wouldnt do that
Yes it is normal for a 42 year old woman to be dressing in the manner you are writing about.
I don't know if it is expected but it is normal. Some women don't even get married unil they are near 40 so they are still in their independence stage in their development.
All you can do is tell her that you whih she would dress differently around you and your friends but it is likely hat she will tell you the same thing.
Think about all those actresses at the movies, Julia Roberts, Sandra Bullock, Demi Moore, Selma Hayek, Heather Graham, Marissa Tomei, the list goes on and on. They are all dressing similarly and they are all near or slightly older than 40.
Blame it on the movies.