How well can you deal...?!
Question: with other people's insecurities? Do they add up to yours and make you feel miserable, or do you feel more confident seeing that others have problems too?
Answers: with other people's insecurities? Do they add up to yours and make you feel miserable, or do you feel more confident seeing that others have problems too?
I don't compare. What might seem as a major deal for someone might not be for another. I use to think that everybody's problems were worse than mine and kept mine to myself. One day after starting therapy and having group therapy I had people coming up to me and saying how rough I had it. I thought man, you're crazy you definitely had it harder than me. I realized though that I had it rough, at least what was rough for me. If I could have dealt with it I would not have toyed with the idea of quiting life and I certainly would not be in therapy. So let's not compare who has it worse let's just try to understand each other and respect what the other has gone through.
It's nice to know we all have problems, just don't tell my ex that
i just deal with my own insecurities.
other's dont make me feel miserable,
it's just that i can deal on my own without
having some sort of emotional breakdown.
I am told by my therapist that I take on too many of the troubles of loved ones, I can't help it I am my fathers son. I get no pleasure from seeing others suffer at all be it with insecurity or any other malady, I do enjoy when the bully slips on the banana peel and falls on his @ss, I am guilty of that...
It depends on who the person is, for me. My ex's insecurities seemed to make mine worse and the result was disaster and unhappiness. There are other factors in what happened to that relationship too though. Sometimes, when I am dealing with one of my parents, their insecurities tend to scare me, because I realize that they are just as vulnerable as I am, and they don't always know what to do in certain situations. And yet with others, with close friends, their insecurities comfort me and remind me that everybody is human...okay my brain is strange!
~ Some i have really related to, and some
wish there was something i could do
to help!